I’m a child of the 1990s…
Okay…if you believe you are worthy okay and if not than there you go, don’t come up for communion.
To each their own.
I’m also a Child of the 90s, I’m pursuing a degree in Theology (I have two papers published in undergraduate journals one on Sacramental Theology and the other on Church History) and Philosophy. My main Professors in Theology are Orthodox and Catholic (who taught alongside the then Professor Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger now Pope Benedict XVI and Hans Kung) so I think I will chip in.
Theologically what you are saying is heresy, the heresy of relativism. The Priest could openly see she was committed to her Sin and as Christ stated
‘Matthew 7:6’ said:
‘Give not that which is holy [the Holy Eucharist] to dogs; neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest perhaps they trample them under their feet, and turning upon you, they tear you.’
but also more specifically as St. Paul said [BIBLEDRB]1 Cor 11:26-30[/BIBLEDRB]
If the Priest had allowed her to receive Christ himself in the Most Holy Eucharist, he would of allowed her to receive her own condemnation upon herself. The Priest had to look out for her soul and therefore had to refuse her Holy Communion.
Now on to your view points…
Liberalism has obviously infiltrated your faith, relativist ideas are heresy (part of the heresy of Modernism, as condemned by St Pius X) I can not be more charitable than to call heresy exactly what it is. Your opinions do not matter on matters of reception of the Eucharist and all matters of Faith and Morals, to paraphrase the great Doctor of the Church St Augustine (ora pro nobis), ‘Roma Locuta Est, Causa Finita Est’ meaning Rome has Spoken the Matter is Finished. If you wish me to go in depth respond to my post and list the points you have of contentions (such as Eastern Philosophies, other religions and ‘separation of Church and State’ which all need to be addressed) and I will go through Orthodox teaching.
Also a note ‘progressive’ has no place in Catholicism you’re either orthodox or heterodox, meaning you are either in line with the teaching of the Church or you are not. You have different spiritualities within the Church such as: Franciscan, traditional, Benedictine, charismatic, Eastern (this is mainly a theological tradition, not a spirituality) etc