Pro and Cons of Priests being married

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Pete2:
Either celibacy is a requirement or it’s not.
Exactly. Celibacy is a matter of Church law. It is not a matter of doctrine. Laws often have exceptions to the general rule.
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Pete2:
It’s only a matter of time, I think. Eventually a more forward thinking pope will be elected…
Ad hominem. Implication: A Pope who disagrees is backwards.
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Pete2:
…and will move to relax the Church law. In my view, there is shaky support for priestly celibacy in bible and in Tradition.
Scripture and Tradition both disagree with you. I suppose, then, that makes Scripture and Tradition backwards as well.

– Mark L. Chance.
 
Without using scripture…a real concrete modern reason priests should not marry…

Guess who has the highest divorce rate in America…

Firefighters and Clergy!!!

This was from the census and reported by Catholic Radio
 
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mercygate:
Note also that the married converts who have been ordained as Priests in the Catholic Church are among the staunchest and most vocal proponents of the rule of celibacy. Ray Ryland is among the most articulate. But so is the former Anglican Bishop of London, Fr. Graham Leonard.
You’re kidding!!! So the priests in the west who have been granted exception to celibacy are the biggest proponents of celibacy for everyone else???

Pete
 
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Pete2:
You’re kidding!!! So the priests in the west who have been granted exception to celibacy are the biggest proponents of celibacy for everyone else???

Pete
No, not for everyone else. Just for themselves – you know: like the early Church when men lived in continence after ordination. 😉 (Which they did, BTW – see I Cor 7:29) Priests ordained under the pastoral provision are not required to forego their conjugal privileges.

Pete, Beloved. This thread is about married Priests.
 
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mlchance:
Ad hominem. Implication: A Pope who disagrees is backwards.
Yes, the opposite of the word “forward” is “backward”, but you’re just getting cute with semantics for the sake of arguing with me.

A “forward thinking” person is typically interested in looking at evolution, alternatives and change. The opposite of that is someone who thinks the status quo is the right answer. A pope who disagrees is a conservative who supports the status quo.
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mlchance:
Scripture and Tradition both disagree with you. I suppose, then, that makes Scripture and Tradition backwards as well.
You can make an argument to support either side of the debate. If Scripture and Tradition were obviously in support of it, then celibacy would be a doctrine, not just a law or a discipline.

Pete
 
In Bible study last night, came across a passage I think in I Tim. somewhere wherein it mentioned “Bishops should only be married once”. This seems to be that Christ said it is OK for Bishops to be married. I struggle with this discipline of the Church, celibacy for Priests, Bishops, etc.
 
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mercygate:
No, not for everyone else. Just for themselves – you know: like the early Church when men lived in continence after ordination. 😉 (Which they did, BTW – see I Cor 7:29) Priests ordained under the pastoral provision are not required to forego their conjugal privileges.

Pete, Beloved. This thread is about married Priests.
You seem to know what the thread is about, so why would you not understand that I was referring to priests when I said “everyone else”? I was talking about all the other priests, who are held to celibacy.

Ordained priests who have an exception to the celibacy rule should keep silent on the issue as it pertains to “everyone else” [and for your benefit, mercygate, my little condescending winking “beloved” poster, I’m talking about all the other western priests].

Pete
 
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sparkle:
In Bible study last night, came across a passage I think in I Tim. somewhere wherein it mentioned “Bishops should only be married once”. This seems to be that Christ said it is OK for Bishops to be married. I struggle with this discipline of the Church, celibacy for Priests, Bishops, etc.
Sparkle, there is no question or controversy surrounding the fact that priests and bishops were often married in the early Church. This is about the superiority of being “eunuchs for the Kingdom,” and remember, Paul was a bishop, was celibate, and advocated celibacy as being preferable to marriage. The thing in Timothy means that if a bishop has ever been married, then remarriage in the case of the death of the spouse is out of the question. In the context of the Church, of course, following the Dominical mandate, divorce and remarriage would be utterly out of the question.
 
Folks,

I’d like to offer a couple of reasons in favor of a celibate priesthood.

First, there is the matter of priorities. As Paul said, the single man worries about God’s work; the married man worries about his family. I’ve said this before, but it bears repeating: someone I know whose father was an Episcopal priest said that his father had time for everyone in the parish except his kids. Someone responded to that by saying that this was the individual priest’s failing and that he should have been able to keep his work to 9-5, but I disagree.

Second, and while this is very regrettable it is also true, there are women who try to seduce members of the clergy. Not just any man, but they specifically target men of the cloth. Even more regrettably but also true, sometimes they succeed. When this happens, there is a lot less of a mess to clean up when the priest doesn’t have a wife and children involved.

