Ok, after reading this forum I’m glad to see I’m not the only Catholic to enjoy listening to metal! I do think it’s funny how people actually think listening to Metallica will turn you away from God. Music tends to be a scapegoat for people to place blame. I’ve been listening to metal since I was 18 and I’m more into now than I ever was at age 25. I also attend church on a weekly basis, donate time, money, clothing, etc to charities, and help anyone out without expecting anything in return. I enjoy listening to Korn, Staind, Disturbed, Flaw, Chevelle, and Mudvayne. I enjoy their music because it shows emotion, which is hard to find in today’s music. When I’m stressed out, or if I want to get energized, metal helps me release that anger and turn it into positive energy. The lyrics mean nothing to me, for the most part. If I hear some lyrics that I don’t agree with, I’ll just omit that part when I’m singing along, but I will not throw the cd out and listen to John Tesh or Kenny G since they do not swear. (note: I have nothing against John Tesh or Kenny G… they’re just at the other end of the spectrum!)
It is possible your kid doesn’t even know what the lyrics say. My first cassette was Vanilla Ice (unedited). I listened to that all the time and enjoyed it until I heard my friends talk about how dirty one of the songs were. I think talking is the best thing to do, not censoring. In my opinion, the kids that end up being corrupt do not do so because of the music they listen to, it’s because mom and dad didn’t show their love, or get involved in their life. Or they got too involved and started censoring what they listen to, which made them rebel. Metal tends to be an outlet for “abandoned” youth, which I think causes the bad stereotype.
And out of curiosity, what would you prefer to have your child listen to? Or what does he/she watch on tv, or at the movie theatre? Black-Eyed-Peas are popular, read their lyrics. 50 Cent? Even country music… “Save a Horse, Ride a Cowboy” was popular a few months ago. How about Britney Spears, Ashlee Simpson… great role models there
I guess my point is you can try censoring all you want, but unless they’re locked in your basement all their childhood, they’ll be exposed to bad influences, and it’s up to you to make them aware they are bad. My parents were understanding like that. Sure, I’m no saint, but I think I’m better spiritually than many of my non-metal friends that have abandoned God or the Church.
Two more things… 1) why does everyone think Korn is evil? Even Head (the guy that left Korn) mentioned that, but I don’t see it… possibly because I’m wrapped up in the music and not so much the lyrics. And 2) I suggest the Metallica Haters watch the video “One.” Very emotional for anyone that has gone through war or lost a loved one in war. The video has some audio overlays and scenes (from an old movie, I think) that are sad, involving a guy who was badly injured and wants to end his life.