“The most important thing is the first proclamation: Jesus Christ has saved you. And the ministers of the church must be ministers of mercy above all. The confessor, for example, is always in danger of being either too much of a rigorist or too lax.
Neither is merciful, because neither of them really takes responsibility for the person. The rigorist washes his hands so that he leaves it to the commandment. The loose minister washes his hands by simply saying, ‘This is not a sin’ or something like that. In pastoral ministry we must accompany people, and we must heal their wounds."
Bold emphasis added for my part. It speaks to those who would take the concept of a “faithful fragment” or a “big tent” view of the Catholic Church.
One does not discharge our duty of Compassion by being permissive or dismissive of our fellow sinners.
You know, there’s actually a very apt relationship to be drawn here between attitudes of “tough love” or “social welfare” in modern society as well. Both are typically employed as excuses not to actually deal with the wounds of the individual in need because that’s a time-consuming, messy, and thankless business.
But that’s the cross Christ called
you and I to carry - not to feel good about ourselves for giving some homeless fellow our pocket change only to feed the drug addiction that’s killing him or for creating another soulless state-run program with other people’s money and not or to just say “the market will provide” and “I can’t do anything for people who are unwilling to change” in the face of poverty.
Our failure to grasp of the proper compassionate response to physical poverty is a reflection of our failure to grasp the proper compassionate response to our age of spiritual poverty.
“Neither is merciful, because neither of them really takes responsibility for the person.”
We need to, as a society, accept that Truth - commit it to memory and take it to heart.