I am not trying to be judgemental or rude in posting this forum. I just need some help and direction because ever7thing that I am about to mention causes me great spiritual anguish. I have problems determining God’s will, and I really need someone to explain to me why some of this stuff is allowed and why I should not be concerned about it. I have gone back and forth, thinking I should only go to Latin Mass, and then thinking the Novus Ordo was okay. I have even entertained the idea of attending an SSPX chapel. That would be wrong. Do NOT do that. Why don’t you find a nice, regular TLM parish, one fully united with the one true church without any irregular status?
I have read the Vatican II document Sacrosanctum Concilium (SC) which calls for reform of the Liturgy. I do not necessarily have an issue with the reform which is why you don’t agree with SSPX, or with the Novus Ordo Mass, but I have a problem with the way that it is celebrated no arguing there, there’s a LOT of abuse. SC never calls for the Holy Eucharist to be distributed in the hand. I personally think that Eucharist in the hand is wrong The eucharist was distributed in the hand in the very early church. If done with proper reverence and care, it’s fine (not that it’s always done with proper reverence). For example, I was told in elementary school that if I took communion in the hand (which I usually do, because I’m rather tall and we don’t have a communion rail and it would draw lots of attention and distract people from preparing to receive, among other reasons) I should thoroughly examine my hand for any fragment, and lick it if needed. In the past decade, I’ve seen fragments twice.(That freaks me out because other people don’t always look) Anyways, my point is that it’s possible to receive in the hand with reverence. , and there is all kinds of evidence to support that. Communion in the hand was an indult, which expired and yet it continued after its expiration. It was even started as an abuse and is a way to show that the person receiving does not believe that Christ is truly present. Really? “When thou goest to receive communion go not with thy wrists extended, nor with thy fingers separated, but placing thy left hand as a throne for thy right, which is to receive so great a King, and in the hollow of the palm receive the body of Christ, saying, Amen.” (Catechesis mystagogica V, xxi-xxii, Migne Patrologia Graeca 33)
SC also never called for the priest to face the people.Not arguing there Ad Orientum Mass is a way for the priest to lead the faithful to God. The Priest and the faithful all face God and it is obviously a sacrifice that is taking place. I have only ever been to one Ad Orientum Novus Ordo Mass and it is two states away from me so I can’t go to it whenever I want to, although I would if I could. When the priest faces the people the nature of the sacrifice is taken away and the Mass becomes more of a meal. And the priest is no longer facing God, it is as if we are there to worship ourselves.you have good points, but this is by far not the biggest abuse.
SC also never called for female altar servers okay, it only called for Eucharistic ministers in unusual circumstances I agree. It also said that there should be a period of silence, that Gregorian Chant should be the norm, and that the music shouldn’t take away from the sacredness of the Mass.All good points, but why not find a TLM? (you mentioned that it’s hard to find a solemn NO near you). Why go to an irregular SSPX chapel?
Almost every Catholic Mass that you go to every weekend goes against what SC say. The priest faces the people, the Eucharist is distributed in the hand, Eucharisitic ministers distribute communion in usual circumstances, there are female altar servers, guitars, drums, no silence, and there is basically never Gregorian Chant. When Joe Biden and Nancy Pelosi received Holy Communion at the Pope’s Mass it was very disheartening for me. I don’t understand hoe Joe Biden and Nancy Pelosi are Catholics in good standing but the SSPX are not The thing is, they’re not really. They shouldn’t have recieved communion. I am really having a crisis of faith about this, and I am a husband and a father of two boys with one more boy on the way. I want them all to go to Heaven so I want to follow Jesus the way he wants to be followed. Any help would be greatly appreciated.