same sex marriage question for all faiths.

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Again…is showing loving kindness and respect “cheering someone on”…how is being kind, loving and respectful…sharing a friendship “giving a thumbs up” or “stamp of approval”?

Are all of your prospective “friends” interviewed before you offer your friendship to insure they have no 'objectionable sins" according to your faith tradition in their lives?

I’m having a hard time getting my head around how other people’s sex lives is any of my business.
I was discussing the issue of indifference to or support of same sex “marriage” in society. An active support of changing the definition of marriage from a legal standpoint absolutely is cheering on sexual sin. This is wrong.
 
This thread doesn’t ask what Christians think we ought to think, rinnie, it’s about what we think.
Let me put it this way then, what does God say to you. What does God say to us in his word.

In my faith we are taught to stand up for his word.🤷 His word says it is an abominination. I go with God, I have to. I have no right to say its not a sin.

But do you think God wants up to spread his word or close our eyes.

There is no right or wrong answer for anyone. I am asking a opinion is all.

Just wanted to see what others feel.

What do we feel God wants of us. To tell his truth or not. That is more of my question. OR to just close our eyes and let this continue?
 
And those of us who do accept gay people as a natural expression of human sexuality do not believe the Hebrew scriptures even addresses same sex relationships…the passages given no more are indictments against loving same sex unions than the passage where Lot has a drunken orgy with his daughters is an indictment on heterosexual relationships unions…at least IMO.
Indeed, the thing is that, if one chooses to associate oneself with a particular theological meta-position, then one takes on the consequences of that in terms of one’s position on various issues. In Judaism, it’s not just what’s in the Torah, there’s the whole mass of ‘Oral Torah’ has to be taken into account.
 
What do we feel God wants of us.
He has told you, O man, what is good,
And what the LORD requires of you:
Only to do justice
And to love goodness.
And to walk modestly with your God;
Then will your name achieve wisdom.
Micah 6:8

It’s the walking modestly bit that’s usually lacking in religious discussion.
 
I was discussing the issue of indifference to or support of same sex “marriage” in society. An active support of changing the definition of marriage from a legal standpoint absolutely is cheering on sexual sin. This is wrong.
This is it. This is actually what I am looking for. FTA777 just answered my question.

There is no right or wrong answer because I am asking all faiths and people their PERSONAL OPINION. Thats it.
 
My question is this. If you support same sex marriage no matter what faith you are, would that not be the same as supporting a sin?
Well, at least speaking as a faithful Catholic, I don’t support same sex marriage, and yes, I do believe that if I did support it, I would be doing my brothers and sisters in Christ a diservice. It would be supporting a deeply disordered and sinful lifestyle, even though it is accepted and approached nowadays with ever increasing apathy by a society which more and more equates Civil law with the laws of God. It is a sadness which overwhelms me sometimes. I know all I can do is pray, and tell the truth for those who have ears to hear. It doesn’t seem like enough, but I know that I can pray, and offer myself to the service of God. I have faith that He will prevail in the long run.

God’s blessings to all,

Steven
 
if we believe in Holy Scripture and believe in what virtually every Christian body has taught throughout history (up until may only 40 years ago), it’s pretty hard to deny that homosexual acts are immoral in the eyes of the God that we accept and believe in.

Can anyone name a place in Scripture where any type of sexual act outside of marriage is acceptable? It is condemned so many times it makes my head spin.
So if not, can anyone name a place in Scripture where two men being “married” is considered acceptable? Where marriage is defined as anything other than between members of the opposite sex?

that is my opinion, and I believe I am in line with the majority of those who hold the Christian Faith and high view of Holy Scripture.
 
And you are missing my point. As you stated you feel it is not a sin. According to the word of God it is, with that said if you felt it was indeed a sin, do you feel you are playing your part in it by either ignoring it, or minding your own business etc.

Or do you feel by letting it go on and closing your eyes and not acknowledging it is indeed a sin making you somehow a part of it. Thats all I am asking?

I am not saying being mean or anything like that. But saying I do not believe in this it goes against my faith be wrong NOT TO SAY?
OK, that’s what I was looking for, your definition of “accept.” You mean not saying anything. Well, I think there’s a time and place for everything. If the couple are friends of yours then it may not always be appropriate for you to make an issue out of their personal sex life especially if they are already committed to each other, although Orthodox Jews are taught not to allow other Jews to stumble. But this is my opinion. And BTW I don’t recall having expressed in this thread my own view about whether homosexual marriages are a sin; on other threads I have. You asked about the perspective according to different faiths and I provided you with the distinction between Orthodox, Conservative, and Reform branches of Judaism. Are you interested in perspectives that differ from those of your own religion or are you mainly interested in discussing your own faith-based point of view? Either way is fine with me.
 
