I am not either Orthodox or Catholic but I want to join one of them. I have been reading a lot about them and am not sure what one to join.To be honest I think I am leaning more towards Catholicism. Can someone tell me the differences between the two and why the Catholic way is right? Much appreciated
I know this thread has been going on for quite some time (though with a slight lull since the last post), but I would like to revisit the original post. I am also neither Orthodox or Catholic and would like to join one of them, so I am always interested to see others working through the same decision process.
I’m not going to suggest why the Catholic way is right, as I simply do not know if it is. However, I cannot make a strong suggestion the other way, either. I can mention a few differences I have noticed, however, as well as my thoughts on them.
One key difference for me is the marriage issue. The Orthodox Church allows remarriage after divorce, in certain cases, while the Catholic Church does not. However, many Orthodox and others would say that the Catholic annulment process has the practical result of *nullifying *the strong Catholic stand on the matter.
Another issue is contraception. The Catholic Church forbids it, and they make some pretty compelling arguments (in my opinion, at least), while the Orthodox Church does tend to allow it (though perhaps without fully approving of its use).
These two issues are quite significant, because you have the Orthodox Church allowing that which is a *mortal sin *in the Catholic Church. One would really want to make sure one is making the right decision on something so serious.
It is also my understanding (and I welcome correction, if wrong) that the Orthodox Church tends to have a slightly higher view of the current human condition, as opposed to the view of the Catholic Church. I refer specifically to the effect of Adam and Eve’s sin on their descendants. For example, while some Catholics have believed that this inherited stain and/or lack of sanctifying grace was sufficient grounds in and of itself for damnation, even for unbaptized infants who die in the womb, the Orthodox tend to be more hopeful.
In a related issue, the Orthodox tend to put more emphasis on Christ coming to Earth to save us from death, rather than coming to Earth to take our just punishment from an angry Father. This is not to imply that the latter is the Catholic view, but I believe the Orthodox would see the Catholics as being much closer to that view than they are.
Fasting in Orthodoxy is a great deal more demanding than in Catholicism, something which I, with my Evangelical Protestant background, would likely find to be a struggle. Plus, for all the Orthodox Church’s permissiveness when it comes to contraception, they don’t hesitate to tell married couple’s which nights of the year (less than half, I believe) they are allowed to have sexual intercourse. This is a huge change from Evangelical Protestantism, where the general attitude is “the more the better, and praise God for how awesome it is.”
I don’t know what to think about Marian apparitions, weeping icons, or the Holy Fire. I’m really not trying to make a decision based on such things. After all, even pharaoh’s magicians could turn staffs into snakes, and Joseph Smith and Mohammed both claimed to be visited by heavenly apparitions.
It is difficult for me to study the early Church fathers, Scripture and history and determine which Church was right in their disputes. With the Reformation, one can clearly see the Protestants saying, “The pope was over us, now he is not, and we shall go our own way.” With the Catholic-Orthodox split, I don’t see the Orthodox saying anything like this. It seems that there were different attitudes about papal authority very early on, and that the split did not require either side to reject that which was previously held.
The Orthodox Church seems to have “less” doctrines, and they have changed very little in the last thousand years. The Catholic Church, on the other hand, has officially defined a number of doctrines that would not have been required belief for a Christian in the undivided Church of the first millenium. The Orthodox Church prides itself on not using scholastic analysis to define that which is ultimately unknowable. Still, go to an Orthodox forum, search for “essences,” “energies,” “created,” and “uncreated,” and you will be treated to a very passionate display of what I like to call “Eastern scholasticism.”
Which Church is the one Church founded by Jesus Christ? The cynic in me is tempted to say that we seriously messed up a while back, and it doesn’t exist anymore, but there is a hopeful side to me, too, and it is a great deal stronger. So, I will continue searching, praying that God will guide me to His Church.
May God bless you all!
