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It could be. My guess is that the false headline is more attractive than the actual letter. My observation is that those responsible for editing always look for something that will catch your attention.They know most people only read the headline. Accurate content but with a false headline means they were probably deliberately deceptive.
Go slowly here. We’re talking about two different things.But what if you are raised to believe bad IS good? Example: killing the infidel is good because it is a way of honoring God. Or what if you don’t know the difference between right and wrong. Example: there is nothing wrong with sexual promiscuity or abortion. Does that make those things “acceptable” because they simply don’t know or weren’t taught correctly? Please help me to understand.
Let’s just take one example, abortion.
Abortion is a gravely sinful act.
Not everyone who procures an abortion or who performs an abortion is guilty of sin.
There is a distinction between the action and culpability. An action can be very wrong and the person committing the action may be very culpable, somewhat culpable or not culpable. It depends on his knowledge and his freedom. You have to know the gravity of what you’re doing. You have to freely choose to do it.
Let’s take the case of abortion. I run a program for dads in crisis pregnancies. Most of my dads are not free. They are pressured by family, doctors, economics, fear, misinformation, peers and many other things that can impair their judgment. When they come to us, the first thing that we try to do is discern with them why they want an abortion. We don’t jump into “Abortion is a mortal sin for which you can be excommunicated.” That’s the worse possible approach.
Once the dad starts talking, you’ll hear the triggers. Then we respond with the alternatives appropriate for those triggers. If the problem is fear that they can’t afford a baby, we place our material assistance at their disposal until the baby in one year old We mean everything from food to toys. The the problem is fear of parents, we deal with their parents ourselves. We always win too.
My point is that the action remains a heinous crime and grave sin. But the person who chooses to get an abortion and chooses under pressure, is rarely culpable of grave sin and may even be totally innocent. I know people whose doctors scare the living daylights out of them. This happens often. They choose abortion, trusting that the doctor is right.
That’s how that works.
A person who does not believe in God, has no religious moral grounding. The best he can do is to follow his conscience. If he’s honest and if he’s not pressured and if he knows all the facts, this conscience will point him toward the good.
We have to pray that such people come to believe and that in the meantime, they will get all the facts before they make serious choices and that they will listen to the voice of conscience. St. Augustine once said that conscience always points toward the good. The problem is that we don’t always listen to our own conscience.