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OK sorry.Read it again, I said “one of”. The biggest is of course, a child being hurt.
OK sorry.Read it again, I said “one of”. The biggest is of course, a child being hurt.
No problem, sometimes I tend to type faster than my brain works, so I had to go back and read it again myself!OK sorry.
Yes, but Pope Benedict’s policy was ZERO tolerance and much of it was directed at the seminary level. I think we’re starting to see that the Pope was indeed serious.It is sad that the ones who provide God’s mercy are shown no mercy. Are there bad men in the priesthood? Yes, but again it is the tiny minority of the men who wear the collar.
Don’t know. Are these maybe the dates where alleged abuses occurred?Am I missing something about 2002-3?
I believe “correction” was offered by all parties.First off my friend, I didn’t “draw you back in”. That would be your need to come back and “correct” us. I commented on an earlier post before I read the one where you decided to bow out.
You state emphatically that it is not true. How do you know? Is it not possible that my opinion is valid? That my inference is correct? We’d like to think the best of people, but many times we are disappointed. And certainly the Church—when it comes to child abuse in its ranks—has disappointed us before.In the emphasized statement from your post here and going back to your past comments, it is easy to see your statements leading people to think your diocese wants abuse allegations to go to the diocese first, that is not true.
Yes, I do believe that you are angry. No one likes the thought of our Church being the home of villainous child molesters. But the truth is very difficult to swallow. We’re shocked, upset and angry. We don’t know where we should be directing our feelings; after all, we don’t know the real offenders. I just happened to be around for a target. I can understand that.No one is “jumping on you” for something you “obviously” did not say. We were commenting on what you stated and the implications of your statements, they stand for themselves.
Where you make your mistake is in the last statement of the first paragraph; “I find it terribly ironic that some of you are getting more angry at me than you are at the priests dismissed for being child molesters.”
Do you really think we are angry with you??? What’s even more troubling is that you think we are more angry at you, an anonymous internet poster, than predators who abuse children? Really? I’m not sure if you understand this but, we’re on the same team!
Yes, the majority of priests are good, no doubt, and only a small fraction are evil. But I’d like to make more of you understand the big picture. The Church is enormous. A small fraction of “enormous” is therefore a large number. I consider 400 defrocked priests to be an outrageous number. These are 400 men whom the Church knows definitely to have committed offenses against God’s little ones. How many more offenders are there for whom the Church cannot yet definitively say are guilty of abuse? This is infinitely frightening to me, as I’m sure it must be for you. Where we differ is how the Church is dealing with this crisis. I, and others, notably the members of SNAP, believe that she is doing a poor job. The two points of weakness are as I mentioned above, in my first post on this thread. IMHO, she must strongly encourage victims to notify law enforcement first, with no hesitation. She also must vigorously deliver to secular authorities not only those members of the Church responsible for abuse itself, but also those responsible for shielding the abusers from just punishments. The one recent example of the failure to do such things was the release of Monsignor William Lynn. The Archdiocese of Philadelphia put up his bail. If you or I had committed a wrong to a neighbor, we would be advised to confess, and to right the wrong, accepting all consequences of committing the sin in the first place. This Archdiocese is not following its own advice to sinners. Can you see how people get the impression that the Catholic Church is not doing all it can?We just simply corrected your implication which caused negative thoughts or feelings against diocesan staffs and the many many good priests and bishops who do the work of the Lord with complete faithfulness. The vast majority of priests are good holy men! It is only a tiny percentage of priests who abused their office to hurt people for personal sick reasons; and very few bishops who by their ignorance of the root of the problem helped cover it up.
The Church is dealing with this quite well and we need to pray for Her ministers and for the administrations of dioceses.
I would hope by now parents have taught their kids what abuse actually is. It seems many didn’t realize the abuse until well into their adulthood, having trusted their priests (or nuns, for that matter) to always be in the right. Can occur almost anywhere, sacristy, confessional, locker room, bathroom, and public shower seem to have been the frequent environment, from the reports I’ve heard. And one priest I personally know of, downplayed the acts in his testimony to a reporter but didn’t deny them either.IMHO, she must strongly encourage victims to notify law enforcement first, with no hesitation.
