With regard to various issues raised in this thread I would like to make a few observations - in a personal capacity, although I am a member of Opus Dei.
What kind of member are you, Michael?
Members of Opus Dei make commitments, not vows, but these are binding under the laws of God’s Church and the due processes of that Church’s laws are
involved in their termination.
I don’t think so, Michael, but maybe you could provide a reference to some Canon Law about this? I can’t find anything. There are also these paragraphs that the Founder included in the Constitutions:
–52 S2
No special ceremony is prescribed for the incorporation of the Supernumeraries into the Institute; nevertheless, for them to pronounce the Oblation or the Fidelity, they are obligated to recite the formula of the vows in the presence of at least two witnesses.
–53 S1
For the Numeraries, the incorporation into the Institute accomplished through the Oblation, requires taking social vows of poverty, of chastity and of obedience.
–53 S2
These social vows, although they are not recognized as public vows according to the law (Canon 1308 S1), they are, nevertheless, recognized by the Church; wherefore they can also be called private vows, recognized. These cease in the case of dismissal or dissolution of the bond by which Numeraries are bound to the Institute, conceded by the Holy See, or the Father, as the case may be.
With regard to the allegation of secrecy, the Statutes of Opus Dei state in
article 89, section 2: “omnino simul vitat secretum vel clandestinitatem” //
at the same time completely forbids secrecy or concealment.
No one has “alleged” anything that I know of. And the phrase you posted, does, indeed, appear in that paragraph. Here are some other paragraphs that deal specifically with the topic, all of which were written by Josemaria Escriva, himself, in the 1950 Constitutions. I can supply them in Latin if you desire:
N189
In order for [Opus Dei] to reach its proper end more effectively, it wishes to live as hidden, therefore it abstains from collective acts and does not have a name or common denomination by which its members are called. Given the character of [Opus Dei], which externally does not desire to appear publicly as a society, it is not appropriate that its members should engage collectively in certain manifestations of cult like processions.
N190 By virtue of this collective humility, which is proper of our Institute [Opus Dei], whatever is done by the members is not attributable to itself; but rather, whatever good is attained by them is attributable to God alone. Consequently, even membership in [Opus Dei] admits no external manifestations. The number of members is kept hidden from outsiders; and indeed our people do not discuss these things with outsiders.
N191 This collective humility leads our people to live the life which they consecrate to God with the same discretion which is most suited to the desired fruitfulness of the apostolate. The lack of this discretion can constitute a grave obstacle to exercising apostolic work or create some difficulty in the environment of one’s natural family or in the exercise of their office or profession.
Thus the Numerary and Supernumerary members should know they are to live a prudent silence regarding the names of other members; and that they are never to reveal to anyone that they themselves belong to Opus Dei, not even to spread the Institute, without express permission from their local director. This discretion especially binds those who are newly accepted in the Institute and also to those who, for whatever reason, have left the Institute. [Opus Dei] and some of its members, however, need to be known, because all our apostolic works develop and are carried out within the bounds of civil law and likewise, with the same strength of soul, each one of us, altogether shuns secrecy and clandestine activity, for the only thing which moves us to maintain this discretion is humility and a deeper and more fruitful apostolic efficacy.
N192 There is never permitted to be an insignia proper to the Institute, by which the members, priests or laity, would be distinguished from others.
N193 These Constitutions, published instructions and those which in the future may be published, and the other things pertaining to the government of [Opus Dei] are never to be made public. Indeed, without the permission of the Father, those documents which are written in the Latin language may not be translated into vernacular languages.
N194 In those points in which the Priestly Society of the Holy Cross, or Opus Dei falls under the civil law of their own region, they should faithfully submit to it. Other points which regard the internal government of [Opus Dei], the organization, customs, spirit, ceremonies and methods of apostolate, are permitted to be known only to the legitimate ecclesiastical authority.