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People in confession are there because they are repentant. Who knows what the Holy Spirit will inspire.You won’t if they confess it to a priest in confession. There is no helping then.
People in confession are there because they are repentant. Who knows what the Holy Spirit will inspire.You won’t if they confess it to a priest in confession. There is no helping then.
It appears that you don’t completely understand what happens during the sacrament of reconcilliation, or more commonly known as confession.What about if a criminal comfessed in confession to murdering your child? Would you want the priest to call the police? What if this criminal confessed in confession that he raped your daughter? Would you want the priest to call the police? How much do you love your child? How much do you love your daughter?
If priests have to start telling the police about sins that are confessed, no one would ever go to confession again. I agree that what is discussed in a confessional should be sacrosanct.I would not destroy a Holy Sacrament for man.
I don’t think you understand Sacraments.
This link is about confession, read it first then ask your questions. catholic.com/library/Forgiveness_of_Sins.asp
Bill Donohue, president of the Catholic League, has emerged as one of the most vigorous defenders of Pope Benedict XVI, formerly Cardinal Ratzinger, as the Catholic Church reels from revelations that Ratzinger was made aware of a priest who molested more than 200 deaf boys in Wisconsin, and yet declined to punish him.
Donohue’s method has been to attack the source of the story, the New York Times, accusing the paper of waging a concerted campaign to discredit the Vatican’s authority.
Perhaps Donohue’s most controversial claim is that this is not a pedophilia crisis but a homosexual crisis; since most victims of molestation were “post-pubescent”," that means the priests were not child molesters but some kind of gay predators. Donohue wrote in a full page ad in the New York Times:
"The Times continues to editorialize about the “pedophilia crisis,: when all along it’s been a homosexual crisis. Eighty percent of the victims of priestly sexual abuse are male and most of them are post-pubescent. While homosexuality does not cause predatory behavior, and most gay priests are not molesters, most of the molesters have been gay.”
It’s unclear where Donohue is getting his statistics, but this is sure to increase the belief among critics that the church is more interested in protecting its own interests and reputation than innocent children. In a heart-wrenching Times follow-up story, it was revealed that the deaf boys tried for decades to report the sexually abusive priest, but no one would listen.
huffingtonpost.com/2010/03/31/bill-donohue-catholic-sex_n_520187.html
Cases of pedophile priests prior to 2001 were handled by local bishops not the Vatican (the transfer of all cases to the Congregation of the Doctrine of Faith only happened in 2001).Hold on here.
Your defense of the inexcusable behavior of Catholic clergy is `Protestants have people who do it too.’ That is no defense: that is deflection.
Here is the difference:
Protestants: in the vast majority of cases, perpetrators end up in handcuffs.
Catholic: perpetrators generally do not end up in handcuffs, but rather have it dealt with, or not, internally and covered up.
If the Vatican would direct that anyone who had molested a kid should be reported to the law, abuse would decrease, and the Catholic Church as an organization would merit being respected on this point. Practicing Catholics are a great contribution to the Lord’s work, but on this one point, the Vatican needs to step up for Catholics.
They do it too' is an excuse adolescents like to pull when they get caught doing something they should not. When I was in school, it did nothold water.’
1. Hope you read the article on the sex scandal within Catholicism in the current Newsweek. It tries to acheive balance. A second piece, by George Weigel, also in the current Newsweek, does its best to defend the church, as Weigel always does.
2. There is no doubt that sexual exploitation and/or misconduct is and has been a problem within Protestantism, also. Remember these differences, however. a) Most such problems have involved consenting adults - ministers with adult parishioners, often who came for counseling which led to a relationship. Such ministers, when exposed, usually have been tossed out immediately; b) in this area, at least, the worst cases seem to arise among 'ministers' who are not really ministers in that they have never been ordained by recognized denominations, have little formal education, set up shop in storefronts, and hide various forms of exploitation behind religion - hardly to be included among legitimate Protestant ministers; c) I know of no cases in which denominational officials have reassigned or recommended ministers who have behaved badly as sexual predators to other churches; d) in general Protestant churches are much more democratic, smaller congregations, and closely knit, providing sexual predators less opportunity to exploit and get away with it; and e) while denied by Weigel and others, I strongly believe that married clergy are less likely to exploit children and teenage boys.
