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I am currently a senior at a public college in New York State. Like most other Catholic guys my age, I like to keep my eyes peeled for good Catholic women which, sad to say, are becoming harder and harder to find. In college, I usually attend Mass at either my university’s Newman Center or at a local Church that I find to be one of the most beautiful that I’ve ever seen, preferring the latter, especially because this summer they became a parish dedicated to the TLM.
The few times that I have attended the Newman Center, I’ve noticed a new character. A beautiful young woman who is the cantor at Mass. Of course, she caught my attention, and after a visit to the parish website I was able to find her name and a brief description of her activities in the club, where I found out that she was also a Catechist for the parish. “Wow”, I said. “Clearly she takes her faith seriously” and I therefore decided that once class resumes in January, I might make an effort to pursue her.
Last night, I stumbled upon her Twitter account. Scrolling through her profile, I eventually came to tweets that supported the BLM movement and gun control. These are things that I don’t agree with, but my disagreement has nothing to do with my beliefs as a Catholic. But, further down, I saw that she retweeted a post that said “Women should only be able to have abortions in cases of rape, incest, or when the woman chooses so.”
I felt like I had been kicked in the stomach. I was horrified not only by her opposition to one of the Church’s most important teachings, but also the fact that she is in a position where she is supposed to ensure proper faith formation of her students.
So, at this point, I’m not sure exactly what to do. I guess the two options are to pursue her, either romantically or even as a friend, and attempt to make an effort to change her views on this topic or just drop the whole thing all together. Mind you, even if she did take a romantic interest in me, I would never enter into a relationship with her if she maintained her current views on abortion. What do you think? Worthwhile effort or waste of time?
The few times that I have attended the Newman Center, I’ve noticed a new character. A beautiful young woman who is the cantor at Mass. Of course, she caught my attention, and after a visit to the parish website I was able to find her name and a brief description of her activities in the club, where I found out that she was also a Catechist for the parish. “Wow”, I said. “Clearly she takes her faith seriously” and I therefore decided that once class resumes in January, I might make an effort to pursue her.
Last night, I stumbled upon her Twitter account. Scrolling through her profile, I eventually came to tweets that supported the BLM movement and gun control. These are things that I don’t agree with, but my disagreement has nothing to do with my beliefs as a Catholic. But, further down, I saw that she retweeted a post that said “Women should only be able to have abortions in cases of rape, incest, or when the woman chooses so.”
I felt like I had been kicked in the stomach. I was horrified not only by her opposition to one of the Church’s most important teachings, but also the fact that she is in a position where she is supposed to ensure proper faith formation of her students.
So, at this point, I’m not sure exactly what to do. I guess the two options are to pursue her, either romantically or even as a friend, and attempt to make an effort to change her views on this topic or just drop the whole thing all together. Mind you, even if she did take a romantic interest in me, I would never enter into a relationship with her if she maintained her current views on abortion. What do you think? Worthwhile effort or waste of time?