Second thoughts about the sexual revolution

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I didn’t say women weren’t objectified.
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Women were just as objectified back then.
They certainly were not.
Women were objectified, (because sinners exist everywhere in every time period) but not nearly as much as they are now. I do think the sexual revolution is the cause of it.
You’re entitled to your opinion, but it doesn’t seem to be the case. Women were infantalised and not given the trust of fully cognizant people.
 
Women were infantalised and not given the trust of fully cognizant people.
That’s not the same as objectifying them. Belittling them, yes. But being treated as an object is different from being treated as incompetent.
 
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Women were infantalised and not given the trust of fully cognizant people.
That’s not the same as objectifying them. Belittling them, yes. But being treated as an object is different from being treated as incompetent.
From everything I’ve seen and heard of those decades the objectification was just as great, if not worse as women’s opinions on it weren’t heard.
 
The author is a woman.

She never wrote men were running PP. She wrote plenty of ‘male feminists’ were predators and the pro-abortion activists depended on them. In fact:
I doesn’t matter much that she is a woman, it’s the content that matters. You are still trying to link two things you don’t like together. The abuse and sexual abuse of women has happened for centuries, well predating legal abortion and whatever you think the “sexual revolution” is. The men in power who do this have never asked for real permission to do this, either they required it to “open doors” or just took it. Just like rape is really not about sex but having power over someone. Legal abortion does little to stop men who feel enough impunity to do such things. If pregnancy did happen either those women were disposable or (don’t kid yourself) they had an illegal abortion.
 
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No. Sorry but rape and sexual assault were not caused by the sexual revolution. They existed before then in rampant numbers, my grandmother’s all have their stories.
Perhaps, but men’s attitudes to women have in general gotten worse as a result of the sexual revolution. Many men do view women as simply attractive objects they can play with and then move on.

I campaigned in the recent abortion referendum in Ireland and a lot of young men expressed the folllowing sentiment:
“I’m voting yes. Because I do go out and get a few rides (have sex with multiple women) at the weekends, and like I’d need to send her for an abortion of she got pregnant.”

I really don’t believe that women had it that bad in the past. Sure there were some inequalities, but I really think that we disrespect and objectify women more now than at any other time.
 
One effect from the sexual revolution that did in my mind makea poisonous escalation was the feminist movement. While folks in here are right about the SR contributing to the positive effect of not seeing women as sexual objects, the feminist movement is at the base of the pro-choice and transgender/ bathroom movements, PC, on and on.

Just my .02
 
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the feminist movement is at the base of the pro-choice and transgender/ bathroom movements, PC, on and on.
So the feminist movement is bad? Or perhaps is it the beginning of the my social opinions no longer unquestionably trump those you disagree with?
 
What is your opinion of men in general?
I could never hate half of humanity, that’s a trope that many critics of feminism use. It’s obliviousness people have to the idea of privilege; especially the richer, whiter, and the more male. We do not all start from the same point in life as everyone else. Yes, some people work harder or do smarter things than others, but a good part of how we succeed in life is the lottery of genetics and location we are born with and into. Those that complain about “PC” politics are generally part of blame politics. The problem is that these people tend to dismiss the former.
 
Or perhaps is it the beginning of the my social opinions no longer unquestionably trump those you disagree with?
Doesn’t that mean feminist views trump views that don’t align?
 
Doesn’t that mean feminist views trump views that don’t align?
Did I say all of them? The issue is the attitude that the world was fine until women dare stand up for their rights. Feminism is not unilateral code for abortion. I also tends to follow that everything is fine as long as we avoid institutionalized inequality and LBGT issues.
A rich man living in sin is really not a success in life.
Thank you for your openness. I agree with you completely on the success comment. I meant those that are insulated by wealth.
 
The sexual revolution radically changed the relationship between men and women. Previously women were respected and protected; now they are seen as objects. Yes, the sexual revolution changed everything.
Lol that’s so wrong it’s funny. Women have gotten an absolutely terrible deal throughout history. If you truly believe your statement then you don’t know history. Men and women should be treated as equals. Anything less is unacceptable. I’m sure most women would rather have freedom, you know like to vote and own property, than to be “protected” like they were in the past.
 
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No. Sorry but rape and sexual assault were not caused by the sexual revolution. They existed before then in rampant numbers, my grandmother’s all have their stories.
Perhaps, but men’s attitudes to women have in general gotten worse as a result of the sexual revolution. Many men do view women as simply attractive objects they can play with and then move on.

