Progress with my "trans" child? Maybe

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Oh absolutely. If my position has been muddled, let me make it clear: I believe all people no matter who they are, are loved infinitely by God. I just will always refuse to disregard the reality God has shown through the Church in order to protect feelings. I would hope any Catholic would do the same if my feelings could end up being hurt. The Truth is more important than how it makes people feel.
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I hear you. The way and time that we give that Truth matters a great deal too, though. That’s all I’m saying, for my part.
 
Prolly not the worst idea. Dunno what else I’d do different, really.
 
This is a very caring angle on a very tricky subject. I really feel for ‘child in the faith’ - I cannot imagine the anguish and pain I would feel in a similar situation. Your ‘male’-identifying daughter (and surely you have any equal right to cling to the loving memory of having brought a little girl into the world?) sounds really angry. Perhaps love and reassurance and a listening ear are what your daughter needs more than any more conflict. This reply struck me as particularly helpful in such a situation. Maybe with that support your daughter will become better able to face the overwhelming inner conflict and manage it with God’s help. Meanwhile, I pray to others’ Guardian Angels when they are forgotten by their charges; and Saint Michael is a marvel. I hope this helps a little. God bless you and your daughter.
 
After growing up with the trans thought, I was misguided and problematic, there was no strong structure in my family, My Mother always made the decisions and my dad followed, I began to struggle with sexuality and Identity… I a man kept velieving as a boy that I was meant to be a woman however after a closer look in my life, I began with occult practices, and recognized where those thoughts came from, A demon with breasts and a penis, began to emerge in my life, it spiraled me out of control until I confessed 17 years worth of sins I was liberated from the occult. In My case I had gay friends both men and women and it went into a horrible disaterous relatuonships. Disorganized sex, blurred morals, and lust, not one of my friends were with one partner and it began to feel like an endless cycle of exchanging partners. No love no coonnection and ab empty feeling. See I wasnt born this way, I chose it, I persued it and let it get me into a fantasy that made sense with the occult and bizarre sexual fetishes, Nothing made sense there was no clarity until I now understand That as a Man I am to marry and have children, Me and My Girlfriend are preparing for marriage and on our way to Have Children. Being Trans is a Lie for me and I will never accept it after knowingly seeing with my own experience how the devil persuades you into thinking its a thing. I dont mean to sound Harsh but Gods Grace really really Gave me my Life Back and Jesus has Helped me in many ways to escape perversion, I now have to live with tattoo removal so I can take off my trans tattoos… but I believe firmly In Jesus and I will be fine. Hope my story Helps you.

Before I forget, I started at age 9 with these thoughts, my parents were around even though we were catholic, our family practiced satanic things, to Occult shops and dangerous evil practices, when it consumes you, Nothing can shed light on you except the Grace of God, and Jesus, you wont understand why its wrong nor why ylu are doing it unless You have a strong support system and prayers.
Pornography, books, cartoons, music, ads, theres always hidden blasphemies enbedded in everything, and that could be a start, I also had been abused as a child and started looking at serial killers, I started with ozzfest, then drifted into punk,black metal,satanic music etc. , and other grotesque things that seemed “normal”. As I do not take this as a joke, I only offer my story for help. I did tarot readings, pendulum readings, freewriting, I communicared with the demonic, being lied to thinking it was a helping spirit, and I also had used astrology, numerology, I went late nights to cemeteries, abusing alcohol, and other obscenities, not everyone is going to go to the darker side of things but, it is also a lie thinking that youre in the light or blessed wheb practicing even white magic. Its all demonic mumbo jumbo but the occultists wont undersrand it until they seek mercy from God and witness that its leading to a path to hell. So I take it very seriously in sharing my story, so this doesnt happen to anyone else.

May God bless all of you and May Jesus shed light on those who need his mercy!
 
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Very true. The current understanding is that if someone with dementia believes, say, that a dear relative (who passed away) is coming to collect them in half an hour, reminding them of the death only triggers the mourning process all over again. What kind of purpose would that be serving? A kindly distraction onto something real and doable and pleasant in the moment is a kinder way of tackling these very difficult, but passing, moments of incomprehension. I agree with not making up untruths to cover a tricky moment but equally we do not always need reminding of the raw, cruel, painful truths that surround us every day (if we choose to take a look).
 
Wow. You’re in a great position to pray for the whole transgender movement - and especially ‘child in the faith’ and his daughter. Very encouraging to hear a positive turnaround - all I can say is well done for seeing the Wood in trees.
 
Many lives have been destroyed because of this trans, and gender issues, They are of the demonic, I wont mention the name of the Demon, however even my confessor was surprised that I was able to figure out from where it started, little did I know that God sent me to an exorcist/confessor. Society is operating with evil right now, and is pushing abortion and gender issues to a very horrible road, from my personal experience, I try to go through the forums and Pray for others who misidentify themselves, its unbelievable that we even legalize it for children, It will never be of God that he made “us this way”(gay or trans). You may encounter bullies along the way, but in hopes that someone may help their family members through my story, will be awesome, May Jesus take all the credit as he waits for all of us to come to him, I am only a servant and wish ti remain nothing so that he may increase and I decrease into nothing.
 
