S.F. Catholic Church priest bans girls as altar servers

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…then that assumption was used as a cause of vocations being vigorous in Africa.
For the record, I never disputed that the number of religious nuns could be increased by allowing them to serve at a younger age. In fact, I think many still take on those tasks in convents and the like. As for priests, I think it’s very inconclusive, especially since it takes years to become one after normal serving age. Perhaps Cardinal Arinze sees something we don’t.
 
This sounds great. There is a reason why the Church allows variances in this matter. It is problematic for the bishop in this case rule that a parish must let both girls and boys serve just for the sake of unity. .
Not only problematic, but the Vatican specifically ruled that a bishop does not have the authority to mandate the use of girls in altar service.

He can only permit their use in his diocese
In accord with the above cited instructions of the Holy See such an authorization may not, in any way, exclude men or, in particular, boys from service at the altar, nor require that priests of the diocese would make use of female altar servers
adoremus.org/CDW-AltarServers.html

Likewise if an associate pastor decided to use only boys to server at the Masses he said, the pastor could not mandate their use, as a pastor received his authority over a parish from the bishop, and therefore cannot receive more authority than the bishop himself has.

A pastor likewise, cannot forbid a visiting priest from using only altar boys, but does have the authority to disallow the visiting priest to say Mass in his parish. But if he allows the priest to say Mass, the celebrant can choose to use only altar boys ( or even, no servers at all)
 
Not only problematic, but the Vatican specifically ruled that a bishop does not have the authority to mandate the use of girls in altar service.
In the real world, he can exert as much influence as he wishes. As I said above, the bishop can suggest to a priest that if he does not do XYZ, his next Mass in the diocese will be said as a prison chaplain. Likewise, the Pastor can make it difficult for an associate, though without as much leverage, and a visiting priest can simply not be invited. It is so much better to simply work with someone whose authority you are under than "standin’ up for my rights,’ even in America, were we have lost the lessons learned from obedience. The fact that this has to even be said speaks volumes as to how far we have fallen.

In this case, we have a priest that works with the bishop. Now it is time for the parishioners to embrace their role and accept what the priest has decided whether they personally agree or not.
 
In the real world, he can exert as much influence as he wishes. As I said above, the bishop can suggest to a priest that if he does not do XYZ, his next Mass in the diocese will be said as a prison chaplain. Likewise, the Pastor can make it difficult for an associate, though without as much leverage, and a visiting priest can simply not be invited. It is so much better to simply work with someone whose authority you are under than "standin’ up for my rights,’ even in America, were we have lost the lessons learned from obedience. The fact that this has to even be said speaks volumes as to how far we have fallen.

In this case, we have a priest that works with the bishop. Now it is time for the parishioners to embrace their role and accept what the priest has decided whether they personally agree or not.
Yes, and in every case, the bishop, or the pastor would be valuing the altar girls over the priest.

The bishop would lose a pastor ( something they often have difficulty in filling). and the pastor might not have a priest to cover for him when he wants to go on vacation, or on a retreat.

Either shows bad pastoral skills.

It would be better of the bishops or pastors in your analogy simply recognize the limitations of their authority. I’m sure that a bishop would be very resentful of someone attempting to exert authority over them that they do not have. Similarly, I would assume that they not desire to be hypocrites and attempt to exert authority that THEY do not have over others.
 
Yes, and in every case, the bishop, or the pastor would be valuing the altar girls over the priest.

It would be better of the bishops or pastors in your analogy simply recognize the limitations of their authority.
This is not necessarily true, as those who have faced issues with subordinates can tell you, any more than it is true that the priest is valuing altar boys over his bishop. The bishop is the head of every parish and the priest operates in the name of the bishop. It is critical that no priest misunderstand this fact. I agree that this one issue would make a ridiculous reason to remove a priest. However, if could well be indicative of a pattern of lack of obedience, or a pattern of the priest moving a parish in a way the bishop does not want.

It seems a while back that the bishop that went to having strictly altar boys has one priest that did not like this and was going to stop having altar servers. While this may have been his right, and a ridiculous reason to remove him, it is indicative of a deeper issue of defying the bishop and moving in a direction not in line with that bishop.
 
This thread makes me so sad. WWJD? If there was a girl who said to Jesus, “You are my savior and I would be humbled to serve for you at mass”, do you really think Jesus would turn her away simply because she was a female?

At my church, most of the alter servers are girls. In fact, my younger sister is an alter server. I am proud of her for not being afraid of sexist stereotypes like in this article and serving because she loves God and not for any other purpose. I think she, as a 13 year old, should be allowed to serve.

She has no desire to become a nun, and her choice to serve was completely voluntary.

