Since my neck of the woods extends to parishes in Philadelphia. Pittsburgh, NYC, all through NY state, Vermont, Maine, Virginia, Arizona, Minnesota, and California, including several university parishes, it’s a fairly extensive ‘neck’ over the last 60 years since my most youthful memory. My mother’s memory goes to most of New Jersey as well as NYC and Buffalo not to mention the ones I list above. My cousins live all over the US from NY to Florida to Texas to Montana and points between.
The thing is, I can recognize that your experiences differ from mine, obviously.
What I question is the overarching ‘take away’.
Surely you have not spent the last 60 years (and the OF has only been around for 50 of them, Pope St. John Paul II’s moto for the last 35, to more or less coincide with the SSPX and Pope Benedict’s Moto since 2007) having to fight the dreadful battles of the nasty trads and their agenda? Where on earth were you? And even if you lived in a major area where the “SSPX” were, they’re a drop in the bucket compared to the ‘regular’ parishes. Which you were more than free to attend.
It boggles the mind that you have spent 60 years, the majority of your life, fighting something that the majority of Catholics have never experienced or thought of but that appears to have affected you so severely that you feel you must present ‘your negative experience with trads’ as something the entire Catholic world needs to fear and prepare to fight as well.
It makes me sad. Heaven knows I’ve had some dreadful experiences with individuals who have been absolutely frothing at the mouth at the idea of a Catholic choosing to attend the dreaded ‘Latin Mass’ and convinced that all ‘trads’ were out to wipe Vatican 2 from the map and force us back to the 13th century, but most Catholics are perfectly reasonable people—trad and ‘progressive’ alike who simply like various devotions and prayers and Masses but have no problem with those who like different ones, and simply would like to accepted and not labeled and stuck in a box to be derided or reviled by fellow Catholics. If I ‘stick up’ for traditional Catholics it’s not because I find ‘progressive’ Catholics objectionable for what they like —perfectly valid Mass and all, it’s because I’m objecting to them mischaracterizing an entire group of people and perpetuating a wrong.
So that means I will ‘stick up’ if somebody calls a person who simply wants to enjoy the OF a heretic or a modernist. They aren’t. But neither is a person who wants to enjoy the EF a ‘Vatican 2 hater’ or a hateful ‘element’ out to destroy the OF.