I guess I find this all so hard because it seems we are fighting violence with violence.
Basic question - would you want your mother to fight back if she was being raped with the possibility that she would end up dead at the end? When it comes down to it, that’s what it’s all about, IMO. Fighting violence with violence is not always wrong. I think God’s desire is for us NOT to fight evil by becoming more evil. I don’t see self-defense as evil, and never will. Now - revenge is another story - that is fighting violence with violence.
but considering the nature of the gun - in that it is designed to kill - it just gives me a bad perception of the gun-owner. (Although, I do feel sorry if they are so scared for their safety.)
So because I don’t want to have an EFFECTIVE means of self-defense you have a bad perception of me? Let’s drop the word ‘perception’ and I will call it like I see it - ‘judgment’. Bigotry based on one facet of a person…
And BTW - I am NOT scared for my safety. I drive and I am not terrified because I have a seat belt on and airbags. I was a girl scout - “be prepared” was our motto. Being a gun owner makes me sleep easily at night.
Since we are talking about defense a lot on this thread, it would seem that we are overly concerned/ paranoid about our safety, but I think they opposite is true.
Has America reached a point of no-return, in that nobody is willing to give up their arms because they are afraid their neighbour won’t? Or do you just get a thrill out of guns?
A thrill??? Yeah - you can just see us blood-thirsty savages wanting to ‘go hunting’ criminals, can’t you.
In case you’ve missed my point (not sure if it was here or on another thread), a typical man can easily hurt a typical woman. He DOES NOT need a gun to be a potential threat. I took 1.5 years in a martial art - for the general activity, not for a self-defense reason. I did learn a fair amount about physical interactions, limitations and the finer points of self-defense. Anyone who thinks a woman can protect herself against an unarmed man successfully is ignorant of the reality of life.
What happens if somebody attacks you from behind? Or with surprise? How does a gun protect you then?
I am reasonable enough to know that nothing will protect me in every situation, nor did I ever claim that. I suppose if I get knocked unsconscious, I may have a slower reaction rate. If I got shot from far away with a crossbow, that too may slow me down. Can we keep the strawmen out of this argument?