I think women should be allowed to display their adoration of God in front of the whole parish while aiding in the mass. I also don’t think they need to have a reason for it. They shouldn’t need the reasons of preparing for the nunnery or anything else. Most of the young men and women servers at my parish are there out of their own choice. Why won’t the church accept all who want to serve God, and not just those who can become priests?
I am very pleased to see the girls in our parish serve along with the boys. I think they take it seriously and do a great job. I think that it was a positive change to allow girls to become alter servers. I especially like to see the children in procession before and after the Mass carrying Our Lord on the cross as this is pleasing to Our Lady. This thread makes me sad also.
 
I am very pleased to see the girls in our parish serve along with the boys. I think they take it seriously and do a great job. I think that it was a positive change to allow girls to become alter servers. I especially like to see the children in procession before and after the Mass carrying Our Lord on the cross as this is pleasing to Our Lady. This thread makes me sad also.
The last thing Our Lady wants is for Catholics to ignore Her Son, who still guides the Magisterium. That should make you happy, not sad.
 
Likewise, for a visiting priest, he can simply be allowed to celebrate Mass without any altar servers if he does not like those assigned that day.
Actually, he cannot do that either. The same dubia noted that a bishop (nor priest) can forbid the use of boys or men at the altar.
 
This is not necessarily true, as those who have faced issues with subordinates can tell you, any more than it is true that the priest is valuing altar boys over his bishop. The bishop is the head of every parish and the priest operates in the name of the bishop. It is critical that no priest misunderstand this fact. I agree that this one issue would make a ridiculous reason to remove a priest. However, if could well be indicative of a pattern of lack of obedience, or a pattern of the priest moving a parish in a way the bishop does not want…
By definition, this would not be indicative of a lack of obedience. Aquinas defined the Virtue of Obedience as conforming one’s will to the will of the one who has authority.

The bishop does not have the authority to demand the use of altar girls. Since the bishop lacks that authority, by definition, this cannot be disobedience.

You are 100% correct that the priest operates in the name of the bishop, which is precisely WHY a pastor cannot mandate that an associate pastor (or visiting priest) make use of altar boys. The pastor operates in the name of the bishop, and the bishop himself cannot make such a mandate. And any attempt by a bishop to do so, is by definition, a disobedient act. As the bishop himself has not conformed HIS will to the will of the one with authority.

I actually know of a specific, real case. A man who was about to be ordained to the priesthood was invited by the pastor of my then parish to say a Mass of Thanksgiving. The seminarian in question had done his parish internship there and was well known in the parish.

The seminarian invited 4 boys with whom he had worked ( my son being among them) to serve at the Thanksgiving Mass. The pastor heard of this, and mandated that at least one girl be included. This seminarian did not want to revoke the invitations, and was unsure of what to do.

Fortunately for him, a Dominican priest was living the rectory of that parish and had heard of the incident. He, (being a Canon Lawyer) was familiar with the Vatican ruling and attempted to dissuade the pastor from the mandate. The pastor still refused. So the Dominican informed the Archbishop of this clear disobedience.

The Archbishop ( Cardinal Maida) informed the pastor that he had no right to give that instruction and to cease attempting to do so. The pastor had the right to refuse the Mass of Thanksgiving at the parish, but if he did so, he was to inform the faithful as to his reasons for cancelling the Mass.

The Mass was said, the altar boys served.

FYI, that was over a decade ago. The seminarian is now a pastor himself (and yes, uses only boys in altar service at his parish)
 
By definition, this would not be indicative of a lack of obedience. Aquinas defined the Virtue of Obedience as conforming one’s will to the will of the one who has authority.
That was not the point. From a bishop’s perspective, such a priest is still subject to the bishop’s decisions, right or wrong. At work we have a saying for such issues, “that’s not a cross I want to die on.” In your story, do you thing that seminarian was ever invited back to say Mass by that priest? If the priest is a man of exceptional humility, perhaps. However, if he took a blow to his pride, it would be hard. In a relationship that lasts for decades between a bishop and a priest, one has to weigh the cost of such decisions.

I guess I admire the Franciscan concept of obedience and its merits, but I know it is not something all religious are bound by.
 
The last thing Our Lady wants is for Catholics to ignore Her Son, who still guides the Magisterium. That should make you happy, not sad.
I believe that it is the Holy Spirit that guides the Magisterium, or perhaps Jesus through the Holy Spirit. Having girl altar servers in no way is ignoring Jesus or bringing disservice to the Magisterium.

What makes me sad is people who are more intent on looking at the letter of the law rather than focusing on their faith.
 
That was not the point.
Well you stated that it could be indicitive of a patter of disobedince, and I fail to see how it could be, if it was not a disobedient act.
From a bishop’s perspective, such a priest is still subject to the bishop’s decisions, right or wrong.
Yes, I agrreed that the bishop COULD transfer him, that would be within the competency of the bishop.