You are missing my point completely.

Let me ask you the question again more clear. But you answered my question I believe on your part.

Correct me if I am wrong but you feel minding your own business and turning your head would be okay with God.

I am not judging your answer Pub I am only asking people’s response to this question is all.

Do we have OUR part in this world today to spread Gods word or not? Is minding your own business doing it? Thats all I am asking.
Since were thinking hypothetically here…I ask again…perhaps more clearly…do you exercise the some restraint with your “straight friends” and tell them that ABC is wrong…and because it is grave matter and a sin, you cannot do what ever you could not do with gay people? Not sure why one would need to “point out the sin” of a gay person over and above the sin of a loved straight one? For me…it’s an issue of equality…do we treat all people equally in regard to our “scruples”?
 
Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals,nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you.

It is clear as day what he meant. So should we just ignore it? Reject it? Make an excuse and say he meant something else? If we reject what Paul said aren’t we ultimately rejecting Christ?
I know those who care for the sick, care about the poor, the hungry, the thirsty, the homeless, those in need of clothing, serve Him, are righteous and will inherit the kingdom. Jesus very clearly said that. (Matt 25:31-46.) And I imagine there are homosexuals doing such things. Peace.
 
My question is this. If you support same sex marriage no matter what faith you are, would that not be the same as supporting a sin?
There is no such thing as same sex marriage.
See Rom.1:24-32 1Cor. 6:9-20
Being a christian isn’t easy, is it? 🙂

God bless,
bluelake
 
OK, that’s what I was looking for, your definition of “accept.” You mean not saying anything. Well, I think there’s a time and place for everything. If the couple are friends of yours then it may not always be appropriate for you to make an issue out of their personal sex life especially if they are already committed to each other, although Orthodox Jews are taught not to allow other Jews to stumble. But this is my opinion. And BTW I don’t recall having expressed in this thread my own view about whether homosexual marriages are a sin; on other threads I have. You asked about the perspective according to different faiths and I provided you with the distinction between Orthodox, Conservative, and Reform branches of Judaism. Are you interested in perspectives that differ from those of your own religion or are you mainly interested in discussing your own faith-based point of view? Either way is fine with me.
See Lev 18:22

bluelake
 
Let me put it this way then, what does God say to you. What does God say to us in his word.

In my faith we are taught to stand up for his word.🤷 His word says it is an abominination. I go with God, I have to. I have no right to say its not a sin.

But do you think God wants up to spread his word or close our eyes.

There is no right or wrong answer for anyone. I am asking a opinion is all.

Just wanted to see what others feel.

What do we feel God wants of us. To tell his truth or not. That is more of my question. OR to just close our eyes and let this continue?
Rinnie, you say there is no right or wrong answer but then on the otherhand you say it is clear what God says and we are to spread His word even after someone such as Publisher explains to you it is not clear and he does not believe God is sayng what your opinion is in regards to what you believe God is saying. 🤷
 
I know those who care for the sick, care about the poor, the hungry, the thirsty, the homeless, those in need of clothing, serve Him, are righteous and will inherit the kingdom. Jesus very clearly said that. (Matt 25:31-46.) And I imagine there are homosexuals doing such things. Peace.
Caring for those in need should be shared by all loving person’s.
We are all sinners, however, The Lord calls called us all to repent.
That includes all sins.
God gives us all the burden of choice. At times we make the wrong choices,
that s why we have the Bible . It tells us clearly why God sent his only Son to
die for our sins.
God loves all sinners, but we must walk worthy accoding to His Word, the Holy Bible.

God bless,
bluelake
 
I know those who care for the sick, care about the poor, the hungry, the thirsty, the homeless, those in need of clothing, serve Him, are righteous and will inherit the kingdom. Jesus very clearly said that. (Matt 25:31-46.) And I imagine there are homosexuals doing such things. Peace.
I am sure there are homosexuals doing good works, as well as heterosexuals. Please be aware that good works do not cover unrepentant sin - whether a person be acting on their sexuality (whether they be homosexual or heterosexual) and rationalizing it.

With God’s grace all things are possible; he has a plan and mission for everyone!
 