It is obvious to me you have been hurt by the Church and/or Her ministers, for that I sincerely apologize and wish you well.I believe “correction” was offered by all parties.
You state emphatically that it is not true. How do you know? Is it not possible that my opinion is valid? That my inference is correct? We’d like to think the best of people, but many times we are disappointed. And certainly the Church—when it comes to child abuse in its ranks—has disappointed us before.
Yes, I do believe that you are angry. No one likes the thought of our Church being the home of villainous child molesters. But the truth is very difficult to swallow. We’re shocked, upset and angry. We don’t know where we should be directing our feelings; after all, we don’t know the real offenders. I just happened to be around for a target. I can understand that.
Yes, the majority of priests are good, no doubt, and only a small fraction are evil. But I’d like to make more of you understand the big picture. The Church is enormous. A small fraction of “enormous” is therefore a large number. I consider 400 defrocked priests to be an outrageous number. These are 400 men whom the Church knows definitely to have committed offenses against God’s little ones. How many more offenders are there for whom the Church cannot yet definitively say are guilty of abuse? This is infinitely frightening to me, as I’m sure it must be for you. Where we differ is how the Church is dealing with this crisis. I, and others, notably the members of SNAP, believe that she is doing a poor job. The two points of weakness are as I mentioned above, in my first post on this thread. IMHO, she must strongly encourage victims to notify law enforcement first, with no hesitation. She also must vigorously deliver to secular authorities not only those members of the Church responsible for abuse itself, but also those responsible for shielding the abusers from just punishments. The one recent example of the failure to do such things was the release of Monsignor William Lynn. The Archdiocese of Philadelphia put up his bail. If you or I had committed a wrong to a neighbor, we would be advised to confess, and to right the wrong, accepting all consequences of committing the sin in the first place. This Archdiocese is not following its own advice to sinners. Can you see how people get the impression that the Catholic Church is not doing all it can?
This is exactly why I said the Church will never win. If the pope removes these people, it is outrageous. If he doesn’t it is outrageous. These 400 were defrocked for actions committed over the past four decades, not for a problem that existed at one point in time.I consider 400 defrocked priests to be an outrageous number.
SNAP is a pool of anti-Catholic sentiment, devoid of logic, and impossible to please.I, and others, notably the members of SNAP, believe that she is doing a poor job.
Sin? As we can not impute moral judgment due God alone, and lack both his omniscience and the ability to read minds, I question your labeling of him as a sinner. He did not abuse children. That has not been alleged. Whether his action were immoral are not for you to say, as per the words of Jesus, warning against judging others.The one recent example of the failure to do such things was the release of Monsignor William Lynn. The Archdiocese of Philadelphia put up his bail. If you or I had committed a wrong to a neighbor, we would be advised to confess, and to right the wrong, accepting all consequences of committing the sin in the first place. This Archdiocese is not following its own advice to sinners.
I don’t think that the Church is being unfairly characterized. And what the heck difference does it make when the abuse happened? It happened. Isn’t that bad enough?This is exactly why I said the Church will never win. If the pope removes these people, it is outrageous. If he doesn’t it is outrageous. These 400 were defrocked for actions committed over the past four decades, not for a problem that existed at one point in time.
That’s your argument?SNAP is a pool of anti-Catholic sentiment, devoid of logic, and impossible to please.
The day that shielding child molesters becomes acceptable, i.e. not sinful, in the Church’s eyes, is the first day of her demise. I have been told time and time and time again on CAF that we can judge based on someone’s actions. For example, I have lost count of how many times posters have called homosexuals “sinners” because they engage in homosexual sex. Why the double standard for priests? Lynn was judged to have covered up abuse by a jury of his peers. Tell me that is not a sin. He was only released because of a legal loophole. He was not judged to be innocent by any means.The Church does encourage reporting. Anyone who has gone through training knows that the mandatory reporting laws are studied and emphasized.
Sin? As we can not impute moral judgment due God alone, and lack both his omniscience and the ability to read minds, I question your labeling of him as a sinner. He did not abuse children. That has not been alleged. Whether his action were immoral are not for you to say, as per the words of Jesus, warning against judging others.
