same sex marriage question for all faiths.

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Hi Steve: I don’t think any sort of hate is healthy for the soul.

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Sufjon
Can you tell me what you think “hate” is…

…and what you think I mean by “hate” when I say I hate evil?
 
That’s right lots of animals do indeed act that like. That’s beause animals are hormone diven and once the hormones kick in, anything goes. I have seen animals trying to mount farm machinery and farm dogs trying to hump a goat. Ever heard of the expression “like a cow in heat”? It refers to the fact that cows, in season, will take anything available and all day long. The thing is, are humans just like animals, with uncontrollable sexual urges driven by hormones, or are humans able to rationally control their behaviour?
In my humble opinion, it’s a bit of both. We humans have hormones, in fact, we couldn’t live without hormones! We are also, to some extent, “programmed” to follow basic drives. When we are hungry, we seek out food. When thirsty, we look for something to drink. However, we can also control our drives, we can choose whether or not to eat or drink at certain times, it’s difficult, but it can be done.

As for animals, we can only speculate as to why they do the things that they do. Some animals have developed complex systems of communication that makes them more efficient hunters, others don’t appear to need as much to survive, that said, the desire to mate is a powerful drive, and even cows need to do something to satisfy that urge. My dog still runs laps around our living room, when I asked a friend, she just said: “Oh, don’t worry, she’s just letting off energy.” It has to go somewhere!
It is not a logical fallacy in any way shape or form. In fact, I am surprised that someone who professes to be a wiccan would even say such a thing. If you were true to the ‘religion’ you espouse, you’d be outside worshipping nature for it’s inherent beauty and order. Somehow, I don’t think you are what you say you are.
Actually, it is a fallacy. It’s called the “appeal to nature” (A.K.A naturalistic fallacy, Argumentum ad Naturam) like so:

“X is natural.
Therefore, X is right and good.”

“Y is unnatural.
Therefore, Y is wrong and bad.”

Using this logic, I could say that any number of (naturally occurring) plants are “good” even though they contain chemicals that can do serious harm to people and animals. Last year, we had problems with giant hogweed (Heracleum mantegazzianum), which contains sap that can cause severe burns and blindness when it comes into contact with human skin/eyes. Perhaps we should have left the hogweed alone, then? After all, it is “natural” so it must be good, even if it is an invasive species. Conversely, steel isn’t found in nature, but I don’t think anyone would suggest that we stop using it.

This link explains it better, IMO: fallacyfiles.org/adnature.html

Also, I’m not Wiccan in any way, nor have I ever claimed to be. Wicca is a specific religion within the umbrella term of “Paganism”. All Wiccans are Pagan, but not all Pagans are Wiccan. My beliefs include a respect for nature, but that doesn’t mean that all nature is inherently beneficial.
The order in nature and in human nature as well, is how normative behaviours are arrived at. It is used by various fields of science. Animal behavourists use the normative aspects of animal behaviour to derive animal handling techniques.
I’m not an animal behaviourist so I can’t speak to that, but I will say I am somewhat baffled by the claim that nature is inherently ordered. I don’t see order in nature. Organized chaos? Yes. Complete uniformity? No.
It is indeed one of them! The pro homosexual brigade try to use what is abnormal animal behaviour to normalise abnormal human behaviour. That is the fallacy and you are supporting it.
I’ve already explained how arguing from nature is spurious, but I suppose if I agreed with everything you said I’d be a good Catholic by now. 🙂
 
Actually, it is a fallacy. It’s called the “appeal to nature” (A.K.A naturalistic fallacy, Argumentum ad Naturam) like so:

“X is natural.
Therefore, X is right and good.”

“Y is unnatural.
Therefore, Y is wrong and bad.”

Using this logic, I could say that any number of (naturally occurring) plants are “good” even though they contain chemicals that can do serious harm to people and animals.
The opinion that the argumentum ad naturam is a fallacy is not a philosophical given, even if modern philosophers treat it as such. A more serious, and obvious fallacy, which ought to have a formal name but does not, is what I would call the argumentum sine natura, the fallacy of claiming that something ought to be without reference to nature.