A third reason is strictly practical: when the bishop tells the priest “Go here,” there aren’t children to be dislocated.
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The argument in favor of celibate priests can’t ignore historical and comparative religion observations. From a Hindu perspective:

Down the ages, the highest stress has been laid on Brahmacharya or sexual abstinence in every religion. Throughout folklore runs the idea that second-sight and the vision of the supernatural are especially, if not solely, the privilege of the celibates. Westermack favours the explanation that pollution destroys holiness. A tribe on the Rio Negro enjoined celibacy upon their Shamans, because they believed that medicine would prove ineffectual if administered by a married man.
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 Lambichus states that the gods do not hear him who invokes them if he is impure from sexual connections. In Islam, strict continence is required on the pilgrimage to Mecca. It is required for the Hebrew congregation during the theophany at Sinai and before entering the temple. Ancient India, Egypt and Greece enforced the rule that the worshipper must abstain from intercourse during and before worship. In Christianity, continence was required as a preparation for both baptism and Eucharist.

 The highest type of Christian was a celibate. Christian teachers praised celibacy, and marriage came to be, in their eyes, only a secondary good for those who were unable to serve continence. The bishops of the Greek Church are always celibates, being chosen from the monks.

 The Jains force on their Munis the rule to abstain from all sexual relations; not to discuss topics relating to women, not to contemplate the forms of women. Lust is thus condemned: "Of the myriad vices, lust is the worst."

 The Buddhist "Order of Mendicants" was governed by the 227 rules of the Patimokha. Of these, the first four were of specific gravity. A breach of any one of the four rules involved expulsion from the order; and they were, therefore, called the Parajika or the rules as to acts involving defeat.

 The first rule says: "Whatsoever Bhikshu—who has taken upon himself the system of self-training and rule of life, and has not thereafter withdrawn from the training or declared his inability to keep the rule—shall have carnal knowledge of any living thing, down even to an animal, he has fallen into defeat, he is no longer in communion". "Withdrawn from the training" was the technical expression for throwing off the robes, retiring from the order, and returning to the world, a step which any member of the order was at liberty to take at any time.

 Numa was said to have instituted the "Order of Vestal Virgins". They remained unmarried for thirty years. Burial alive was the penalty for breaking the vow of chastity. The Virgins were distinguished by extraordinary influence and personal dignity. They were treated with marks of respect usually accorded to royalty; thus, on the streets, they were preceded by a lictor and the highest magistrates made way for them.
 
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Ahimsa:
The argument in favor of celibate priests can’t ignore historical and comparative religion observations.
No.

The argument in favor of celibate priests can not ignore the history of the Church and its traditions.

Which is of both, a married priesthood, and a celibate priesthood.

It is only a matter of discipline.

The Western Church made celibacy mandatory for secular priests in the 7th or 8th century. The Eastern Church never did this.

You can support what your Church does, but when people make the arguments that some are doing here that some how celibacy is superior, they deny the traditions of the Early Church as a whole including the fact that at least one Apostle was married, as well as denying the Eastern Church’s traditions to this day.
 
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ByzCath:
The Western Church made celibacy mandatory for secular priests in the 7th or 8th century. The Eastern Church never did this.
If Bishops in the Eastern Church cannot be married, then there is a level of mandatory celibacy for priests: If all priests were married, then no one could be a bishop.

I’m not saying celibacy is “superior”, in the sense of being the best choice for everyone. But it does seem that there is a necessary place for celibacy, in both Western and Eastern churches. Without celibacy, without someone being celibate, the Catholic Orthodox tradition would not be able to function.
 
Wait, since this has turned into an East/West argument, I thought that Eastern Bishops definitely COULD NOT be married when elected to Bishop. Also, I know that the last Patriarch of Armenia was a virgin his entire life. It does seem to me that celebacy is favoured even in the Eastern Churches, despite it being a more relaxed law, or non-existant.
 
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Ahimsa:
If Bishops in the Eastern Church cannot be married, then there is a level of mandatory celibacy for priests: If all priests were married, then no one could be a bishop.

I’m not saying celibacy is “superior”, in the sense of being the best choice for everyone. But it does seem that there is a necessary place for celibacy, in both Western and Eastern churches. Without celibacy, without someone being celibate, the Catholic Orthodox tradition would not be able to function.
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adstrinity:
Wait, since this has turned into an East/West argument, I thought that Eastern Bishops definitely COULD NOT be married when elected to Bishop. Also, I know that the last Patriarch of Armenia was a virgin his entire life. It does seem to me that celebacy is favoured even in the Eastern Churches, despite it being a more relaxed law, or non-existant.
Both of these show an misunderstanding of our traditions.

Yes our bishops are celibate, but so you know, bishops have not always had to be celibate.

Our bishops are traditionally drawn from our monastics. Monastics are religious and religious (both East and West) have always had to be celibate.

A celibate secular priest (that is a eparchial (or diocesean)) priest is an aberration, traditionally speaking, in the East. So much so that they are made to take the monastic consecration and to be bound, nominally, under a heguman (abbot).

A bishop can be drawn, traditionally, from a monastery or from the secular celibate priests (who are technically monastics after taking the monastic consecration) or a widower priest (who would have taken the monastic consecration after his wife passed the on).

Again, that is tradition, something we have lost here in North America but are trying to restore.

I attend a Melkite parish, their Archbishop, Archbishop Cyril. He came over from Lebanon. He recently rasied our pastor to an archimandrite, which is the monastic equivalent of an archpriest, which is the Byzantine equivalent of a monsignor.

