Free will is not quite absolute, there. They may disbelieve or outright reject God,
but not want to accept the consequences of their actions. If their free will were absolute, then they could choose to be free from the consequences of their action.
So the free will argument seems to say, “you
are free to do as you choose, but you are
not free to escape from the consequences of your actions.”
And who determines what the consequences of your actions
are? Not you, but the nature of reality (again, the dream of any wrongdoer is wrongdoing
without consequences, which isn’t going to fly). But who defines the nature of reality? Not you, but God.
If God is truly omnipotent, then we are back with the dilemma of whether it would have been more merciful to have created less
severe consequences for rejecting him.
In our penal system, for example, we’ve abolished cruel and unusual punishment and, in some cases, the death penalty. We’ve
alleviated the consequences for those who have chosen criminal behavior. Some are even jealous of the amenities of our prisons
It still remains a paradox, then, why an omnipotent God could not have made the consequences of rejecting Him less severe and less permanent.
Another limitation of freedom is that there is no free will in hell. Change, growth, and repentance are no longer possible. One cannot pray for those in hell – they are beyond the reach of prayers. If God respected the freedom of all of his creatures – out of love – then there would
always be (it seems) the freedom to repent and to turn back towards him. If one
wanted – i.e., freely chose to ask – for help in doing that (e.g., “I find it difficult to love God, but I would like help in doing so”), then it would seem that help would always be available. After all, eternity is an awfully long time
Someone like Hitler spent 50-something years on earth, and at least 30 of them propagating acts of great cruelty. Thirty long years, before his death, of rejecting the nature of God.
How long would it take to repent, or to learn from such grievious transgressions? The equivalent of one-hundred years, perhaps? One-thousand? One million? Ten million? One
billion? Eternity, within the context of 30 or so years of temporality, creates the paradox of why change is
never possible.
As one person I know but it, “it is itself a paradox that temporal decisions have eternal consequences.” Again,
we make the decisions – but it is
God that has decided that the consequences
are the consequences.