The best way forward is to change how police are trained in America. I had no idea since the 1970’s officers were trained to treat everyone as threats. This is not how police are usually trained elsewhere.
I agree training needs to change, but I would also say that it has been changing, and continues to change. I went through a police academy before embarking on my current journey. When I went through, they didn’t teach us everyone “is a threat”, but to always consider the possibility that they “could be”. It’s a subtle but importance difference. We also had quite a bit of training in communications, police/ first responder mental health, mental illnesses in the community taught by social workers, even a class devoted entirely to autism and working with those diagnosed with autism taught by an officer who had a child with autism, and strategies for working with, in, and as part of a community (I.e. community policing). We were taught the importance of “community caretaking” as well, and ways to help people get the services they need. Not to the extent of a social worker, but enough to be a bridge to the social worker. First Responder training is pretty standard at police academies, but we were also afforded the opportunity to attach EMT training onto our police training.
Anyway, my point is it’s not all militarized and violent, and while that is part of a police officer’s job, it’s not the totality of it. That said, there’s no national standard, and while all academies will have similar elements, they’ll also have slightly different elements and different emphases.
I think adding more “community policing” and “community caretaking” type classes would be ideal. More classes on human behavior would also be important. But also more training in “officer Mental health” programs. Most police enter the profession for the right reasons (many even look at it as a “calling”, similar to a vocation in a sense), but given what they see and have to deal with, it’s common for them to become jaded and cynical. Several fatal car accidents, investigating heinous crimes, and similar things will have a toll on an officer’s mental health. An excellent book about it is “Emotional Survival for Law Enforcement” by Kevin Gilmartin. If I was a police chief, I would make that book mandatory reading, and perhaps bring social workers onto the police payroll to help officers implement those changes into their lives… things like maintaining a circle of friends outside work, learning how to talk about the bad things witnessed in the line of duty so they don’t “build up” being proactive against PTSD, having healthy lifestyles,
having a strong faith and spirituality, etc. these things also contribute to officer mental health, and as a result impact the way they view the world and interact with the public.
Just my two cents.