Hi Bernadette! I’m glad you’re still engaged here.
I know that I do not possess all the great skills of debate that others of these boards do, so I will just read everyones’ answers if anyone chooses to post.
I’m not a debater, neither the brains nor the temperament for it. Those debates seem to erupt around the rest of us once the topics get going. I’m glad to have learned a number of things from responses made in this thread in the nature of dialogue. That is always so helpful for me as I seek to learn more about Orthodoxy and our ECCs.
When I went to St. Luke the Evangelist Orothodox Church’s website, which appears to be connected to the Russian Orthodox Church and read their Liturgy, the Entrance Prayers were quite atonishing to me…
I am not familiar with our Easter Rite Churches so I can’t say anything about their liturgies, but find that from what I have read the Orthodox place Mary as high or even higher than the Catholic Church does.
At the risk of getting in trouble again

, as a lay person, Latin Rite, with a limited number of experiences in mainly Byzantine CC (a couple Sundays most months), and in Russian Orthodox (OCA), Greek Orthodox (GOArch, and Jerusalem Patriarchate) churches, those Orthodox visits mainly on Feast Days, I cannot tell the difference between the Divine Liturgy of St. John Chrysostom at my Byzantine Church and the Divine Liturgy of St. John Chrysostom at this Russian Orthodox and at these Greek Orthodox churches, all in the western US. I humbly say that so you might have an idea of the reality of the closeness of the Divine Liturgy of St. John Chrysostom Catholic and Orthodox, at least
in these cases and from my lay Latin perspective.
Were you to come to a Byzantine CC for Liturgy I think you might indeed *experience * a much larger place for Mary the mother of God, Theotokos, in the text/hymnography of Liturgy than in the text and hymns of a Latin Rite Mass, NO or EF. What our understanding as Latins is of that language and prominence as compared to the Eastern understanding of that is another topic, but as a Latin Catholic I would agree with the
impression you expressed as you looked at the language of the Liturgy. (“These words are quite strong and to me it appears that the Orthodox do consider the Blessed Mother much higher than we do.”) Someone else can say how many times the Theotokos is addressed in the Divine Liturgy of St. John Chrysostom I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s 100 or more. I think the impression you and I as Latins get (in the absence of catechesis) and the theology expressed are probably not the same thing.
I understand that the Orthodox would rather refer to many teachings as mysteries of the faith and that the Catholic Church has felt the need to define the mysteries of faith…
…To me the Catholic Church is so straight up about Her doctrines and dogmas, altough I don’t articulate them well I understand them.
I think you are
in part expressing here a misconception. Some of the difference is in the mind of the churches, but also some is the result of cultural and historic differences in the problems that faced “Rome” and the problems that faced “Constantinople”. (I’m not sure really those two things are different – which came first, the chicken or the egg, the mindset or the cultural/historical differences

) I think these
interviews with Fr. Abbot Nicholas, Abbot of Holy Resurrection Romanian Catholic Monastery in Placentia, CA talking about
Eastern Catholic Theology are very helpful. In Part 2 around minute 5 Catherine Alexander asks Father about the Immaculate Conception question. I
strongly encourage you to* listen to all of Part 1 first*, and to listen to all of Part 2, where he addresses some fundamentals about the different theologies, the relationship of Eastern Churches to Rome on topics like this, doctrines and dogma- the ECCs can’t “say the dogmas are heretical’, but can say that
"these ways of expressing that truth are foreign to us[ECs]…
outside their theological patrimony” as Fr. Nicholas repeatedly phrases it. (He addresses that he is in the western part of the ECCs and mentions the more oriental churches, but he is mainly speaking from the Byzantine Romanian tradition, albeit he’s Australian

) I think all of Catherine’s interviews on that site with the HRM monks are very helpful. I keep returning to them periodically. I hope you looked at some of the video I suggested before about
Eastern Catholic Churches which also can be a very helpful introduction.
You’re comparing Orthodoxy and the Catholic Church but again, the Roman Catholic Church is not the whole of the Catholic Church, and I think you do not understand the place of these teachings in the rest of the
Catholic Church. Catherine Alexander’s interviews of the monks, and the Eastern Christian Media videos are intended as basic introductions. The debates interspersed here in this thread are at at different level. I suggest that listening to Father Nicholas could be really helpful to you for understanding further the concerns you have brought up here and some of the responses given.
God Bless-
Marylouise
‘… the Holy Theotokos and Ever Virgin Mary has been exalted above all intellectual creation in the heavens and here on earth. She is “more honored than the Cherubim and incomparably more glorious than the Seraphim,” the two high and holy ranks of the angelic world who serve at the throne of God. How can we not praise and magnify her since she is the Mother of the Lord Jesus Christ Who is the Light and the Life of all creation?’ -Metropolitan Isaiah of Denver