Possible Abuses, Please Help Discern

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I just might be getting pushed by God into the Tridentine Mass, because I just can’t handle all the variation available in the Novus Ordo. It’s like you have to keep 14 Eucharistic prayers in your head, several different options for the Rite of Penance, tons of options for psalms, memorize priest and people’s proper gestures, remember that basically half the mass can be cut out during weekdays (but might not be too), and God knows what else (literally, no vanity - oh, church law too) so I’m not surprised no one seems to pipe up when something gets finagled up. Then there’s how the Vatican prefers kneeling at the Eucharist, the USCCB practically demands standing, and the bishops change motions and such for their diocese.
Are you studying for the priesthood?

Why are you concerned about memorizing every part of the Mass, every prayer, etc.?

P.S. Each Mass is a celebration of the “Wedding Feast of the Lamb”.

(Not a college entrance exam.)

P.S. Did the priest take Baptismal water and sprinkle everyone in the pews? And then did he have everyone recite after him - their agreement - concerning the various precepts of the Creed?

If so, that’s why he didn’t have everyone recite the Creed.
 
It’s called the Catholic Taliban.

Get it straight.

Geez.

😃
Is that the correct terminology for that…? Are you sitting properly while typing that question? Where are your hands? No, no don’t gesture. Checking my GIRM.
 
When you start a thread entitled Possible Abuses, Please Help Discern; then admit that you are a ‘new’ Catholic; then give a list of ‘possible abuses’ that should be clear to anyone (who has taken the time to study and learn) are NOT abuses, and then go on to whine about variables in the Ordinary Form, you shouldn’t be surprised if readers get the impression that you are either clueless or on a witch hunt. If you need ‘help’ to ‘discern’ whether or not something is an ‘abuse’, you are ill-equipped in the ‘truth’ department to be lodging complaints with a bishop.
Quite the opposite. I was trying to be mature and not jump to conclusions by asking around here first before doing anything drastic. But you’re in the minority concerning believing these things not being at least loose, if not actual abuses. And when people have quoted Vatican documents backing my complaints up, then why do you think the learned wouldn’t be concerned? It wasn’t clear to Spirithound that they weren’t abuses… why take me to tack? Why not everyone else who agreed? Not saying you should, but you seem to think my position in the Church allows you to talk to me in a manner that others wouldn’t stand for.

I whine about variables in the Ordinary Form because I’m getting tossed around by the liturgical debates and such. I actually prefer the OF and can definitely understand the reason for the reforms. I just get upset when I see what I’ve heard about from others in my very first parish. It doesn’t help at all. But sometimes when people talk about the OF they don’t mean “the OF practiced by the book: reverently, beautifully, with a certain profound simplicity” they mean “the OF practiced overmuch with bad music, a bad translation, regularly simplified or omitted rituals, and people playing loosey-goosey with the rules.” I prefer the former over even an EF mass, but the only church that offers it that way, as far as I know, is the same one nearest here with an EF - and it’s 30 miles away. Plus, I’ve liked Latin since I was a little kid, and Latin OFs are as rare as a purple donkey. Video game soundtracks to make a long story short. So yes, I’m confused, but really I have much bigger concerns than robotic obedience and “smells & bells”. I want to avoid liberal Catholicism like the plague, being as I am a neophyte trying to form myself in lieu of RCIA (which picks back up in three months and a day.) Not to mention it’s the parish I choose that will attend RCIA classes at, so I better choose well. Maybe that’s just my semi-Evangelical background talking, but I think it’s a worthy goal.
 
Quite the opposite. I was trying to be mature and not jump to conclusions by asking around here first before doing anything drastic.
The mature thing would have been to consult the GIRM before making a fool of yourself on here, listing ‘abuses’ that anyone with a rudimentary knowledge of the Mass would know are NOT abuses.

And let me save you some more grief and the cost of a postage stamp: writing to a bishop with every minor infraction and coming over as some kind of self-appointed, self-righteous temple policeman will ensure that your letters go straight to the shredder. Believe me, bishops have much greater concerns than whether or not there is holy water in the holy water fonts and whether or not that is deliberate or just someone forgetting to re-fill them. If you have concerns about something in the liturgy, take them, in truth and charity, to the celebrant. Better still, educate yourself properly about the liturgy and join the Liturgy group in your parish.

Finally, I saw at least three liturgical infractions in the beatification Mass for Pope John Paul II. To whom should I report them?
 
The mature thing would have been to consult the GIRM before making a fool of yourself on here, listing ‘abuses’ that anyone with a rudimentary knowledge of the Mass would know are NOT abuses.
Hang on a sec.

The dude/dudette has only been on CAF for a month and has only been a Catholic for a couple of years.

How about cutting him/her a break…
 
Are you studying for the priesthood?

Why are you concerned about memorizing every part of the Mass, every prayer, etc.?

P.S. Each Mass is a celebration of the “Wedding Feast of the Lamb”.

(Not a college entrance exam.)

P.S. Did the priest take Baptismal water and sprinkle everyone in the pews? And then did he have everyone recite after him - their agreement - concerning the various precepts of the Creed?

If so, that’s why he didn’t have everyone recite the Creed.
Context. I was talking about why people don’t notice abuses - because they’re not properly catechized and don’t take time at home to learn more about the right way to do things. You have already said things that weren’t in accord with Church discipline, with others telling you the same. And please don’t be confrontational or sardonic. I may be young, and you obviously don’t agree with this, but I know how to have a mature debate. But you are seeing me as rebelliously OCD or something, like I’m ten steps away from the SSPX.

And the sprinkling is done at the Easter Vigil, Easter Sunday, and permissible the third, forth and fifth Sundays of the season. When done that way it replaces the Creed as a renewal of baptismal promises, but can be followed by the Q&A. But the mass I was talking about was a weekday mass, and I knew it was alright to omit the Creed. It makes sense to me that weekday masses would be simplified. But I did not know about the renewal of baptismal promises, so thank you for letting me know that. I view the mass in the way you do, as perpetually done in Heaven where we join as one in one big ritual prayer and sacrifice. I also view it as a means for catechesis so, thinking of both purposes, if it gets messed up it irritates the life out of me.

I don’t think I know everything because I know enough to know how much is out there to learn. I study so much because I want to milk True Christianity for all it’s worth 😃

Nothing gets done when people can’t handle disagreement. Look up Vatican and USCCB documents if you want to reason with me. I can’t just take your word on it.
 
Hang on a sec.

The dude/dudette has only been on CAF for a month and has only been a Catholic for a couple of years.

How about cutting him/her a break…
How about him/her cutting his/her priest a break?
 
Hang on a sec.

The dude/dudette has only been on CAF for a month and has only been a Catholic for a couple of years.

How about cutting him/her a break…
Haha, thanks. I’ll take that as a compliment considering the fact that I’ve been Protestant for a couple of years and Catholic for three months! :rotfl:

I should say though that I have been checking the GIRM and Church documents. Otherwise, why would I bring them up so much? I’m not stupid (IQ of 122 here brag brag 😛 ) so I know that my best bet to figure things out is in the writings where Mother has already figured them out for us.
 
I was talking about why people don’t notice abuses - because they’re not properly catechized and don’t take time at home to learn more about the right way to do things.
Or…the lenses we use aren’t microscopes.
 
Maybe an attempt at education would be a better “break” rather than derision.
Maybe discussing concerns charitably with his priest would be a better ‘break’ than reporting every imagined abuse to the bishop.
 
Maybe an attempt at education would be a better “break” rather than derision.
Amen mark! Obviously Wounded is having issues re the Faith & Mass…but her heart is in the right place (love of Our Lord and respect for the Holy Mass, and Holy Mother Church) and with a little education–and a little distance from the Litsapo or Catholic Talaban if you will–I have no doubt she will glory in finding our Holy Church! Education (preferably from live-body pastors and not disembodied internet script) is the balm she needs, not sharp comments.

Besides, I am pretty sure the criticisms are not being conducted properly according to GIRM standards.
 
Maybe discussing concerns charitably with his priest would be a better ‘break’ than reporting every imagined abuse to the bishop.
It’d be one thing if I were manically attacking my clergy with personal insults, but I’m going about this with a mostly professional vocabulary and tone, so yes you should give me a break. I never said a strong NO to speaking with my priest about it. I’m simply too shy and afraid to do it though I’m mulling it over and seeing at as a better choice as time goes by. It’s not like I want there to be problems, ya know. I don’t take pleasure in having this issue. But when the people who agree with me are charitable about it, and those who don’t deride me, which party is it wiser to heed?

And once again: the church I went to today was not my main church. I do not think there were humungous issues there. I was mainly concerned about the holy water dispenser because someone told me it wouldn’t be refilled till after Easter, but I said he was probably wrong. Heck, the biggest issues I had were that the priest had no mic and was hard to hear and there was no music. Hardly anything to write to Rome about, just a personal quibble that I can get over.
 
Amen mark! Obviously Wounded is having issues re the Faith & Mass…but her heart is in the right place (love of Our Lord and respect for the Holy Mass, and Holy Mother Church) and with a little education–and a little distance from the Litsapo or Catholic Talaban if you will–I have no doubt she will glory in finding our Holy Church! Education (preferably from live-body pastors and not disembodied internet script) is the balm she needs, not sharp comments.

