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RebeccaJ
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Ok, show me where I said it was difficult to communicate.
Pointless, but ok…you said you couldn’t communicate with people unless you pretended to be someone that you aren’t. Which says to me, you were unable to communicate when in a mormon persona.
I said that a number of Catholics on this thread parallel and quality the attacks of anti-Catholics when they attack the CoJCoLDS. The communication is quite clear to me.
The commonalities are called facts.
The fact that I am/was a former Catholic as I sought to learn more about Catholicism was not particularly important. I was convinced that I did not know things about the Catholic Church that were relevant to me determining if I should return to the Catholic Church. It was ignorance that I was attempting to correct.
I believe that is what you think you did. But you never have removed your mormon colored glasses. You have approached Catholicism with all of your mormon preconceived ideas intact, and unchanged. Which means you have learned only what you wanted to learn.
Also, while I have never been merely a former Catholic on any message board, it has always been my perception that being a LDS was far more likely to incite unhelpful comments than being a former Catholic.
So, you’re guessing? Spend some time on a strong atheist forum, you’ll find your religious equity there.
I am quite certain that I do not hate, HATE, or … former Mormons.
I am quite certain that I blame folks for offering anti-Mormon arguments that I think are fallacious or worse and this has little to do with there previous religious affiliation.
It is only rarely that I feel that I am hated, but I am wondering if you are trying to tell me that I should feel hate from you.
So now you are an amateur psychologist? Please.
Generally, I assume folks are misinformed and lazy when they attack my faith in ways that I think are inappropriate. In truth, I think the same about folks who attack Catholicism in ways that I think are inappropriate.
Yeah, assumptions, that fit your paradigm.
This, has a small amount of truth to it by my observation, which is more than I would like to be the case. It is very overblown in its claimed effect. It is my opinion that seldom is the apostate to continued member relationship solely strained by one or the other side. I of course have little experience except as a former Catholic.
My father confided in my that he was pleasantly surprised that I did not cut-off our relationship when I became a LDS like some of his Catholic friends said would happen. Again, I suspect there is something that happens, but I suspect it is overblown.
What constitutes “overblown”? How many people have to be shunned, despised, and feel the love of their family dwindle and fail for it to be of consequence?
Finally, I do believe that there was some lack of communication that took place between you and me. It was my intention to communicate to Thirdnep, but I generally agree that when communication does not happen it is a two-way issue. I hope I have corrected some of your misperceptions about me and my post to thirdnep.
I agree. I had a bit of a knee jerk reaction to your conversation. But what I said, is not inaccurate, just perhaps sharper than necessary.
Charity, TOm