I understand what you’re saying, and I agree that acknowledging most women cannot meet the same physical requirements as men does mean there is any hatred involved. I wasn’t referring to double standards regarding pay or physical requirements. The double standard I referred to was the one proclaimed by those who criticize the feminist equality attitude in general. According to them, it is feminists who are upholding a double standard by demanding equal rights in a country and yet bypassing the responsibility of serving the country militarily. (Not that this is an issue at this point, as our military is voluntary. It only would become an issue if there were a draft imposed.)
To rephrase my question; if the men and women who view this current intrusion into military life as a uniquely *feminist *imperative (of which they don’t approve, as is their right), how would they react if there were a draft imposed? Would they tell the feminist to put her money where her mouth is, and serve equally, or would she be afforded the special privilege to defer service? And if she *did *defer service, would there be a complaint that she is being hypocritical by not wanting equality when it doesn’t suit her desires?
It seems the biggest concern is that women usually don’t meet the physical requirements. To me, that is not a negligible concern - it is quite a valid one. But if a woman *did *meet the same requirements that men have to, would that change things? Would she be welcome as a team player, and not be seen as a feminist, but rather as just another physically capable person willing to serve her country? It’s a tricky subject. I’m trying to see it from different points of view.