I campaigned in the recent abortion referendum in Ireland and a lot of young men expressed the folllowing sentiment:
“I’m voting yes. Because I do go out and get a few rides (have sex with multiple women) at the weekends, and like I’d need to send her for an abortion of she got pregnant.”

I really don’t believe that women had it that bad in the past. Sure there were some inequalities, but I really think that we disrespect and objectify women more now than at any other time.
As opposed to the past where women were pretty things to have sex with and keep in the home where she can’t worry her pretty head about any of that important stuff?

“Some” equalities? Friend, I’m beginning to think this may be too hard to imagine but I highly doubt you’d enjoy being disallowed from many jobs, told you can’t have a bank card without your wife’s consent, disallowed from buying property if you look like you might have a child, have your children removed and placed in a single fathers home, be disallowed from higher education and often made to leave school at the start of high school.

Men generally think women should have the right to vote. That we are capable of more than homemaking. That we should be allowed to go to school and pursue careers.

Some also want to have sex. They always wanted to have sex. Things have gotten better.
 
That’s an overly simplistic view of history. It is simply not the case that women were treated like this throughout history. In many cultures women were highly respected. I hope you’re not a history teacher.
 
Did the Sexual Revolution solve the inequality problems?
 
That’s an overly simplistic view of history. It is simply not the case that women were treated like this throughout history. In many cultures women were highly respected. I hope you’re not a history teacher.
Actually I am trained as one but prefer to teach English. I thought we were discussing western culture around the sexual revolution, yes? Do you want to delve into some other time frame and culture to try to prove some point because you actually wouldn’t want to be privy to the same rights as a woman before the revolution?

Also, the majority of the time when we talk about women being “highly respected” in history you will quickly find that the respect was dependant on something like virginity, the woman wasn’t respected so much as the perception of her suitability as a partner. The cases where women had equal rights are very few and very far between.
 
The abuse and sexual abuse of women has happened for centuries, well predating legal abortion and whatever you think the “sexual revolution” is.
For the second time, no one is denying prior to those events they didn’t exist.
And this is what the sexual revolution is commonly defined as (as per Wikipedia):
The sexual revolution, also known as a time of sexual liberation, was a social movement that challenged traditional codes of behavior related to sexuality and interpersonal relationships throughout the United States and subsequently, the wider world, from the 1960s to the 1980s.[1] Sexual liberation included increased acceptance of sex outside of traditional heterosexual, monogamous relationships (primarily marriage).[2] The normalization of contraception and the pill, public nudity, pornography, premarital sex, homosexuality, and alternative forms of sexuality, and the legalization of abortion all followed.[3][4]
never asked for real permission to do this, either they required it to “open doors” or just took it.
It’s been recognised the sexual revolution has simply reinforced male entitlement. Judith Blake’s study revealed that back in the 1970’s. Feminist Susan Brownmiller quoted earlier pointed to it. The purported goal of the revolution was to ‘fix’ things. It hasn’t. What it has done is entrenched entitlement mentality and continued to enable sexual predators.
If pregnancy did happen either those women were disposable or (don’t kid yourself) they had an illegal abortion.
And now it’s even easier. Added barriers acted as disincentives. This basically falls in line with basic economic nudge theory.
 
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I campaigned in the recent abortion referendum in Ireland and a lot of young men expressed the folllowing sentiment:
“I’m voting yes. Because I do go out and get a few rides (have sex with multiple women) at the weekends, and like I’d need to send her for an abortion of she got pregnant.”
That’s what some call ‘bro-choice’. The guy who coined it, Ben Sherman failed to notice it’s an apt-term because ‘bro culture’, synonymous with frat-boy culture, consists of wealthy and privileged libertine men and is often associated with misogyny. It’s blatant endorsement of pornography and casual sex says it all.

 
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No. Sorry but rape and sexual assault were not caused by the sexual revolution. They existed before then in rampant numbers, my grandmother’s all have their stories.
Agreed. The amount of spousal (and parental) abuse that went on was astounding. But no one thought anything of it b/c that’s just the way it had always been. 😦
No, women are allowed to eject these men from their lives and NOT deal with them. That is the freedom. Your statement implies that we still need men to function, period. Men not being present is not the all encompassing cause of family issues. Believe it or not there are times it’s better for a useless, drunk, abusive, or whatever father to be gone.
Yep, my grandma should have left my grandpa but in that time it was very taboo. Unfortunately the damage has been done and her kids all have mental health issues.
 
Bro-choice is kind of hypocritical, not to mention selfish.
 
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