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Steve_Andersen
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Why would people have to confess being past their childbearing years?
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Why would people have to confess being past their childbearing years?
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Fox
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I’ll tell you this now from experience, I lost my virginity to a person I loved when I was 19, I should of stayed with her and married her but I was selfish and did not, and wanted to “sow oats”, big big mistake. We remain close friends to this day and I’m 29 almost 30 now. It still eats at me to this very day on what happened and I will live with this pain till my dying day.
Please, save yourself for your marriage, I would have if I could turn back time. Sexuality and giving oneself is special. Sex is powerful and can hurt you if not used on how God intended it to be. It will leave scars if you abuse it. Stay chaste till your married, it will save you heart pain.
Please, save yourself for your marriage, I would have if I could turn back time. Sexuality and giving oneself is special. Sex is powerful and can hurt you if not used on how God intended it to be. It will leave scars if you abuse it. Stay chaste till your married, it will save you heart pain.
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chevalier
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I believe that cutting it at any physical point is pointless.
I believe borders such as necking, French-kissing, cuddling, seeing each other naked etc don’t do the job.
The real problem is lust. What can be done without lusting for the other person or without making the other person lust is not normally wrong. Whatever is done out of lust or to incite lust is wrong.
I am not against getting “physical”. But I am against getting sexual in any way. Unmarried Christians don’t have a sex life, aren’t supposed to be horny, don’t play the “three bases” game.
Any objections?
I believe borders such as necking, French-kissing, cuddling, seeing each other naked etc don’t do the job.
The real problem is lust. What can be done without lusting for the other person or without making the other person lust is not normally wrong. Whatever is done out of lust or to incite lust is wrong.
I am not against getting “physical”. But I am against getting sexual in any way. Unmarried Christians don’t have a sex life, aren’t supposed to be horny, don’t play the “three bases” game.
Any objections?
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NFPfamily
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I think that the answer is very clear in that the Commandments order that we should not commit adultry. If you aren’t married yet, then your significant other isn’t your husband/wife yet, therefore you are committing adultry.
On a side note, I have heard MANY married couples speak of the pain through regret from having premarital sex. I have NEVER heard of a couple who waited until they were married to have sex complain and wish they’d done it before.
Your virginity is such a great gift you can give your spouse. If you want to experience the power of God’s design for intimacy, then do it His way, otherwise you’ll just have to settle for what society cheapens it to be.
On another side note, I admire couples who have had premarital sex, but choose to stop well before their wedding. This would be even more difficult than not having sex in the first place and I am so glad when I hear of couples willing to offer it up. God bless them!
On a side note, I have heard MANY married couples speak of the pain through regret from having premarital sex. I have NEVER heard of a couple who waited until they were married to have sex complain and wish they’d done it before.
Your virginity is such a great gift you can give your spouse. If you want to experience the power of God’s design for intimacy, then do it His way, otherwise you’ll just have to settle for what society cheapens it to be.
On another side note, I admire couples who have had premarital sex, but choose to stop well before their wedding. This would be even more difficult than not having sex in the first place and I am so glad when I hear of couples willing to offer it up. God bless them!
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Pro-Life_Teen
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What I can’t understand is multiple partners. Who in their right mind would give up something like this to more then one person?
And even so, who wouldn’t regret it?
And even so, who wouldn’t regret it?
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tigerlilly
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When I’m in doubt, I always go back to the two commandments. Yes, TWO, the ones Christ gave us. So I think sex is a sin if it means you are hurting somebody or living in a lie - because God is Truth, as well as Love. So a lot of normal, heterossexual, marital sex is a great sin and some pre-marital sex is not a sin at all. (For instance, a man who rapes his wife is a sinner, a man and a woman who can not be legaly married because they lost their id and have sex because they are absolutly sure they will marry are not sinners).
To all the people who asked what sex is for: it’s for making babies AND having pleasure. Why else would God create the clitoris? It’s only function is to make sure women who have their vaginas hurt by childbirth can still enjoy sex, just like men do. God is not a male chauvinist!
To all the people who asked what sex is for: it’s for making babies AND having pleasure. Why else would God create the clitoris? It’s only function is to make sure women who have their vaginas hurt by childbirth can still enjoy sex, just like men do. God is not a male chauvinist!
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