Prop. 8: Gay-marriage ban unconstitutional, court rules

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It’s not simply that same sex couples cannot reproduce. Same sex couples can not engage in marital relations.
Marital relations require sexual complementarity, not sameness. Any relationship between same sex couples is by biolgical necessity not a marital relationship. If there can be no marital relationship, there can be no marriage. This is been the case for about the last 10,000 years, at least since human societies came into existence. The law has no power to change it.
Exactly. As I’ve said, they are incapable of marriage. The reproduction argument was in response to the falsely claimed similarity between “gay marriage” and the “mongrel” argument made by interracial marriage opponents.
 
They are not incapable of “marriage” as defined by secular law…nor are they incapable of “marriage” based on the religious beliefs of my faith community…perhaps by those definitions which your religous community puts forth…but not mine…I have signed the marriage certificate for those who were “married under the care of the meeting”…married in the same way using the same words as I used when I was married “under the care of the meeting”.
Again, the immoral stance of your religion in this matter is irrelevant. We have freedom of religion, so your community can participate in whatever false ceremony you like. However, there is no reason our government should be compelled to recognize those ceremonies.
 
Seuxual expression between consenting adults IS a reality…again seeking to impose ones religious definitions on a secular institution as defined by secular law and definition isn’t the issue…both homsexual couples and heterosexual couples can engage in sexual experiences with one another…the “bits” don’t have to be different for sexual relations to occur.
Sexual “experiences?” One can have sexual “experiences” with anyone or anything. But that’s not marital intercourse, and it’s not marriage. I’m not talking religion, I’m talking biology. I know a lot of societies accepted homosexual relationships, but none accepted such relationships as marriage. I suppose that we may be the first society in history to think that a non-marital relationship can be marriage. It’s of no benefit to society; there’s no need to recognize it as a marriage because it isn’t.

I’m not saying that homosexual marriage is against religion. I’m just saying that homosexual marriage is impossible.
It’s a contradiction in terms.
 
Sexual “experiences?” One can have sexual “experiences” with anyone or anything. But that’s not marital intercourse, and it’s not marriage. I’m not talking religion, I’m talking biology. I know a lot of societies accepted homosexual relationships, but none accepted such relationships as marriage. I suppose that we may be the first society in history to think that a non-marital relationship can be marriage. It’s of no benefit to society; there’s no need to recognize it as a marriage because it isn’t.

I’m not saying that homosexual marriage is against religion. I’m just saying that homosexual marriage is impossible.
It’s a contradiction in terms.
Personally, I think it’s both. It’s an impossibility and anti-God.
 
Again, the immoral stance of your religion in this matter is irrelevant. We have freedom of religion, so your community can participate in whatever false ceremony you like. However, there is no reason our government should be compelled to recognize those ceremonies.
And yet state by state IS recongnizing same-sex marriage…next week another state to the north of me will sign into law a bill allowing same sex marriage. The court in California ruled in favor of the un-constitutionality of Prop 8…your beliefs compell you to believe there is no reason for the government to recognize same sex marriage…but secular law disagrees with your religious beliefs and in 6-7 states it is law…and in a hand full of others “domestic partnerships” and “civil unions” are recognized by law.
 
Personally, I think it’s both. It’s an impossibility and anti-God.
Exactly you “think” it is…but secular law allows same sex couples to be married as defined by secular law…in the exact same way they define opposite sex couples with all the rights and priveleges secular law allows under the banner of “marriage”. The state has a different definition of “impossible” I assume…not only is it “possible”…but it is a reality as defined by civil law. Your religious beliefs do not define what is “possible” and what is “impossible” in regard to civil law.🤷
 
And yet state by state IS recongnizing same-sex marriage…next week another state to the north of me will sign into law a bill allowing same sex marriage. The court in California ruled in favor of the un-constitutionality of Prop 8…your beliefs compell you to believe there is no reason for the government to recognize same sex marriage…but secular law disagrees with your religious beliefs and in 6-7 states it is law…and in a hand full of others “domestic partnerships” and “civil unions” are recognized by law.
The question of prop 8 hasn’t been fully determined yet. And, I will still be against immoral, unjust laws. I don’t worship the government as the arbiter of truth.
 
