Pope Francis meets with gay French ambassador nominee

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Exactly my point. His orientation and sex life or lack of sex life is between him and his confessor.

We don’t care about the sex lives of single heterosexual males who are Vatican ambassadors or even the married ones, why should we care about his?
Perhaps you missed the previous thread on this topic. Search for it, I can’t find a link at the moment. At any rate, it explained how France fully intends this nomination as a political slap in the face to the Vatican. The last nominee was actively homosexual and cohabitating with a partner. France intends, with Stefanini, to get the camel’s nose into the tent, so to speak.
 
Perhaps you missed the previous thread on this topic. Search for it, I can’t find a link at the moment. At any rate, it explained how France fully intends this nomination as a political slap in the face to the Vatican. The last nominee was actively homosexual and cohabitating with a partner. France intends, with Stefanini, to get the camel’s nose into the tent, so to speak.
Do you know that as a fact or are you making an assumption?

Perhaps he is the next best nominee.

Others on here have said his orientation was not a factor in Stefanini’s case, it was another matter which caused the delay.
 
Do you know that as a fact or are you making an assumption?

Perhaps he is the next best nominee.
With an incidence of 2-3% of homosexuality in the general population, it seems more than mere chance or fitness for service that France would choose one candidate after another like this.
 
I’ve read… I forgot where… that Mr. Stefanini is in fact very discreet about his personal life. He is unmarried, and a practicing Catholic. I don’t think we can infer anything about his sexual practices (or lack of same) from that, even if he self-describes himself as homosexual. Charity and the benefit of the doubt lead me to believe that he’s in a state of grace unless he explicitly says otherwise, and that he uses the Sacrament of Reconciliation like the rest of us for whatever sins he may fall into be they sexual or otherwise.

I therefore suspect that the reason for non-acceptance has nothing to do with being homosexual, but some other reason for which diplomacy requires discretion.
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With an incidence of 2-3% of homosexuality in the general population, it seems more than mere chance or fitness for service that France would choose one candidate after another like this.
But he would be making more of a point in favour of Catholicism rather than a slap in the face for the Church.

Here is a self proclaimed devout Catholic who is single and also gay in sexual orientation. That is a coup for the Church in my opinion, an example for Catholic gays and the gay community in general.
 
But he would be making more of a point in favour of Catholicism rather than a slap in the face for the Church.

Here is a self proclaimed devout Catholic who is single and also gay in sexual orientation. That is a coup for the Church in my opinion, an example for Catholic gays and the gay community in general.
He’s only an example if he’s chaste, and nobody has said he’s chaste, the only claim is that he’s “very discreet in his personal life” - that’s not chastity.
 
He’s only an example if he’s chaste, and nobody has said he’s chaste, the only claim is that he’s “very discreet in his personal life” - that’s not chastity.
He doesn’t have to say he is chaste. That is between him and his confessor.

Also do married nominees have to confirm publicly that they are faithful to their wife/husband?

Do single heterosexual nominees have to confirm publicly that they are not sexually active?

I guarantee there are married and single Vatican Ambassadors who are not faithful or chaste and that is none of our business just as his sex life or lack of is none of our business.
 
He doesn’t have to say he is chaste. That is between him and his confessor.
If he wants to be an “example” and a “coup for the Church” then he needs to affirm he is chaste.
Also do married nominees have to confirm publicly that they are faithful to their wife/husband?
Do single heterosexual nominees have to confirm publicly that they are not sexually active?
Yes, if they expect to be an “example” and a “coup”.
I guarantee there are married and single Ambassadors who are not faithful or chaste and that is none of our business just as his sex life or lack of is none of our business.
A public official has a different standard than private citizens. Look at the scandal that embroiled Bill Clinton in an impeachment. He had sex with someone and he lied about it. The reason that this is a big problem for public officials is that if they are susceptible to being seduced by anyone, doesn’t matter the sex, if they can be seduced then they can be compromised. And for a diplomatic official to be compromised that is serious business.

