There is a difference between faith and trust. I have faith in m parish priest, but I don’t trust him with my car because he’s a lousy driver. However, I do have faith that he has the authority to teach, govern and sanctity. The govern part is the sticking point here. But it comes with the sacrament of Holy Orders.
This is where many people fall into error. I believe it has to do with the word “correct”. You can point out errors or mistakes to anyone, not just the priest. But correct also has another connotation. It can mean to impose discipline or to admonish with authority.
I don’t have the authority to discipline my brothers in my community. I have the duty to point out errors. But I also have a moral obligation to remember that I am nothing. I am the most insignificant member of my community. Therefore, since I am a no body, I cannot discipline, nor can I refuse to cooperate with my brothers or show them kindness and respect. They are are all superior to me. The only time that I have a right not to cooperate is if they ask me to commit a sin. Other than that, I have no authority over them. I am not their superior.
This same line of thinking applies when we deal with others, not just those in our homes or our religious communities. Another example that I can give. I can tell my neighbor’s kids when they are doing something wrong. But I can’t discipline them. They’re not my children. Well in the case of a priest, I have to be either his bishop or his religious superior to have the authority to correct him. I can only point out mistakes and wrong doing. Other than that, I have to treat him as I would my neighbor’s kids. Just like you go to the kids’ parents, you have to go to the appropriate superior of the priest.
To try to punish a priest or religious is over stepping your boundaries. It’s like trying to punish or discipline your neighbor’s kids. When we overstep our boundaries, thats’ when we get into trouble.
That’s why I prefer to say that we have the right to offer feedback, fraternal correction, and to educate each other. To say that we have the right and duty to correct can be misinterpreted as meaning to govern another person. That we don’t have the righ to do to any priest or religious. Even the laity can only be governed by the clergy or religioius, not by other lay people. Fraternal correction is a better expression. We can say that we have a duty to offer fraternal correction. That does not imply governing or disciplining. The moment you put in the word “fraternal” it is understood that it is an act among siblings, not master and disciple, as is the case with major superiors and bishops. They are legitimate masters.
I hope this helped.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF