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thomas_jd
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I am a lay Carmelite, after Profession we may if approved, take Vows of Obedience and Celibacy (according to our station in life.)Yes “most” secular third orders have a promise of some sort not a vow
Carmelite tertiaries (discalced and calced) though are not the only tertiaries to have the possibility of private vows (and not only those called to celibacy)
Our Vows are private made to God first in our promises of Profession and later if one takes a vow that is also made first to God.
You mentioned other tertiaries that also take vows. I was not aware of any outside of the Carmelites.
Our vows are made thru the community as opposed to vows made according to Canon Law.