M
Man_of_War
Guest
I truly agree friend. Your point is well taken.Dorothy gave us a wonderful answer. I am not sure it’s really our business to question what some struggler and his/her spiritual director decides is a good means of ascetism to pursue. Celibate people may need more help. It’s easy to question this or that, without understanding the depth of struggle and conversation that has gone on between a struggler and the spiritual director.
Maybe we turn our attention away from the more dramatic means of mortification (I see you have posted elsewhere on this topic) and instead examine more deeply the ordinary means that we can use to hone our will in line with God, and to - little by little - detach from the the pursuit of comfort for comfort’s sake.
Again, Dorothy’s response was excellent.