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One is a member of the Church in the same way one is a member of a family - not by virtue of any act of yours but merely by virtue of being born to your mother and father. It is a relationship that cannot be severed no latter what you try - changing your name and appearance, moving out of home, denying all relationship etc. And that relationship carries with it obligations and responsibilities.We both read the same things and draw different meanings and conclusions.
I can only reconcile your arguments by supposing that the Church, when it uses the term âmemberâ, does not mean it in the ordinary sense of the word, that is, of a person who voluntarily joins an organization. If the Church counts you as a member simply by virtue of the fact that a priest baptized you, then it is not of your doing and so there should be no feeling of betrayal by anyone who renounces such a membership.
Itâs like if I tell you that because you have replied to my post, you are now a member of the Sherlock Society of Posters, a Sherlockian. You didnât join; I made you a member. If you decide to walk away from the Society, I might then call you a fallen away Sherlockian. There is no negative connotation to that, as there should be no negative connotation to a fallen away Catholic who never once believed in the tenets of the Catholic Faith. Itâs too bad that people (not you) shame a person who conscientiously, although mistakenly, renounces his Catholic faith. Itâs only shameful if the person believes in the faith, but to protect his sin, he renounces it, like Henry VIII.
A quick question. If a Catholic priest comes upon an accident and baptizes the Jewish man lying unconscious in the street, does the Jew become a Catholic?
My model for this discussion we are in is the first Christians. They heard, they believed, they asked to be baptized, and they were baptized. That is where I got the fundamental idea that Church membership is meant to be a voluntary thing, requiring both a profession of faith and a baptism, not necessarily in that order. I hope the meaning of the word âmemberâ is the way out of this discussion.![]()
You will never be allowed to marry a biological sibling, for example, no matter how much you might want to believe that that the biological - DNA - link doesnât matter, however much you might feel like you donât have a sibling relationship with this person. Even if you attempt it - heck, even if you donât know you are related when you try - it will not legally be a valid marriage.
In a similar way, you spiritually become a member of The Church through your baptism. Which changes the âDNAâ of your soul, if you like, to create a relationship GATT can never be severed.