Practical modesty

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I think I’m more worried about what people will say to me about wearing skirts when it’s so cold outside… It is a very drastic change for me, so I know I will receive comments from family and friends. Any suggestions on how to handle that??
I live in Michigan, and I’m actually warmer in a longer skirt over a slip over cotton tights or leggings than I am in jeans. When I’m going out into the snow, I wear tall boots, and if I’m going to be indoors, I wear Danskos. I like their Marcelle style the best for wearing with casual skirts. zappos.com/n/p/p/122567.html 👍
 
I’m not the one to give advice on footwear. I missed inheriting the shoe gene from my mom (who adored buying shoes and had different shoes for every outfit :eek: ), plus i have large feet and a deformed navicular bone, which means i have to wear orthotics and shoes with really good support…meaning tennis shoes. I wear New Balance most all the time (I’m supposed to wear them in the house, yick), but when I’m being bad I wear Crocs. i started wearing them when I was pregnant with #3–my feet were so swollen they were the only things that fit. I love crocs–and I need to get a couple new pairs. They look okay with the long skirts, and if you’re wearing a denim skirt, even more so.

🤷 For the winter, boots would be good, I think. Some tall ones that are casual but comfy.
I love Crocs too. I have several pair and even one pair I use exclusively for in the house. I have a pair of them in the MaryJane style (no longer made) in aqua-green and now a pair of the newer ones in black. I will be going back to the store at the end of the week after pay day to get (maybe) another pair because they will be about $15.00 on clearance!

Anyway, the next time you look into orthotics ask if they can make a pair for your Crocs! I just had knee surgery and the Dr. said if I wanted to continue Jazzercise I would need this orthotic that would tilt my knee inwards a bit but they won’t do me any good if I don’t wear them so I asked about getting them for my Crocs (which I had on at the visit, they are the shoes that feel best on my feet and on my knee right now with the exception of my old aerobic shoes, Ryka’s studio shoes) and he said they can make them for just about any shoe.

You can even get Crocs with liners in them now for the winter but I don’t know how they would work for the uber- cold climates like in ND or MT(Montana) or Canada in general.

Cuddleduds are great and since I am a plus size woman with big thighs (always will have big thighs no matter how big or little I am) I have to wear something under my skirts to keep them from rubbing together and I used to wear bike shorts and then I found these great cotton “shorts” undergarments at Junonia.com. Now know this is a plus size active woman’s clothing site so those of you who are smaller have to see if you can find something else (cuddleduds do come in shorts too so maybe those would work?)

Brenda V.
 
I love Crocs too. I have several pair and even one pair I use exclusively for in the house. I have a pair of them in the MaryJane style (no longer made) in aqua-green and now a pair of the newer ones in black. I will be going back to the store at the end of the week after pay day to get (maybe) another pair because they will be about $15.00 on clearance!

Anyway, the next time you look into orthotics ask if they can make a pair for your Crocs! I just had knee surgery and the Dr. said if I wanted to continue Jazzercise I would need this orthotic that would tilt my knee inwards a bit but they won’t do me any good if I don’t wear them so I asked about getting them for my Crocs (which I had on at the visit, they are the shoes that feel best on my feet and on my knee right now with the exception of my old aerobic shoes, Ryka’s studio shoes) and he said they can make them for just about any shoe.

You can even get Crocs with liners in them now for the winter but I don’t know how they would work for the uber- cold climates like in ND or MT(Montana) or Canada in general.

Cuddleduds are great and since I am a plus size woman with big thighs (always will have big thighs no matter how big or little I am) I have to wear something under my skirts to keep them from rubbing together and I used to wear bike shorts and then I found these great cotton “shorts” undergarments at Junonia.com. Now know this is a plus size active woman’s clothing site so those of you who are smaller have to see if you can find something else (cuddleduds do come in shorts too so maybe those would work?)

Brenda V.
Well, my orthotics were custom made and cost over $400. :eek: I don’t think we could afford to get another pair made just for Crocs, but maybe when money isn’t so tight i’ll look into that. 👍 My podiatrist does not approve of Crocs or clogs or anything that doesn’t have ankle support for people with feet like mine.

In the summer, I wear men’s boxers instead of Cuddleduds, for the reason you mentioned. :o They’re cheap, and I get the lightest weight ones I can find for summer. I used to wear them all the time in Catholic high school (skirts every day, ya know!). It took me a few weeks of gym class freshman year to realize that I was one of the few girls wearing a slip–everybody else was wearing boxer shorts! 😃
 
I mean…winter shoes. I wear sandles during the summer…but not sure what to wear with skirts this next fall/winter. I’m thinking some tall boots and maybe some maryjanes…
I was going to plug the Dansko Marcelles (mary janes) but I see that CarrieH has already done so. Check out her link. I’ve never worn mine with skirts but there’s a student on my campus who only wears skirts and she’s always wearing these. It’s a cute look.

I wore mine all winter with jeans and either colored socks or tights. 👍
 
Well, my orthotics were custom made and cost over $400. :eek: I don’t think we could afford to get another pair made just for Crocs, but maybe when money isn’t so tight i’ll look into that. 👍 My podiatrist does not approve of Crocs or clogs or anything that doesn’t have ankle support for people with feet like mine.

