Frankly, our experience is we don’t trust you either.
Conservatives have been telling people like me for years that we deserve to be mistreated if we can’t stand on our own because we need healthcare - that we can’t expected to be treated like more than overgrown children. That if it was “really that bad” we’d somehow overcome our health problems and figure out how to make everything work anyway, and if not we had no right to complain. Or telling my friend that he was entitled for wanting to actually spend some time with his daughter, rather than working 80+h a week because he had a disabled child who required extra care.
We’ve been told about the wonders of private options that rejected us for being too expensive and charity that never actually materialized. We’ve been preached at about the wonders of having choices when none of those choices were available to us, because we weren’t healthy middle class people.
We’ve been told to get jobs and pay our own way, but that we’re entitled for wanting anything that means we could actually get a job where we can do that - we should work our way up (no one really explains how we’re supposed to manage in the meantime). We’ve been told we should be grateful for emergency medicine to patch us up, even if it leaves us knowing we’ll be back in the ER later, but that the availability of the ER meant everything else was ok.
We’ve seen that many conservatives want to substitute magical thinking for real assistance. We don’t trust the charity of those who are always looking for a reason to declare someone not really in need, or who insist we follow opportunities that we can’t actually find.