But, to use your comment, I’m not too sure that would be a cross that the bishop would "want to die on’, as doing so would have it’s own administrative burdens.
In your story, do you thing that seminarian was ever invited back to say Mass by that priest?
Not to my knowledge. His pastoral associate assignment assignment was at a different parish, as was his next one. He was then given two other parishes, each larger than the next.
If the priest is a man of exceptional humility, perhaps. However, if he took a blow to his pride, it would be hard.
In a relationship that lasts for decades between a bishop and a priest, one has to weigh the cost of such decisions.
Exactly, which is why the VAST majority of bishops, including +Cordileone, in which the OP parish is in, choose not to exhibit disobedient behavior to their priests. It can damage the relationship that they wish to foster. A bishop who ignores instructions from authorities above them often have difficulty in asking for compliance themselves.
 
Originally Posted by KSU
The last thing Our Lady wants is for Catholics to ignore Her Son, who still guides the Magisterium.
I believe that it is the Holy Spirit that guides the Magisterium, or perhaps Jesus through the Holy Spirit. Having girl altar servers in no way is ignoring Jesus or bringing disservice to the Magisterium.

What makes me sad is people who are more intent on looking at the letter of the law rather than focusing on their faith.
The Church is the Mystical Body of Christ on earth, animated by the Holy Spirit, but guided and directed by Christ, the head, according to the Magisterium. He continues to rule the Church from within by supernatural means that are permanent and constantly active within the members, including the Magisterium .

But, I won’t take issue with your opinion as to which Person of the Trinity can be more properly said to guide the Magisterium. Still, it makes me sad when people are more intent on looking at the letter of the law, as they wish it to be, rather than focusing on their faith. (We used to call it picking fly droppings out of the pepper; not uncommon in this thread).😉

As members of Christ’s Mystical Body, peoples’ faith should be based on the clear teaching of the Magisterium. The teaching regarding girl altar servers, and the special conditions under which Bishops may allow them, is shown below. Champion the opposite position if you wish.​

  1. The Holy See respects the decision adopted by certain Bishops for specific local reasons on the basis of the provisions of Canon 230 2. At the same time, however, the Holy See wishes to recall that it will always be very appropriate to follow the noble tradition of having boys serve at the altar. As is well known, this has led to a reassuring development of priestly vocations. Thus the obligation to support such groups of altar boys will always continue.
  2. If in some diocese, on the basis of Canon 230 #2, the Bishop permits that, for particular reasons, women may also serve at the altar, this decision must be clearly explained to the faithful, in the light of the above-mentioned norm. It shall also be made clear that the norm is already being widely applied, by the fact that women frequently serve as lectors in the Liturgy and can also be called upon to distribute Holy Communion as Extraordinary Ministers of the Eucharist and to carry out other functions, according to the provisions of the same Canon 230 #3.
  3. It must also be clearly understood that the liturgical services mentioned above are carried out by lay people ex temporanea deputatione, according to the judgment of the Bishop, without lay people, be they men or women, having any right to exercise them.
In communicating the above, the Congregation for Divine Worship and the Discipline of the Sacraments has sought to carry out the mandate received from the Supreme Pontiff to provide directives to illustrate what is laid down in Canon 230 #2 of the Code of Canon Law and its authentic interpretation, which will shortly be published.
ewtn.com/library/curia/cdwcomm.htm
 
But, to use your comment, I’m not too sure that would be a cross that the bishop would "want to die on’, as doing so would have it’s own administrative burdens.
That is a good point. I think this is why such decisions are almost never an issue. I note that the bishop in this case backed his priest. I would bet most priests would reciprocate and listen to “advice” from the bishop, even if it was not what he really wanted.
 
Actually, he cannot do that either. The same dubia noted that a bishop (nor priest) can forbid the use of boys or men at the altar.
In that one case, the priest brought his own, so this would apply. Note though that “not forbidding”, and “providing” are two different things. Also, in most cases the priest could still simply not invite the visiting priest.

I found the whole idea of making sure there was one altar girl for a particular Mass weird and, again, indicative of a larger problem, or an agenda.
 
In that one case, the priest brought his own, so this would apply. Note though that “not forbidding”, and “providing” are two different things. Also, in most cases the priest could still simply not invite the visiting priest.
If you were referring to my example, the altar boys were all altar boys in the parish already. The seminarian simply choose 4 altar servers from the parish roster who all were boys.
I found the whole idea of making sure there was one altar girl for a particular Mass weird and, again, indicative of a larger problem, or an agenda.
Yea, I think that pastor got some flack for it, not only from the Cardinal, but from other parishioners. That was why the Thanksgiving Mass did not get cancelled, the people in the parish WANTED to celebrate the Ordination and no one (except for the pastor) seemed to care that the altar servers were all boys.
 
I found the whole idea of making sure there was one altar girl for a particular Mass weird and, again, indicative of a larger problem, or an agenda.
Substitute reader and Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion for altar server and you get the situation in our parish a few years ago. As the person who did up the schedule I would be taken to task if I didn’t schedule both men and women at every Mass. It still sticks in the craw of some women that only the KofC are readers and EMHCs at the Sunday Mass on the First Sunday of the Month.
 
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