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I sympathize. I have a sibling who is an avowed atheist, and we can’t talk about faith, I can only go off their reactions. Early on when all these headlines were coming out about what the Pope said, they thought it was good, but for dubious reasons. I really get the feeling that they want to see the Church changed or destroyed. Truly.But when he makes comments that easily get twisted to a different meaning yet never seems to learn that his comments are going to be used as ammunition against Catholics it is disheartening. How often have we all heard “Who am I to judge?” As a mom of 8 I hear daily that the pope says catholic women should not reproduce like rabbits. Did he say these things? Yes. Are the taken out of context? Of course they are. The problem I have and what I can’t understand is WHY he keeps making these remarks knowing they are going to be used against us. I also don’t understand why he doesn’t mention things that are important like the abortion and gay marriage. I agree with him that we live in a disposable society. I’ve stated that myself many times. What’s difficult are the remarks he keeps putting out there that are used against Catholics.
However, I have another family member who is proud to be Catholic, but they received terrible catechesis and don’t practice. They love Pope Francis, but they still aren’t practicing. But, I bought them a collection of Pope Francis’ words so they could form their own perspective, unaffected by the media.
I have yet another family member who is a socialist. I like talking with them because they are very respectful. I mentioned that there is no principled reason to restrict marriage to two people, and they agreed using one of Pope Francis’ quotes. I simply suggested that perhaps they should read his words a bit more closely. To which they said they intended on reading Laudato Si. I said “Terrific,” and left it at that. Who knows what seeds will be planted?
If I can leave my confusion and baggage aside, perhaps it won’t be passed on to others.