The most common cited philosopher who defines the naturalistic fallacy is David Hume, who argued that one cannot deduce and ought from an is. To this is might be responded: then what are we to deduce and *ought *from? From an isn’t? If we cannot deduce what ought to be from the nature, that is, from the way things really are, then we must throw up our hands, and conclude that we cannot deduce what ought to be at all. No value exists apart from our personal determinations, which are totally private in nature, and therefore cannot be debated. If one denies categorically that value can be known through nature, pure subjectivism or nihilism is the only alternative.

The illusion that there is a naturalistic fallacy is based on a weak understanding of of how nature leads us to make value judgments. For instance, if one things that things must be right simply because they happen in nature, that is an error, but that is not what natural law theory claims. Instead, natural law law reasons from the supposition that nature acts for an ends, and good things can be understood as good when they are seen to correspond to the ends that nature is directed to. Rational creatures like human beings have the same impulses as other creatures, but because we understand the ends that those impulses serve we are responsible for guiding them intelligently, as other animals are not.

What is remarkable is that the argumentum ad naturam, in the bad sense, the direct assertion that the way things happen, simply speaking, dictates what ought to be, is more entrenched in the arguments for sexual liberalism than in the natural law alternative. For instance, how often since the time of Kinsey has the frequency in the population of unusual sexual behavior been interpreted as evidence that there cannot be a norm? This too is an argumentum ad naturam, but of the crude and fallacious type. It simply supposes that statistical frequency (a material principle) defines normalcy, when in fact directedness to and (a formal principle) defines normalcy.
 
I think that homosexual marriage is not a sin.
Quite a few homosexuals don’t think that it is a sin either. That does not change the fact that what they fondly believe constitutes “marriage” in and of itself, is probably not “sinful.” It is what they DO in the course of acting out that “marriage” that constitutes a sin, ie: the unnatural genital activity that takes place, no reproductive result is possible ( and do not give me a song and dance about infertile couples, at least they have the proper equipment and God has allowed conception to take place in sometimes impossible situations.) Their genital union cannot result in the creation of life. The Church teaches us that sexual activity outside of marriage is sinful. The sacrament of matrimony requires above all, proper matter, proper matter consists of one man…one woman. Same sex couples do not constitute proper matter. “Marriage” has always assumed male/female, never same sex. Call it what you like, marriage it ain’t. Been a lot of back and forth, been a lot of pilpul(look it up) comes down to homosexuality is unnatural, it is disordered, it is disgusting and when acted upon…is a sin.
 
I think that homosexual marriage is not a sin.
I believe the correct word should be “I think that homosexual marriage is WRONG”
It may not be seen as a sin or so 🤷 but I think it’s not natural. It’s not normal. Something isn’t working…
 
Avoiding sin is one thing. Hating it is another. Hate is hate. It is probably unhelpful to spiritual development to introduce hate into your being. Hating something is probably on par with the thing being hated in itself.

Your friend
Sufjon
Not when it comes to sin my friend. Jesus teaches us to hate sin. It is not the hate for sin that could ever hurt you spiritually he can help you.

When you HATE to see people treat others mean and you go out of your way to treat them good that is a good thing.

When you hate abuse and will not tolerate it that is a good thing for your spriit.

It is never wrong to HATE sin. Hate is not always a bad thing. God gave us the emotion and all emotion is for the good of man. Even a bad emotion sometimes.

There are things in this world we should hate and should not tolerate.

I HATE abortion, I HATE violence, I HATE to see people suffer.

What IS wrong is to tolerate sin, and welcome it, or ignore it, that is what will bring you the spiritual unbalance in your life.

Because when you ignore sin or let it go in your life it keep growing and growing until you life become out of control. Never feel it is wrong to HATE sin. It is good to hate sometimes.
 
I think that homosexual marriage is not a sin.
I see many “christians” mostly Methodist, set their children up knowing they’ll become sexually active. They too don’t think that its wrong. That doesn’t make it right. Some people would say that steeling or killing isn’t wrong. But those supporting homosexual “marriages” would say that their not hurting other people. That point is very debateable. In the eyes of God it’s wrong. The only way to claim its not wrong is to ignore the adverse effect its having on our country, which is what’s really happening. The selfishness is so ungodly that its a wonder we’ve reached this point in our community. I was already upset over the heterosexual, serial divorcers and marriers that are destroying the lives of children. I’ve never met someone that has been repeatedly married and divorced that was a well ballanced person. In fact, I would never trust my children with them. And they are the “straight” ones. Now would I trust my child with a “homosexual”, much worst a “couple”. Not just NO but … well I’ll end it there.
 