Now our pastor is a celibate priest of the eparchy. Part of the Divine Liturgy where the archbishop raised him to archimandrite they also did the monastic consecration.

This is also one of the reasons why we call our monks Father. The monastic in the East sort of stands as the priest does in the West. Its a bit to deep to get into here but maybe one of my Byzantine brethren can cover that in a more succinct manner than I can.

So in short, no it is not superior, it is just different.
 
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ByzCath:
Yes our bishops are celibate, but so you know, bishops have not always had to be celibate.
Ah, thanks for the clarification.

So what are the reasons for having a celibate bishop, instead of a non-celibate bishop? Sure, it is a discipline, but what are the reasons for adopting that discipline?
 
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Ahimsa:
Ah, thanks for the clarification.

So what are the reasons for having a celibate bishop, instead of a non-celibate bishop? Sure, it is a discipline, but what are the reasons for adopting that discipline?
As it was adopted by the Church as a whole at an ecumenical council I am not sure that we can call it just a discipline any longer but that is the thing, this was done for the Church as a whole in an ecumenical council.

Priestly celibacy has not been done so. It is a discipline and I do not think looking to the office of bishop will help us out here.

There are pros and cons to married priests but I leave it to the priest and bishops to deal with that.

The other day they had a married priest on Catholic Answers Live, I would suggest everyone listen to that. He was a Lutheran minister.

Someone actually asked him about moving his family if the bishop assigned him to a new parish. He said that as Lutheran minister he was expected to move much more than he is as a priest. On average a protestant married minister moves churches every 3 years or so. Most dioceses assign priests to parishes for 6 years and then some allow them to stay another 6 if they request it.
 
I thank you muchly for the clarification & for that, I want to clarify something here:
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ByzCath:
Someone actually asked him about moving his family if the bishop assigned him to a new parish. He said that as Lutheran minister he was expected to move much more than he is as a priest. On average a protestant married minister moves churches every 3 years or so. Most dioceses assign priests to parishes for 6 years and then some allow them to stay another 6 if they request it.
That is not necesarily true. Perhaps with the Lutherans, perhaps even Episcopals, BUT, the lower churches can have the same minister for over 50 years, especially with no hierarchy at all, whatsoever. They may have founded that particular church and stuck with it until they die.
 
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ByzCath:
No.

The argument in favor of celibate priests can not ignore the history of the Church and its traditions.

Which is of both, a married priesthood, and a celibate priesthood.

It is only a matter of discipline.

The Western Church made celibacy mandatory for secular priests in the 7th or 8th century. The Eastern Church never did this.

You can support what your Church does, but when people make the arguments that some are doing here that some how celibacy is superior, they deny the traditions of the Early Church as a whole including the fact that at least one Apostle was married, as well as denying the Eastern Church’s traditions to this day.
It is the position of the Western Church – and clearly also of the East, which reserves the episcopate to celibates – that celibacy is the superior state. This is in direct consonance with the Lord’s own celibacy and with his expression concerning becoming eunuchs “for the Kingdom.” Celibacy could not be so highly valued if marriage were not deemed to be a very great good.

Tradition holds that Peter was not the only married apostle. Again, see the Cochini book. That marriage and celibacy co-existed in the early Church in no way amplifies the superiority of marriage for clergy – particulary in light of the fact that married men lived in continence after ordination (Canon 3 Nicea). They weren’t called “presbyters” by accident.
 
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adstrinity:
I thank you muchly for the clarification & for that, I want to clarify something here:

That is not necesarily true. Perhaps with the Lutherans, perhaps even Episcopals, BUT, the lower churches can have the same minister for over 50 years, especially with no hierarchy at all, whatsoever. They may have founded that particular church and stuck with it until they die.
Yes, and some can change yearly.

I attended a protestant Church, it belonged to a denominatoin but the local Chuches decided who they would hire as pastor. I was only there a couple of years and there were 4 differrent pastors in that time.

It happens.
 
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mercygate:
It is the position of the Western Church – and clearly also of the East, which reserves the episcopate to celibates – that celibacy is the superior state. This is in direct consonance with the Lord’s own celibacy and with his expression concerning becoming eunuchs “for the Kingdom.” Celibacy could not be so highly valued if marriage were not deemed to be a very great good.

Tradition holds that Peter was not the only married apostle. Again, see the Cochini book. That marriage and celibacy co-existed in the early Church in no way amplifies the superiority of marriage for clergy – particulary in light of the fact that married men lived in continence after ordination (Canon 3 Nicea). They weren’t called “presbyters” by accident.
I am sorry, but I do not believe that celibacy is “superior” in any way. It is a different way.

Canon 3 of Nicea says
This great synod absolutely forbids a bishop, presbyter, deacon or any of the clergy to keep a woman who has been brought in to live with him, with the exception of course of his mother or sister or aunt, or of any person who is above suspicion.
I do not see anything about continence there. I have heard this argument before and I find it strange that it is only put forward by Latins who what celibacy enforced upon all priests and some how find it superior.
 
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