I think that is a major factor in the decision being made here. Not faith and morals but the integrity of the office. If the Vatican admits a possible mole to their diplomatic ranks then they have problems, bigger problems than merely having a homosexual on the rolls.

This is the same reason a credit and background check is performed for those who apply for sensitive jobs. Credit check, because if someone is deeply in debt and can’t manage money they can be compromised by bribes. Background check, because if someone has a criminal past then they may repeat the offenses, certain types of crimes make for a bad public official, and if someone is hiding their past then they are susceptible to being blackmailed, and that again is bad news for an official.
 
If he wants to be an “example” and a “coup for the Church” then he needs to affirm he is chaste.

No he doesn’t have to publicly claim he is chaste. It is none of our business and I am surprised that you would think it is. That is between him and his confessor and we already know he is a devout Catholic so he is receiving spiritual guidance from his Priest on the issue and I would not be surprised if the Vatican has been in touch with his Priest.

Yes, if they expect to be an “example” and a “coup”.

A public official has a different standard than private citizens. Look at the scandal that embroiled Bill Clinton in an impeachment. He had sex with someone and he lied about it. The reason that this is a big problem for public officials is that if they are susceptible to being seduced by anyone, doesn’t matter the sex, if they can be seduced then they can be compromised. And for a diplomatic official to be compromised that is serious business.

I think that is a major factor in the decision being made here. Not faith and morals but the integrity of the office. If the Vatican admits a possible mole to their diplomatic ranks then they have problems, bigger problems than merely having a homosexual on the rolls.

I am not talking about a private citizen. I am talking about the other 100 or so Vatican Ambassadors, you know that is the role he is applying for? The other Vatican Ambassadors do not have to publicly acknowledge that they are faithful to their spouse or in the case of heterosexual single Ambassador that they are not sexually active. If they don’t have to publicly claim it why should he?
 
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Please don’t reply inside “quote” tags because it makes you hard to quote.

I am saying that private citizen’s sex lives are none of our business but Vatican officials’ sex lives are. Perhaps the Vatican evaluates all their diplomats for susceptibility to compromise and perhaps they don’t. Perhaps they should. I am just saying that there is more to this story than we have been fed in the news.
 
Please don’t reply inside “quote” tags because it makes you hard to quote.

I am saying that private citizen’s sex lives are none of our business but Vatican officials’ sex lives are. Perhaps the Vatican evaluates all their diplomats for susceptibility to compromise and perhaps they don’t. Perhaps they should. I am just saying that there is more to this story than we have been fed in the news.
Really? Please name the other Vatican Ambassadors who have publicly claimed that they are faithful to their spouse (married Ambassador) or are not sexually active (single Ambassador).
 
Really? Please name the other Vatican Ambassadors who have publicly claimed that they are faithful to their spouse (married Ambassador) or are not sexually active (single Ambassador).
They don’t need to. The only needs are for the Holy See to be satisfied that they will not push an anti-Catholic agenda, and that they are not susceptible to compromise by sleeping with spies or enemies of the Church.
 
They don’t need to. The only needs are for the Holy See to be satisfied that they will not push an anti-Catholic agenda, and that they are not susceptible to compromise by sleeping with spies or enemies of the Church.
They do need to publicly claim it. If you arguing that he has to speak about his sex life by publicly confirming he is chaste for a job then the other Ambassadors must be required to do the same otherwise the employer is being discriminatory.

We know he doesn’t have an anti-Catholic agenda because he is a devout Catholic. The Vatican are obviously doing their homework and in contact with his Priest. He hasn’t been rejected.

The requirements for him should not be any more/less as the requirements for the other Ambassadors.
 
They do need to publicly claim it. If you arguing that he has to speak about his sex life by publicly confirming he is chaste for a job then the other Ambassadors must be required to do the same otherwise the employer is being discriminatory.
Nowhere have I argued this in any way. You’re the one saying he could be an “example” and a “coup” in which case a public declaration would be necessary. I don’t think it is at all.