Since were thinking hypothetically here…I ask again…perhaps more clearly…do you exercise the some restraint with your “straight friends” and tell them that ABC is wrong…and because it is grave matter and a sin, you cannot do what ever you could not do with gay people? Not sure why one would need to “point out the sin” of a gay person over and above the sin of a loved straight one? For me…it’s an issue of equality…do we treat all people equally in regard to our “scruples”?
If the conversation of ABC were to come up with my straight friends, then yes, I would share with them what the Catholic church teaches. I would always assume that practicing catholics who follow the churches teaching are not using ABC. The difference, IMO, is this: when two people of the same sex express their love for one another and choose to live with one another, I am making the assumption that they are not living chastely. I would assume the same for a straight couple living together. As a catholic, I would encourage both parties to reconsider their state of life.
 
OK, that’s what I was looking for, your definition of “accept.” You mean not saying anything. Well, I think there’s a time and place for everything. If the couple are friends of yours then it may not always be appropriate for you to make an issue out of their personal sex life especially if they are already committed to each other, although Orthodox Jews are taught not to allow other Jews to stumble. But this is my opinion. And BTW I don’t recall having expressed in this thread my own view about whether homosexual marriages are a sin; on other threads I have. You asked about the perspective according to different faiths and I provided you with the distinction between Orthodox, Conservative, and Reform branches of Judaism. Are you interested in perspectives that differ from those of your own religion or are you mainly interested in discussing your own faith-based point of view? Either way is fine with me.
No I am asking people actually on a personal level this time, but also according to thier own faith.

Like actually my answer would be as you stated about Orthodox Jews, according to the CC and my understanding of it, we also are taught to not let our brothers and sisters stumble.

The only difference is in the RCC all are our brothers and sisters. But thanks for your response. That is what I was looking for.

But a step deeper if I may. I am not interested as much as what your faith teaches, more of what you get out of your faith and what you practice yourself.

Here is my example, If I see a close friend etc or say a family member on this path it is my duty I feel according to the word of God to tell them that I love them, but what they are doing is wrong according to the word of God.

That what they are doing is unacceptable and while I love them with all of my heart, it saddens me to at times not be able to share certain parts of thier life while engaging in this sin.

On the same token I will never disrespect them, ignore them, turn them away on a personal level. But I will also not be part of this life style. But I will also never shun them as a person or friend. And will always be there to help.

But as far as going out, as say couples it just cannot happen the same way as a friend that is in a normal relationship.

What I am saying is I BELIEVE that you HAVE to put yourself out there and stand up for your God and your Faith sometimes. Even when it is not the easy or confortable thing to do.

But remember I am not talking about people I do not know etc. Only if they would ask me, and why would they, you know what I mean.
 
Rinnie, you say there is no right or wrong answer but then on the otherhand you say it is clear what God says and we are to spread His word even after someone such as Publisher explains to you it is not clear and he does not believe God is sayng what your opinion is in regards to what you believe God is saying. 🤷
Matt the reason there is no right and wrong answer because how can I tell you are wrong if you tell me you do not think it is right for you to spead Gods word to someone. Thats your opinion. Are you not entitiled to it.

I am not asking what the word of God says. I know what the word of God says. I am asking what you get out of it on a personal level and what you feel God is telling you.

As Publisher said she feels that God is telling her to mind her own business. ANd thats cool with me. How can I tell Pub that NO that is not what your opinion is Pub. Come on Matt.

No one can call anyone on this. I am asking personal opinions here. But I am asking them based on using their own faith, own heart, and what they feel God is telling them personally in their own heart.

I am not asking if it wrong. As I said I know quite clear the word of God.

Again what is God telling your heart. Thats all Matt! What do YOU feel GOD expects of you. Thats it.
 
I agree.

And we have an organization called Courage for homosexuals who want to be celibate. If there is not such an organization nearby to meet with, they can have telephone counseling and support.

couragerc.net/
And this to me Dorothy is what IMO our way of doing what God wants of us. While we can hate the sin we indeed love the sinner.

I feel we must give them love and support and let them know we understand what a horrible cross this is to carry. But at the same time be there to help not condemn them.

I feel that a hundred years ago there was just as many with this problem but like many other problems they were hidden. You would not dare express them.

But today while they are out in the open we can help by the grace of God master a plan to help them. By our love and support and by the grace of God all things are possible.

We all have a cross to carry no matter who we are. While one may seem worse then others we can agree while carrying the cross it seems the same to us.
 
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