Maybe I missed it, but why exactly did you stop attending RCIA?
No you didn’t miss it because I didn’t say - but now you ask:
In no particular order of importance and as briefly as possible:
The lack of evidence in catholics lives around me of their catholic faith - the sunday brigade.
The hypocracy - telling others how to live their lives while the statistics from the church’s own research shows the vast majority of catholics (in name) contracept, engage in premarital sex, abort, and are either ambivolent to, or plain don’t believe in transubstantiation.
The abuse - and the evil and contrived way the leaders of the church piled pain upon pain on the victims calling them liars, crooks, gold diggers, opportunists, while covering up hard evidence to the truth the victims told.
Papal infallability.
The Filioque.
Marionology.
RICA itself - it became apparent that the class was not about asking questions and getting answers, buut about being fed information which you signed up to. I had read more of the catechism than the catechist !!!
That will do for starters.
I don’t regret the time I spend in RICA. I met some good people. But it’s not for me.
So what to do now? Who knows.
I feel like I’m back in a hole - nightsights on - waiting and watching for the next sound, because that sound, and my reaction to it, will determine what happens next, and whether I will be dead or alive at the end of it.
Only this time it’s spiritual.