Besides, I am pretty sure the criticisms are not being conducted properly according to GIRM standards.
Well, technically he, but no problem there. Could you tell me where I’m going wrong. Trust me, if I’m wrong there’s no way in Hell I want to stay wrong. You said something about the GIRM standards?

EDIT: I think the problem right now is that I basically don’t feel like I can trust the warm blooded help I have LOL.
 
I just might be getting pushed by God into the Tridentine Mass, because I just can’t handle all the variation available in the Novus Ordo. It’s like you have to keep 14 Eucharistic prayers in your head, several different options for the Rite of Penance, tons of options for psalms, memorize priest and people’s proper gestures, remember that basically half the mass can be cut out during weekdays (but might not be too), and God knows what else (literally, no vanity - oh, church law too) so I’m not surprised no one seems to pipe up when something gets finagled up. Then there’s how the Vatican prefers kneeling at the Eucharist, the USCCB practically demands standing, and the bishops change motions and such for their diocese. 🤷

I went to another church today and he used a different Eucharistic Prayer, plus no music at all, omitted the Creed, used the short form of the Penitential Rite, and emptied the holy water fount for Easter (unless the member I spoke with got it wrong, I hope he did). I’m obviously keeping up to the best of my abilities right now to be able to spot the abuses I have, but good grief! I really don’t feel like reporting every other church I visit! :juggle:|

… I hate how, when the rubrics allow for variation, the parishes seem to always choose the shortest readings and omit any sort of embellishment (can I get some water on me and some incense up my nose please?) Give them an inch…
Okay, I will admit that I made that post incredibly unclear as to my intentions in writing it. :o

And yeah… I kinda messed up there and got uncharitable. Unwittingly but still. Sorry about that.
 
First thing I would do sir (apologies) is relax. You have not encountered the dreaded specter of ‘Liturgical Abuse’.

Second thing I noticed is that you have yet to begin RCIA? Or was I mistaken, and have you already received the Sacraments of Initiation? If so, then definitely relax, because many of your questions will be answered there by people who volunteer their time to answer them. With the Catechumenate/Candidacy comes many blessings and much Grace which will power you forward in the right direction.

Third – if you are seeking help from a priest, deacon, religious, etc., that is help you can most certainly trust. That is their job. I speak from experience…even though I began in a very progressive parish, which I left to find more a bit more tradition (note, not a Latin Mass but a more formal OF), I trusted the pastor there implicitly. He is an ordained servant of God, and a holy man, orthodox, I simply preferred a different style of worship.

Most importantly, take your time and pray. You are entering a new, holy world, and you need to give the Spirit a chance to work on you…believe me, it does, and it takes time. My $.02 is this: even though only those who receive Holy Orders and religious take oaths/vows of obedience, I think the quality of obedience to Mother Church is something we Catholics (both more progressive and more traditional) need to practice more frequently. And please, don’t take what you read on these internet forums (they are just that, internet forums) as authoritative, follow the Magisterium of your diocese: deacon, priest, pastor, and bishop.

Christ built our Church friend, He will not lead you astray. God bless you.
 
The mature thing would have been to consult the GIRM before making a fool of yourself on here, listing ‘abuses’ that anyone with a rudimentary knowledge of the Mass would know are NOT abuses.

bishops have much greater concerns than whether or not there is holy water in the holy water fonts

Finally, I saw at least three liturgical infractions in the beatification Mass for Pope John Paul II. To whom should I report them?
WoundedIcon was inquiring about: 1. the laity’s ability to give blessings; 2. relativism; 3. ecumenism; 4. baptism and hell; 5. penance; 6. liturgical music; 7. his/(her?) inability to follow in the missal because of “jarring changes;” 8. the laity’s ability to give blessings; 9. the priest’s location during the homily; and 10. meditation.

Properly speaking, 6, 7, 8, and 9 relate to the liturgy, and so are a question of abuse (and to be sure, nobody has yet ascertained whether the “jarring changes” are abuses or due to WI’s newness and inexperience). 1, 2, 4, and 5 relate to doctrine, and so are questions of heresy. 3 and 10 relate to prudence, and could very well be questions of heresy. Are you really going to be angry with our friend for confusing the concept of abuse with heresy? His only major fault was not posting several of these things to the proper forum. 🤷

Yes, bishops (generally) do have more important things to worry about than the holy water in the font, but if you think that not having holy water out is a trivial matter, you clearly don’t understand what it is. As with all questions, it ought first to be asked of the pastor.

Finally, I would be quite interested in hearing about the liturgical infractions in the beatification Mass. 😃
Peace
 
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