I am sorry you feel that way, I truly am. You are in disagreement with St. Paul because he says that the things passed down from him (and the rest of the apostles) orally are also the Word of God, and he says to hold fast to those traditions - which are the word of God. Not only are you in opposition to much of Scripture by holding this view, you are in opposition to 2000 years of Christian history and teaching, and logic, and also the Church that Christ himself established.
I was Baptist 6 years ago, Brian, but you know the difference between you and me? I listened to the promptings of the Holy Spirit when I was being led to the very Church I saw in a negative light and wanted to be wrong. I came home to the True Faith simply because it is the Truth - the Truth is Jesus Christ - the Church is the Mystical Body of Christ - that Church is the Holy Catholic Church founded by Christ 2000 years ago and has not fallen since then, according to His promise and teh guidence of the Holy Spirit.
I know it is hard to let go of bias opinion, especially when we refuse to let go of the blinders.