Not when it comes to sin my friend. Jesus teaches us to hate sin. It is not the hate for sin that could ever hurt you spiritually he can help you.

When you HATE to see people treat others mean and you go out of your way to treat them good that is a good thing.

When you hate abuse and will not tolerate it that is a good thing for your spriit.

It is never wrong to HATE sin. Hate is not always a bad thing. God gave us the emotion and all emotion is for the good of man. Even a bad emotion sometimes.

There are things in this world we should hate and should not tolerate.

I HATE abortion, I HATE violence, I HATE to see people suffer.

What IS wrong is to tolerate sin, and welcome it, or ignore it, that is what will bring you the spiritual unbalance in your life.

Because when you ignore sin or let it go in your life it keep growing and growing until you life become out of control. Never feel it is wrong to HATE sin. It is good to hate sometimes.
Hi Rinnie: Where in your scriptures do you see Jesus telling you to hate sin? I see Him telling you to avoid sin, but I don’t see Him saying to hate anything, but maybe you can point that out for me. Since I am here trying to learn and perhaps understand Christianity a little better, this issue might be of help to me.

Your friend,
Sufjon
 
But those supporting homosexual “marriages” would say that their not hurting other people. That point is very debateable. In the eyes of God it’s wrong. The only way to claim its not wrong is to ignore the adverse effect its having on our country, which is what’s really happening. The selfishness is so ungodly that its a wonder we’ve reached this point in our community.
It astounds me that people define morality as ‘not hurting someone else’. That is a most base morality. Even the pagan Romans had a higher understanding of morality that included duty and honor. This modern morality ignores a pretty good idea in morality which is doing that which is truly good for us. Under this modern system you dont need to do good things for yourself, let alone your fellow man. What we perceive as selfishness might be more accurately described as self loathing. It is a disregard for our own good that leads us into unhealthy lifestyles.

I’d also add that in this case the not hurting people argument does hold up well for homosexuality. HIV infections are largely the result of homosexual behavior. It is not good for the individual or society. When my grandfather was a child they quarantined homes when people had a disease they could spread to the community. I will not try here to argue for that but just point out that at one time folks thought it moral to protect people from disease by limiting the freedom of other people to engage in certain activities.
 
