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Do not be too harsh.I honestly thought better of most people. Silly me! I thought that people were ‘innocent until proven guilty’. I thought that people didn’t make snap judgments by appearance --and not even their own perception of appearance at that!-- but wanted to be fair and hear both sides of the story. I thought that most people, if they couldn’t say something nice about somebody, wouldn’t say it at all, and certainly wouldn’t gossip or snark. I certainly thought that priests of all people would be more merciful and respectful of all and certainly their brother priests.
Well, I guess that in this, as in so many other things in modern society, I’m just ‘wrong again’. I guess more people than I thought don’t really care about being fair, or kind; they only care about mocking anyone or anything that doesn’t lockstep to their own personal worldview. ( I do not mean the posters about this personally. I am using the 'universal 'people, not making a specific personal response.)
First, reading the same story different people will derive different information; so what for you might be a story with which reasonable doubt applies to both potential sides, for someone else might look like a story with enough information to arrive at a reasonably reliable evaluation;
e.g. here for example i had no good idea what price range this is about (failing to remember to use google) and hence interpreting “innocent until proving guilty” to assume some for the purpose and use and need reasonably priced items and therefore not understanding, why others being so much more critical; Don Ruggero on the other hand knew probably at once that the person in question was putting on clothing in the price range of 400+ euro, which somewhat supports the idea, that there might be an attitude problem.
Second; i think we have all somehow buttons/triggers in our mind, which in case of “activation” lead to a maybe to soon evaluation of a person’s behavior; some things are just so out of bounds for some, that one has a hard time avoiding rushing to early to an evaluation. So this maybe not so much an issue of people abondoning “innocent until proven guilty” but more an issue of the personal moral boundaries one sees.
E.g. some people might be very hard pressed to keep “innocent until proven guilty” in mind, when considering an abortionist doing 2000 abortions per year with 500 euro revenue per abortion; on the other hand, some other people might be very hard pressed to keep “innocent until proven guilty” in mind, when considering pro-life christians gathering before the abortion clinic to pray and offer help to women going there; some things are from a certain POV just so beyond the pale, that any reason to doubt guilt seems unwarranted.
(me, i have slight problems in the first example; somehow 1 million revenue per year by killing innocent and defenseless unborn humans intentionally does not add up well in my mind with the word “innocent”; on the other hand i have quite some problem to understand why some people consider such pro-life christians - at least the well behaving no “murder” screaming sort - to be such obviously guilty of something).