Now you can say that it is immoral to act to protect children, if one knows such action is necessary, but you do not know that. As to him being released, I would like to point out that it is the justice system, not the Church that vacated his sentence. A bail was set out of proportion with the accusation so the AB acted out of justice, something SNAP says they believe in, unless it is a priest that needs justice.
You owe me no apology. I have not been personally injured by child molesters, but I like to think that I can sympathize with their victims.It is obvious to me you have been hurt by the Church and/or Her ministers, for that I sincerely apologize and wish you well.
The Church actually goes further than shielding and grants forgiveness to child molesters, along with all other sinners. The sinful act would be failing to protect other children from a dangerous child molester, when one was aware of the danger and had the ability to act. Of course that is sinful. What is not know is whether Lynn did this, or not. The thing is, Msgr. Lynn did take action by sending the priest (Avery) for treatment and then relied on the result of professionals that treated him. This was in the 1990’s. Lynn was wrong to do so, but only sinfully wrong if he knew Avery to still be dangerous.The day that shielding child molesters becomes acceptable, i.e. not sinful, in the Church’s eyes, is the first day of her demise. I have been told time and time and time again on CAF that we can judge based on someone’s actions. For example, I have lost count of how many times posters have called homosexuals “sinners” because they engage in homosexual sex. Why the double standard for priests? Lynn was judged to have covered up abuse by a jury of his peers. Tell me that is not a sin. He was only released because of a legal loophole. He was not judged to be innocent by any means.
It is obvious to me you have been hurt by the Church and/or Her ministers, for that I sincerely apologize and wish you well.
I did not say anything about “child molesters”, I specifically stated by Mother Church and Her ministers. Do you translate that to child molesters? And do you translate mine and other’s comments in a way that you think we do not sympathize with the victims? You seem quite angry at Mother Church and not the bad men who have served Her. Quite angry indeed. Again, I apologize for your pain.You owe me no apology. I have not been personally injured by child molesters, but I like to think that I can sympathize with their victims.
You will receive my response via PM. This is getting too strange and too out of hand.I did not say anything about “child molesters”, I specifically stated by Mother Church and Her ministers. Do you translate that to child molesters? And do you translate mine and other’s comments in a way that you think we do not sympathize with the victims? You seem quite angry at Mother Church and not the bad men who have served Her. Quite angry indeed. Again, I apologize for your pain.
The European numbers haven’t been compiled into a digestible format.Geez. Let’s get this into perspective, people. Were all of them dismissed for sexual abuse of minors? More importantly, considering the fact that there are over 400,000 priests in the world, this number is less than one tenth of one percent. Do you think that is a bad statistic in any REAL world. Give me a break. How about your profession? How about your vocation as a married person? Do you think you could match that percentage? Not a chance. And don’t give me that baloney about, “If it is only one priest, that is one too many”. Sure. But if that is the standard, we should all just quit every profession and throw everyone under the bus. Let’s get back into the REAL world, people!! We are supposed to be loyal Catholics and that doesn’t mean running scared every time the Associated Press or some other agent of lies prints a distorted news story. Leave that hysteria for the weak minded and the multitude who are clueless in this life.
That may sound good superficially but where are those ex-priest/sexual predators now??? Are they out in the community, unknown to those around them? I did not hear the pope say, the church has turned 400 pedophile priests over to the secular authorities and made subject to the judicial process of their state government. In this sense, the pope, washing his hands of the institutional burden and problem, may just have made the it even worse then before! And does the church call that wisdom?
You make a good point. I tried to trace down a couple of priests myself and can’t find them anywhere. But then I didn’t expect the Vatican to publicly display lists of all defrocked priests on all church doors either. Maybe some of them were dealt with further, I don’t know. Perhaps that’s where the UN can make it an issue.That may sound good superficially but where are those ex-priest/sexual predators now??? Are they out in the community, unknown to those around them? I did not hear the pope say, the church has turned 400 pedophile priests over to the secular authorities and made subject to the judicial process of their state government. In this sense, the pope, washing his hands of the institutional burden and problem, may just have made the it even worse then before! And does the church call that wisdom?
One has managed to get another job in line with his interests…That may sound good superficially but where are those ex-priest/sexual predators now??? Are they out in the community, unknown to those around them?