The question of prop 8 hasn’t been fully determined yet. And, I will still be against immoral, unjust laws. I don’t worship the government as the arbiter of truth.
No it is not over…the struggle will continue…and eventually it will be heard before the SCOTUS…then it most likely will be the “law of the land” in all 50 states and those laws governing discrimination against others in housing, business, employment will be enforced by that law…and those religious organizations which find it immoral will be able to hold those beliefs within their religious community.

There are religious organizations which still forbid inter-racial marriage…however those religious beliefs cannot be imposed upon the greater society.
 
A state might declare by legislation that stones are rational and Kansas is mountainous, but it would have no effect on reality.
 
No it is not over…the struggle will continue…and eventually it will be heard before the SCOTUS…then it most likely will be the “law of the land” in all 50 states and those laws governing discrimination against others in housing, business, employment will be enforced by that law…and those religious organizations which find it immoral will be able to hold those beliefs within their religious community.

There are religious organizations which still forbid inter-racial marriage…however those religious beliefs cannot be imposed upon the greater society.
I’m not imposing my beliefs any more or less than you and the other secularists are imposing your beliefs. We are a pluralistic society. You will not be able to silence Christ’s Church with irrelevant statements about the imposition of beliefs.

God-willing, common sense and reason will prevail and prevent all 50 states from calling something “marriage,” when it is not.
 
Exactly you “think” it is…but secular law allows same sex couples to be married as defined by secular law…in the exact same way they define opposite sex couples with all the rights and priveleges secular law allows under the banner of “marriage”. The state has a different definition of “impossible” I assume…not only is it “possible”…but it is a reality as defined by civil law. Your religious beliefs do not define what is “possible” and what is “impossible” in regard to civil law.🤷
The “state” is us. You are attributing some sort of moral authority of the state to overturn reality. It doesn’t have that power.
A state might declare by legislation that stones are rational and Kansas is mountainous, but it would have no effect on reality.
Agreed. There is not a “secular law” that can overturn God’s laws.
 
I’m not imposing my beliefs any more or less than you and the other secularists are imposing your beliefs. We are a pluralistic society. You will not be able to silence Christ’s Church with irrelevant statements about the imposition of beliefs.

God-willing, common sense and reason will prevail and prevent all 50 states from calling something “marriage,” when it is not.
No where did I request that your church be silenced…it simply cannot impose its rules and values upon me as I do not believe it has any authority whatsoever to do so…religious or secular authority…no one has stated you cannot hold your beliefs…you simply cannot impose them upon me or others.
 
A state might declare by legislation that stones are rational and Kansas is mountainous, but it would have no effect on reality.
The REALITY would be however that by law the stones ARE rational and Kansas IS viewed as mountainous…and if any who declare it to be so can now receive the benefits of that law would be able to do so.🤷
 
The “state” is us. You are attributing some sort of moral authority of the state to overturn reality. It doesn’t have that power.

Agreed. There is not a “secular law” that can overturn God’s laws.
And those whom we have dutifully elected and placed in authority over us to interpret the Constitutional secular law HAS in fact determined what is real in relation to secular law.

One’s beliefs as to what is “God’s law” doesn’t enter into the defining and implementing of secular law…your beliefs as to what is “God’s law” remain intact…you simply cannot impose those beliefs upon those who disagree with you…I do not believe your understanding of “God’s law” in regard to same sex marriage has merit…and I do not seek to impose my beliefs upon your ecclesial community…your “religious rights” end where my “religious rights” begin.
 
No where did I request that your church be silenced…it simply cannot impose its rules and values upon me as I do not believe it has any authority whatsoever to do so…religious or secular authority…no one has stated you cannot hold your beliefs…you simply cannot impose them upon me or others.
I’m sure slaveholders used the same argument when slavery was the law of the land. I guess you would have stood with them and demanded that the abolitionists not impose their beliefs on them. 😛

You have no understanding of how pluralism works. Again, I am not imposing my beliefs any more or less than you are. The difference is that I am on the side of morality.
 