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I ALSO FORGOT TO ADD!!! Sorry for the caps, there is also a blasphemous group who calls themselves

The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence (SPI), also called Order of Perpetual Indulgence (OPI) is a charity, protest, and street performance organization that uses drag and religious imagery to call attention to sexual intolerance and satirizes issues of gender and morality.

These are men who dress in habits and wear demonic face paint similar to that of blackmetal, and pretend to offer help to individuals who are “coming out” or are already out, Id advise that if any of this is near you to be vigilant as they mock nuns and walk around dressed like this on the streets. They try to offer services and help to further “ease” your transition. I thought I might add to this as it is important for parents to guard children from these people.
 
I have heard of them. Some of the men who participate in Drag Queen Story Hour are members of this group. They were active in my area before COVID.
 
This analysis does indeed show transitioning as the right option for people experiencing gender dysphoria.
 
Larquetta said:
the wonderful story of St. Monica, who prayed fervently for the conversion of her son, St. Augustine
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Indeed. My wife and I both pray for her intercession, and have given this to God, as we certainly can’t change the child.
 
St. Monica is praying for you! Just trust in God and His perfect timing. Although your daughter still has free will, I feel confident that God will not leave all your prayers unanswered.
 
I didn’t say you were ‘required’ to accept anything. I just pointed out that if you wish to maintain a relationship with someone you must respect their decisions in the sense of respecting that they are free to make them and not continually engage with them expressing your opposition to those decisions.
 
Larquetta said:
St. Monica is praying for you! Just trust in God and His perfect timing. Although your daughter still has free will, I feel confident that God will not leave all your prayers unanswered.
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“His perfect timing” is what we have been, and still are trusting in. I personally have to think that it’s a “phase” because of how it has gone the past 6 years. But, it’s certainly not a good phase, and we continue to pray she sees that as well.

Thank you for the kind reply.
 
FiveLinden said:
I didn’t say you were ‘required’ to accept anything. I just pointed out that if you wish to maintain a relationship with someone you must respect their decisions in the sense of respecting that they are free to make them and not continually engage with them expressing your opposition to those decisions.
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The “respect” I have for my child’s decisions in this case, is not bombarding her with my beliefs/opinions on the matter constantly. IMO, that meets the criteria you set forth there.

However, SHE, regardless of how many synthetic hormones she injects, facial hair she grows, or how many times she says otherwise, is still my baby girl whom I saw come into this world as a girl, was very happy about that fact, etc., before cutting her cord and writing her name on her birth certificate myself. So, to her father, she will always be my baby girl.
We recently attended the wedding of my wife’s twin sister’s daughter (our niece obviously), who is quite close in age to my daughter. It highlighted to me that I’ll not walk my daughter down the aisle, have grandkids, etc., once more. I rejoice for my niece, while weeping for my daughter.
I can only pray to God to bring her near to Him and get her head on straight.

Here I’ll further point out that “gender dysphoria,” for which she is prescribed testosterone, is in the DSM, and is a disorder. It’s like prescribing an endless supply of hand sanitizer for someone who is OCD about germs. Makes zero logical sense. More relativism as I see it. Further, since her body would not naturally produce anywhere that amount of testosterone, ever, I fear the synthetic stuff will damage her body in ways the medical community can not yet no, since this is a recent sort of treatment…
 
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Yes, she was carefully coached to believe that.

That being said, you can avoid pronouns to her face.
You know what she really is.
 
childinthefaith said:
Yesterday, my daughter was here for a visit. SHE claims to “identify” as a male, etc. etc. I’ll not beleaguer the point.
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I just keep praying for HER, and I never cave to any of the ideology of that crowd, as they would wish me to use certain pronouns, etc…
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When my daughter was a little girl, we would sometimes play “Let’s have tea” together, with her little tea-set, with some dolls set at her “table”, with herself and me sitting cross-legged on the floor. It was all pretend - no liquids involved, nothing actually swallowed, but both of us would act out the fantasy and have a conversation consistent with the “make-believe” of the game. It was appropriate to her growing into her future life as a woman and mother, as were my own make-believe games when I was a boy, with my toy guns and wars with imagined enemies (war was actually the reality for many, many of the men and fathers of those days).

Something very different is going on now. Today, many manifestations of childhood continue into the teen years and beyond, into young adulthood and further - a “Peter Pan” culture of many biologically grown men and women, clinging to childhood in many diverse ways. “Virtual reality” seems to many to be more real, and better, than the dysfunctional pretenses (to them) that others call “reality.” So they redefine reality. Pretend becomes real; real becomes pretend.

This would be called mental illness, if it were not insisted on by so many people - it has been made “politically correct” - and therefore very gravely concerning for the life of the society and culture. The Church must live, and preach, and model reality. What God has made, is good. In His goodness and Truth, is our happiness.

Is this come upon us? –
2Th 2:9 The coming of the lawless one by the activity of Satan will be with all power and with pretended signs and wonders,
2Th 2:10 and with all wicked deception for those who are to perish, because they refused to love the truth and so be saved.
2Th 2:11 Therefore God sends upon them a strong delusion, to make them believe what is false,
2Th 2:12 so that all may be condemned who did not believe the truth but had pleasure in unrighteousness.
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Is it possible your daughter has had an abortion and this is her way of coping with a guilty conscience?
 
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