In the summer, I wear men’s boxers instead of Cuddleduds, for the reason you mentioned. :o They’re cheap, and I get the lightest weight ones I can find for summer. I used to wear them all the time in Catholic high school (skirts every day, ya know!). It took me a few weeks of gym class freshman year to realize that I was one of the few girls wearing a slip–everybody else was wearing boxer shorts! 😃
I know what you mean about the cost of orthotics ( I have a pair for “flat feet” and plantar fasciatis but I don’t use them often because they don’t go well in my summer shoes - I should try to see if I use super sticky double side tape to keep them in place in the shoes, it might work!). That is why I suggest that you ask “the next time” you go for orhotics because they do wear out after time - a long time to be sure but still, in time.

Is there a possibility of getting something that is more a brace so you can wear the Crocs? That might look funny at first but it sure beats having to wear your tennis shoes all the time and allows your foot to air out some. My problem is not the ankles but I know that ankle support is important to the knees too.

Woo, we got waaay off topic ;). Sorry.

Brenda V.
 
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Thanks for all the Dansko suggestions…I checked them out and they are cute…I wish they weren’t so expensive…They look very sturdy though, I imagine they will last several seasons. I can’t decide which ones I like.
 
About what some people have said…

I am a guy, so I avoid skirts, 😛

A lot of guys really appreciate it when girls dress modestly, they begin to see you girls as more of persons than sex objects. With my girlfriend, I also like it when she dresses appropriately, I find it brings out a lot more of someone’s natural facial beauty as well as a different mental perception. If someone dresses low cut and short skirt, guys will talk to and about her, in a way that is not always the most respectful.
That is my two cents!

God bless, Josh
 
The school where I teach requires skirts that are knee length or below, panty hose, and closed toe shoes (every day)!

Lands End has comfy skirts of varying lenghts.

I’ve bought a few tops at Target, but don’t like the sizing. I’m no petite woman, but I have to buy XXL or larger at Target :eek: .

Lands End and Eddie Bauer are my favorites for style and fit. Classic style and I can order long length (I’m 5’ 10").
 
Thanks for all the Dansko suggestions…I checked them out and they are cute…I wish they weren’t so expensive…They look very sturdy though, I imagine they will last several seasons. I can’t decide which ones I like.
I had a pair of Dansko clogs that I ended up selling on e-bay. They were too heavy and the soles were not flexible. I didn’t find them comfortable.

For half the price, I bought the same style made by Dr. Scholls. The insoles are well padded and the soles are flexible. I find them much more comfortable.
 
I was wondering if any other ladies on this forum have felt a pull to dress more modestly, and if you have, what changes have you made to your wardrobe. Because they’re more comfortable for me, I’ve been wearing, every day, some long denim skirts I bought a while back for church wear.

On the occasions I’ve been out walking in the neighborhood in my skirts (they’re fairly long), I often get compliments from the older neighbors. My neighbor Ken, who is in his 70s, bless his heart, always tells me “how pretty” I look. :o I think he is probably sentimental for his youth when women wore skirts more often, I suppose.

I’ve also noticed I get treated more politely when I’m shopping or out and about, when I am dressed in my skirts. Not just by older folks, but the young teenagers as well. I was wondering if any other ladies have had similar experiences.

I told my DH that I am probably going to be investing in some jumpers to wear, and more skirts, and he said, “Fine. But don’t throw out your jeans, because you never know, in a year or two you might be sick of skirts.”

Have any ladies here just worn skirts, no pants or shorts, for a long time? And do you find it’s hard to do all your daily chores? I’m a SAHM and homeschooler, and often am out gardening or doing other outside work.
I just don’t like those ‘streetsweeper’ skirts.

And I see nothing immodest about baggy sweats. 😉
 
I wore skirts and dresses for two years (didn’t even own a pair of jeans - had a pair of slacks). I just felt more ‘dressed’ and feminine, and appropriate in them - and I knew I was pretty much able to go anywhere during my day and feel like I fit in.
Now I do have two pairs of jean, but I still don’t wear them much. Maybe on the occasional cold day, with a light sweater or such.

I have to watch my tops - kinda big there, so I don’t feel comfortable with the major cleavage - so I make sure I try everything on and avoid the V style.

I’ve shopped at Lane Bryant and Torrid (wish I could afford to shop today!!) and Chadwicks.

Since I’m exercising three days a week, I hope new stores will open up to me as I shrink (hope, hope, hope)
Elizabeth
Soli Deo Gloria :harp:
 
I LOVE the Cherokee brand shirts - really nice quality at a good price.

I have no problem with longer denim skirts, but jumpers :eek:
I vowed never to wear them after graduating from Catholic school and I have kept my word 🙂
I have discovered school blouses, available in bust sizes up to at least 38 inches! These are high necked and long sleeved, and at £10 for 3 shirts, one can adapt them, dye them, paint them, whatever!
But I do not think that modesty is simply about covering up; it is more a style of flirtatious interaction which we are seeking to avoid, and clothing which sends a message, in our culture, that we might be interested in flirting or impropriety. When fashion decreed long skirts with high necks, women wearing such dresses didn’t necessarily act modestly!
But wearing skimpy garments may encourage the wrong sort of attention. Or wearing ordinary garments but without the normal under-garments - suits without blouses is something I see.
Jeans/ pants may be seen simply as workwear, or as tight and provocative - it depends on the fit! It also depends on whether other garments are worn with them; muslim ladies frequently meet their modesty requirements by wearing a long tunic-dress over loose trousers (pants). Their fashion websites have good selections of attractive yet modest long dresses and skirts.
 
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