I’m sure slaveholders used the same argument when slavery was the law of the land. I guess you would have stood with them and demanded that the abolitionists not impose their beliefs on them. 😛

You have no understanding of how pluralism works. Again, I am not imposing my beliefs any more or less than you are. The difference is that I am on the side of morality.
Ahhh…now we move to personal attack? Read your history concerning the role of Friends in the abolution of slavery friend.🙂

My favorite “Quaker saints” are John Woolman and Levi Coffin.
 
I’m not imposing my beliefs any more or less than you and the other secularists are imposing your beliefs. We are a pluralistic society. You will not be able to silence Christ’s Church with irrelevant statements about the imposition of beliefs.

God-willing, common sense and reason will prevail and prevent all 50 states from calling something “marriage,” when it is not.
Your entire argument is based on semantics. Call the union of two consenting adults what you like - it doesn’t change the legal definition of “marriage”. The current legal definition of “marriage” does not require a couple to engage in sexual relations and includes the possibility of “divorce” - which as a Catholic you believe does not exist either.

Despite the fact that the Catholic Church has determined that Newt Gingrich has been married only once, it does not change the fact that he has been LEGALLY married three times and I am sure his previous “wives” still have legal rights that derive from those legal but nonexistent “marriages”.

As for the procreative possibilities of same sex couples, that too will probably become a moot point in the near future. The combination of cloning and in vitro fertilization technologies will certainly make it possible for two women to share a daughter who is the biological offspring of them both.
 
Your entire argument is based on semantics. Call the union of two consenting adults what you like - it doesn’t change the legal definition of “marriage”. The current legal definition of “marriage” does not require a couple to engage in sexual relations and includes the possibility of “divorce” - which as a Catholic you believe does not exist either.

Despite the fact that the Catholic Church has determined that Newt Gingrich has been married only once, it does not change the fact that he has been LEGALLY married three times and I am sure his previous “wives” still have legal rights that derive from those legal but nonexistent “marriages”.

As for the procreative possibilities of same sex couples, that too will probably become a moot point in the near future. The combination of cloning and in vitro fertilization technologies will certainly make it possible for two women to share a daughter who is the biological offspring of them both.
Friend, you speak my mind in many ways.
 
Race and sexuality IS NOT BEING equated…the REASONS for denying inter-racial couples marriage and same sex couples marriage are similar if not THE SAME. The struggle of marriage equality between the sub groups face the same difficulties in society.

While same sex couples cannot reproduce…they can bring children into the relationship and the REASONS of why same sex marriage AND inter-racial marriage is harmful to the children rasied in same sex marriages or inter-racial marriages was/is used.

Simple question…inter-racial marriage was once deemed “unnatural” and against the will of God. Same sex marriage is deemed “unatural” and against the will of God…are not these two reasons the same? The SAME words are used…both were/are discriminated against in relation to housing and employment…both being denied housing due to the circumstance they find themselves DUE TO THE RELATIONSHIP they hold are the same.🤷
On the surface the arguments and reasons are the same, maybe. But, the opposition to interracial marriage were far nastier than those against same-sex marriage. Homosexuals have NEVER had it as hard as Blacks in this country (or Catholics for that matter).

Just because the arguments sound the same to you, does not mean they are false in both circumstances. With interracial marriage they were arguing against a superficial trait that was used to characterize an entire population of people. Sex is not a superficial trait. Men and women are not biologically interchangable.

The same arguments you use as examples could also be used against inter-species marriage or adult/child marriages and I don’t doubt that those same couples would experience discrimination, but it doesn’t mean that the arguments against such arrangements would be wrong.
 
Ahhh…now we move to personal attack? Read your history concerning the role of Friends in the abolution of slavery friend.🙂

My favorite “Quaker saints” are John Woolman and Levi Coffin.
Indeed. You are now making my argument. Thank you. 🙂

Or, do you think they shouldn’t have imposed their religious beliefs? 😛
 
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