However, he has identified publicly as homosexual. Why did he have to do that? Obviously he is not as “discreet about his personal life” as some on this forum have claimed. Someone who is discreet about his personal life keeps his sexual proclivities to himself.
 
Nowhere have I argued this in any way. You’re the one saying he could be an “example” and a “coup” in which case a public declaration would be necessary. I don’t think it is at all.

However, he has identified publicly as homosexual. Why did he have to do that? Obviously he is not as “discreet about his personal life” as some on this forum have claimed. Someone who is discreet about his personal life keeps his sexual proclivities to himself.
Yes you have, you said he has to confirm that he is chaste. That is really not necessary because it’s not required from other Ambassadors.

I don’t see anything suspicious about him saying he is gay, there are Priests and parishioners whose church community know are gay but we also don’t question whether they are chaste, it’s between them and their confessor.

So he’s discreet about his personal life, big deal. Some people like their privacy doesn’t necessarily mean that he is engaging in gay orgies.

Did you forget the part where he says he is a devout Catholic?
 
Yes you have, you said he has to confirm that he is chaste. That is really not necessary because it’s not required from other Ambassadors.

So he’s discreet about his personal life, big deal. Some people like their privacy doesn’t necessarily mean that he is engaging in gay orgies.

Did you forget the part where he says he is a devout Catholic?
Don’t put words in my mouth. I have never argued that he should make a public affirmation. I responded to your proposition that he is an “example” and “coup” for the Church - IF he is to be an “example” and “coup” THEN he must publicly affirm it. I don’t think he needs to be either one, so I suggest he makes no such public statement.

Didn’t you read what I said? He is not so discreet if he publicly affirms being homosexual.

He can claim to be devout all he wants, all sorts of people claim devoutness. Nancy Pelosi claims it, would you call her an “example” and “coup” for the Church? Would you support her nomination to Ambassador to the Holy See, even when she is clearly living in public defiance of the Church?
 
Don’t put words in my mouth. I have never argued that he should make a public affirmation. I responded to your proposition that he is an “example” and “coup” for the Church - IF he is to be an “example” and “coup” THEN he must publicly affirm it. I don’t think he needs to be either one, so I suggest he makes no such public statement.

Didn’t you read what I said? He is not so discreet if he publicly affirms being homosexual.

He can claim to be devout all he wants, all sorts of people claim devoutness. Nancy Pelosi claims it, would you call her an “example” and “coup” for the Church? Would you support her nomination to Ambassador to the Holy See, even when she is clearly living in public defiance of the Church?
A desire for privacy and ones sexual orientation are not related in any way. It’s like saying I desire privacy and I am heterosexual. Big deal. He may have affirmed his orientation on his Priests direction.

You have no right to deny his claim of being a devout Catholic. Shame on you!😦 He has done nothing to warrant that accusation. Can you read his heart? Are you God now?
 
A desire for privacy and ones sexual orientation are not related in any way. He may have affirmed his orientation on his Priests direction.

You have no right to deny his claim of being a devout Catholic. Shame on you!😦 He has done nothing to warrant that accusation. Can you read his heart? Are you God now?
Once again, stop putting words in my mouth! How dare you accuse me of this! I never denied his claim. I am just saying that it is his own self-description and does not carry much weight, just as my description of myself as handsome isn’t necessarily accurate or absolute.
 
Once again, stop putting words in my mouth! How dare you accuse me of this! I never denied his claim.
Yes you did. You know you did and you did in a roundabout way by bringing up the example of Nancy Pelosi which has nothing to do with this thread.

Own it.
 
Yes you did. You know you did and you did in a roundabout way by bringing up the example of Nancy Pelosi which has nothing to do with this thread.

Own it.
I’m done with this thread–you’re way beyond the bounds of charity.
 
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