As an atheist, even though I live in a largely non-religious society, I constantly have to be careful about what I say.
That’s an interesting perspective! Back before I was Christian I never felt intimidated to talk loudly about my views. But maybe we have different contexts (and also I was a brash youth). Definitely my experience though has been that only as a Christian have I felt the need to hush. Though I was never an atheist. But Wiccan/neopagan.
I guess (again, our local contexts may be different) I just knew growing up that society had made a space for me to ‘defy’ Christianity, and even when framing myself as a minority (eg ‘Burning Times’ malarkey, and the reality that I didn’t have peers who shared my specific thoughts), I never actually felt anything but superior to Christians, and safe from them. Even when in the room with them, I knew they’d have to fall silent if I framed things a certain way. I knew the larger society would be ‘on my side’ and that everyone considered the Christians the bad guys.
Again though, context. I’ve never lived (eg) in the American Bible Belt. I can imagine the situation being different for (eg) an atheist raised in a fundamentally religious family entrenched in a community of believers, or working for a religious employer who turns the tables like an uno reverse card of my personal experience.
Fair enough that you feel unable to say something due to forum rules (I’m not sure which they are, but I apologize for tempting you to break them; it wasn’t my intent).
PS thank you from a distance for giving your employees permission to go to Mass. That’s a beautiful thing.
why don’t we all agree to support religious and non-religious freedom and the exclusion of religious and non-religious belief from the public sphere (law, rights etc)
Depends for me on where that line is drawn, honestly.
I do get the problem. It’s why I typically try to stay out of the political side of things because politics and the law are about controlling others, whereas my preference is to pay attention to how I can control myself. By default my attitude toward politics (especially as someone who has
genuinely been on opposite sides of the same debates over the years) is to support the most neutral space possible that allows everyone to shape their own individual life as they choose.
At the same time, it seems to me that sincere Christians and sincere atheists (and sincere others) still run into major problems that from each of our perspectives it makes sense that we struggle with. Where do we draw the line if we think human rights are already inherent to preborn persons? Where do we draw the line if we think it’s child abuse for parents to teach their SSA children that same-sex romantic activity is a sin? When one side thinks the other is murdering children, and one side thinks the other is brainwashing/traumatizing children, I think we
all seem to struggle with deciding to step back, even in the name of compromise.
Anyway, tangent. I don’t want to derail thread. Thanks for the brief chat.