Except ROCOR wasn’t Old Calendarist, it simply had an Old Calendarist fringe. You also never bothered to make the distinction clear, and you treated the Old Calendarist factions as being on par with the Church itself, even when it was pointed out that they all originated out of a Bishop in schism with the established Hierarchy of the Church, yet you somehow hold them as more authoritative than the similar Catholic groups.
Regarding the Calendar, yes Patriarchs and Holy Synods have condemned it (and I must say the opinions, and they were always just that, expressed by the Patriarchs were quite accurate. Changing the calendar was quite disruptive, however there came a point when it was less disruptive to change it.
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Yep, because they aren’t held to be infallible, nor are their words binding for all time. Popes have contradicted Popes. Today at work I happened to be reading about all the times Pope Pius IV contradicted his predecessor Paul IV, and undid a number of his policies. Now based on what you said above, either you hold no confidence in the Papacy either, or that was plain polemics.
I don’t know the details of where did Pope Pius IV contradict Paul IV, but if they contradicted each other in matters of faith and morals, I would be in panic now. That would mean, it’s time for me to stop wasting my time listening to and obeying the Catholic Church, because the Catholic Church does not possess the fullness of truth. Policy or Church discipline, on the other hand, is another business. One thing that comes to mind, is the different fasting and abstinence rules in Catholic Churches of different rites. Another example is how the Feasts are celebrated by the Roman Catholic Church in different countries - certain Feasts are celebrated on the weekdays in some countries, but on the weekends in other countries. And the Feast of Easter (Pascha) is celebrated by Catholics (Melkite and Roman) in Syria together with the Orthodox, with the Pope’s approval.
I think the difference between Catholic and Orthodox attitude to policy/discipline is that the Catholic Churches of different rites or same rite but different countries do not condemn each other over the issue of different policies/discipline, and will not break communion with each other because of their different policies/discipline. But the EO attitude is different, and EO Churches have been out of communion with each other over such issues as the Calendar. The Calendar is a big deal for EO Churches because different EO Churches have chosen to condemn each other as heretics, and break communion with each other, over the issue of Calendar.
Even the issue of the ban on pews and musical instruments in the church has been an important one to my Russian acquaintances. Here’s the joke again - it is a window into the Russian psyche. It’s an authentic Russian joke, I didn’t invent it. This is how Russians think about the Calendar, the pews, and other issues of Church discipline:
Train Tale
Two people meet on a train. After some introductory chat, they discover both are Orthodox and of Russian descent.
Vlad: Old Calendar or New Calendar?
Alex: Old.
Vlad: Very good. Do you have a three-hour Vigil in church every Saturday night and before every holy day, even if the holy day is on a Monday?
Alex: Yes.
Vlad: Excellent. Pews or no pews?
Alex: No.
Vlad: Clean-shaven or bearded priest?
Alex: Bearded.
Vlad: Does he wear his cassock and cross on the street?
Alex: Da.
Vlad: Is your jurisdiction ecumenist or non-ecumenist?
Alex: Non.
Vlad: Do you have an old-man Trinity icon?
Alex: Uh, yes.
Vlad: Aha! Heretic!
Regarding the Calendar, I still refuse to call it a fringe issue on the basis of my experience with Russian Orthodox people. I can’t put a percentage on it, how many percent of Russians regard New Calendar Churches as heretics, but it’s not a fringe. When priests are telling their faithful not to present themselves to communion in New Calendar Churches, and the faithful drive three hours to the nearest Old Calendar Church, two states and more than a hundred miles away, and this happens in the largest group of EO people - the Russian, that’s not fringe to me.
Moreover, in countries such as Greece, where the Old Calendar EO Churches not in communion with the larger New Calendar EO Church of Greece make up a minority, this minority insists that truth and true Orthodoxy is not dependent on numbers. Thus, the Old Calendar Churches in Greece regard themselves as the only true Orthodox, even if their membership numbers are less than those of the New Calendar Churches. If the majority of the Holy Synod of the Church of Greece decided to transition to the New Calendar, that still doesn’t stop the dissenting minority as regarding the majority as schismatic and heterodox, and I don’t see why should a minority be summarily dismissed as “fringe” just because their number is smaller. During the Old Testament, there was a time when the majority of priests and prophets of Israel had fallen into idolatry, and only the minority stayed faithful to God. Also, in early Christianity, there was a time when a majority of the Church has fallen into Arian heresy. Thus, I can see the point of Greek Old Calendar Churches regarding themselves as the true Orthodox, despite of their small numbers.
Regarding issues of faith and morals, I think we should mention that the EO Churches have changed their teachings on the issue of “ecclesiastical divorce” and artificial birth control (birth control pills, tubal ligation, vasectomy etc). Now, if the Catholic Pope came out today to approve “ecclesiastical divorce” or ABC, THAT WOULD MAKE ME PANIC!