In my humble opinion, it’s a bit of both. We humans have hormones, in fact, we couldn’t live without hormones! We are also, to some extent, “programmed” to follow basic drives. When we are hungry, we seek out food. When thirsty, we look for something to drink. However, we can also control our drives, we can choose whether or not to eat or drink at certain times, it’s difficult, but it can be done.
Indeed you have shown us in some small part that humans are rational creatures. We are not slaves to our hormones and much of human behaviour shows that to be true. The resort to trying to call hormonal behaviour in animals as a template for human behaviour is really drawing a long bow indeed. If the template held true, we’d be killing and eating our young! It doesn’t stand up to scrutiny and really only gains a listening ear amongst those who have had little experience working with animals.
As for animals, we can only speculate as to why they do the things that they do. Some animals have developed complex systems of communication that makes them more efficient hunters, others don’t appear to need as much to survive, that said, the desire to mate is a powerful drive, and even cows need to do something to satisfy that urge. My dog still runs laps around our living room, when I asked a friend, she just said: “Oh, don’t worry, she’s just letting off energy.” It has to go somewhere!
No speculation is required at all. Hormonally driven homosexual behaviour as observed amongst some animals is vastly different from the homosexual orientation proponents of homosexuality in humans strive to argue for.
Actually, it is a fallacy. It’s called the “appeal to nature” (A.K.A naturalistic fallacy, Argumentum ad Naturam) like so:
“X is natural.
Therefore, X is right and good.”
“Y is unnatural.
Therefore, Y is wrong and bad.”
Soren1 has debinked this myth you are attempting to perpetuate. It stems from Hume’s naturalistic fallacy argument, in which he tried to deny that an ‘ought’ can be derived from an ‘is’. Hume’s argument has been debunked by many subseuent philosophers. The main point to remember from Hume’s argument is that his logic means the real world has no relevance! Hume makes a large error in referring to deductive logic, when in fact inductive logic solves his problem.
Using this logic, I could say that any number of (naturally occurring) plants are “good” even though they contain chemicals that can do serious harm to people and animals. Last year, we had problems with giant hogweed (Heracleum mantegazzianum), which contains sap that can cause severe burns and blindness when it comes into contact with human skin/eyes. Perhaps we should have left the hogweed alone, then? After all, it is “natural” so it must be good, even if it is an invasive species. Conversely, steel isn’t found in nature, but I don’t think anyone would suggest that we stop using it.
here you make the error of beginning an argument with reference to animal/human bevaiour, then, through propogating Hume’s false is/ought dichotomy, you swing into references about the nature’s of plants. How do plants vary in their behaviours? Or maybe they don’t. You are writing about the properties of certain plants and not their behaviours. If a plant contains a harmful sap which burns a human on contact, is the plant ‘behaving’ when a human contacts it? The “good” of a plant that contains harmful sap is to be found in its natural purpose of self preservation. Now, compare that to homosexuality!
Also, I’m not Wiccan in any way, nor have I ever claimed to be. Wicca is a specific religion within the umbrella term of “Paganism”. All Wiccans are Pagan, but not all Pagans are Wiccan. My beliefs include a respect for nature, but that doesn’t mean that all nature is inherently beneficial.
You are right, I shouldn’t have called you a Wiccan. You adhere to a subbranch of a nature based ‘philosophical’ group. Still, nature is at the heart of your beleif system. If that is the case, then the order inherent in nature should be self evident.
I’m not an animal behaviourist so I can’t speak to that, but I will say I am somewhat baffled by the claim that nature is inherently ordered. I don’t see order in nature. Organized chaos? Yes. Complete uniformity? No.
Nature orders itself. That’s how biosystems and ecosystems function.
I’ve already explained how arguing from nature is spurious, but I suppose if I agreed with everything you said I’d be a good Catholic by now. 🙂
No, you’d be a good systems theorist!
 
My question is this. If you support same sex marriage no matter what faith you are, would that not be the same as supporting a sin?
Yes, I support same-sex marriage, as does the congregation to which I belong and the association to which our congregation belongs. As it happens, same-sex marriages are performed in our congregations.

No, I don’t consider it a sin, because I don’t believe in the concept of sin. I certainly don’t believe in a dogmatic delineation of something considered a sin even if I were not cognizant of it.

Therefore, I could not consider something sinful, whether or not I personally support it, because the concept is a foreign one and not part of my sprituality.

Peace,

Seeker
 
Yes, I support same-sex marriage, as does the congregation to which I belong and the association to which our congregation belongs. As it happens, same-sex marriages are performed in our congregations.
No, I don’t consider it a sin, because I don’t believe in the concept of sin. I certainly don’t believe in a dogmatic delineation of something considered a sin even if I were not cognizant of it.
 
Same for the NT…the prohibition in Romans had to do with temple prostitution/male sexual cults

What?! I’ve never seen any reference to this… the verses you refer to are very plain and simple. It never condems the homosexual person but the acts of homosexuality. I think you are reading into this what you want to believe.

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My question is this. If you support same sex marriage no matter what faith you are, would that not be the same as supporting a sin?
I support people’s right to do a lot of things I think are sinful. Do I think they’re right to do them? Of course not! But since my political philosophy is libertarian, and utterly opposed to theocracy and theonomy, I oppose making illegal any personal behavior that doesn’t cause direct, demonstrable harm to others. Are they right to commit sins? No. But do they have the right to, in a political sense? Yep!

Probably not what you expect to hear from a member of a conservative, evangelical, Pentecostal church. But my party affiliation is Libertarian.
 
My question is this. If you support same sex marriage no matter what faith you are, would that not be the same as supporting a sin?
Not at all Rinnie if one’s faith does not consider it sin. 🤷 As Seeker explained to you the UU faith does not consider it sin. I know the United Church of Christ as official denominational policy is in support of same sex marriage. Though individual congregations may vary. And while not necessarily the same as supporting same sex marriage, faiths such as found in TEC and others do not necessarily look at gay clergy in the same light as your faith does. That’s why we call them faiths Rinnie. 👍 You can google and search if you would like to find their explanations. Peace.
 
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