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This is great. Many people don’t get that part either.Felicity, thanks much for your kind words.
I’m not questioning why God loves me at all. I realize I can know part of that from my own experiences with my 2 daughters.
Why should you feel guilty that it happened? You should not feel guilty but GRATEFUL.I’m talking about the Passion, and should I feel guilty that it happened?
If you are in dire straits, and a friend or relative comes to your aid unbidden, because they see your struggle and wish to lighten your load- do you feel GUILTY or GRATEFUL for their help?
He took the pain of rejection of the first man and woman- and still loved them. He punished them, but still loved them. He wanted them to be with him in “Paradise” again, along with all their children- down to you and me.
So he sent his son to endure the final punishment that post-Adam man was unable to overcome- Death.
I do not believe God wants us to carry around guilt because of the Passion. I believe he wants us to realize the extent he would go to, to bring us back to his fold realize the enormity of it and be Grateful- not Guilty.
The whole thing was to remove GUILT so we could join with God again… why would he want us to feel guilt after?
I do not believe the feeling one gets from realizing the depth of the sacrifice that a friend has made for us on our behalf in our time of need is guilt. That emotion which fills us with love and appreciation for that person- is not guilt.
You aren’t at fault that Christ died- in the sense you didn’t make the original bad choice- that fault belongs to Adam and Eve. But part of the punishment Adam got was the immediate and extended seperation from God and from Paradise which included his kin. I guess I don’t really see that as a punishment in the penal sense of the word, but more in the consequence sense of punishment.Some Protestants seem to revel in that Act as a way to “convict” people of their sin. I can be grateful that God would go to lengths to provide for me…but I can’t logically understand how it is my fault that Christ died–being that (and the jury’s still out in my mind) most everyone has and will sin. And that’s despite positions I’ve heard that ‘people can be sinless’.
i.e. If I choose to drive drunk with my entire family in the car, and I hit a tree and kill them all except for me, I have two punishments. A penal one- I’m going to jail for their deaths. And a consequence one. I will never have my family again- I will personally carry around the guilt for that. But the “punishment” doesn’t stop there. The friends and family of the people killed would feel pain and sadness, and the “consequence punishment” of my personal actions.
But imagine God suddenly came to earth and brought back my family whom I had killed in the crash. The “consequence punishment” would be removed. I would still be responsible for the “penal punishment” of my actions- that is, I would still be responsible for the original act to begin with, but God ‘saved’ my friends and family from the pain and seperation from the ones I had killed.
Of course we do not knowingly lay penal punishment on someone who doesn’t deserve it. But again, there is the aspect of a “residual consequence punishment”. Jesus died to save you from the penal consequence of Original Sin and any mortal sin where you turn your back on God’s Love.If a dog can’t fly, we do not blame the animal for that. If a person cannot be sinless, are we to blame the person for not being perfect and have them study the Passion and feel a huge sense of guilt, a la “Jesus died because of your sins”.
You are still responsible for the ‘eternal penal punishment’ aspects of all sins you choose to commit.
I might not be making a very good analogy here- with the whole drunk driver thing. The basic premise here is that Jesus died so that any sins you have will not affect your ability to get to Heaven and be with God, just because Adam made one stupid choice some millenia ago.
God agrees with you! The Passion happened because God agrees with you! He wants you to join with him, not feel the aspect of ‘consequence punishment’ of the punishment that Adam and Eve brought on themselves.
(My Faith tells me this, I do not presume to know the mind of God.)
I do understand what you mean. I hope I was clear in my response.Are you catching my drift? I’m starting to wonder if Catholics really see the Passion that way…more and more it just seems like God had a contingency plan (the cross) due to the fact of Original Sin.