3. Catholicism seems to have attracted a high percentage of gay clergy, which helps account for the exploitation of teen boys. Why? a) The Catholic priesthood attracts gays because no one will ask them why they're not married. b) Many gay priests believe and sincerely hope that being a priest will safeguard them from acting upon their sexual impulses. c) Many gay priests are attracted to an all-male fraternity, even when they fully intend to remain totally celibate. d) There are things in Catholicism - such as the vestments, the refined liturgy, etc. - that have a special appeal to gays, many of whom are appealed to by theatre, fashion, and such.
Christians should be loving one another and not engaged in the sort of 'gotcha' dialogue that goes on and on here at CAF. "All have sinned...." and we need to let God be the ultimate judge. Meanwhile, if someone, priest or layman, violates the civil law, then we have other judges here on earth for that. The Catholic church's failure as a worldwide church lies with a hierarchy which has shown more interest in protecting the 'good name' of the church rather than show concern for the victims. Threatening victims, or even secretly paying them off, is outrageous. Protestantism does not have such a hierarchy, and offending clergy, therefore, have been provided no such protection. The notion that the issue in Catholicism is like that in Protestantism is false, though there is guilty to go around.
God bless the whole world - no exceptions.
We believe in confession in a different way. We go directly to God and ask for forgiveness. We don’t need a middle man to do it for us, and then tell us to say 10 Hail Mary’s, 10 Our Father’s and say the Rosery 5 times. Then your sins are forgiven.I would not destroy a Holy Sacrament for man.
I don’t think you understand Sacraments.
This link is about confession, read it first then ask your questions. catholic.com/library/Forgiveness_of_Sins.asp
You obviously missed, or ignored this information (bolding mine):We believe in confession in a different way. We go directly to God and ask for forgiveness. We don’t need a middle man to do it for us, and then tell us to say 10 Hail Mary’s, 10 Our Father’s and say the Rosery 5 times. Then your sins are forgiven.
If they don’t tell the authoritiesnpatrol: about murder, rape, they are just as quilty as the one who done it. You would allow that person to do it to someone eles. :tsktsk:
Good show, Roy, and a good article.A few observations
Code:1. Hope you read the article on the sex scandal within Catholicism in the current Newsweek. It tries to acheive balance. A second piece, by George Weigel, also in the current Newsweek, does its best to defend the church, as Weigel always does. 2. There is no doubt that sexual exploitation and/or misconduct is and has been a problem within Protestantism, also. Remember these differences, however. a) Most such problems have involved consenting adults - ministers with adult parishioners, often who came for counseling which led to a relationship. Such ministers, when exposed, usually have been tossed out immediately; b) in this area, at least, the worst cases seem to arise among 'ministers' who are not really ministers in that they have never been ordained by recognized denominations, have little formal education, set up shop in storefronts, and hide various forms of exploitation behind religion - hardly to be included among legitimate Protestant ministers; c) I know of no cases in which denominational officials have reassigned or recommended ministers who have behaved badly as sexual predators to other churches; d) in general Protestant churches are much more democratic, smaller congregations, and closely knit, providing sexual predators less opportunity to exploit and get away with it; and e) while denied by Weigel and others, I strongly believe that married clergy are less likely to exploit children and teenage boys. 3. Catholicism seems to have attracted a high percentage of gay clergy, which helps account for the exploitation of teen boys. Why? a) The Catholic priesthood attracts gays because no one will ask them why they're not married. b) Many gay priests believe and sincerely hope that being a priest will safeguard them from acting upon their sexual impulses. c) Many gay priests are attracted to an all-male fraternity, even when they fully intend to remain totally celibate. d) There are things in Catholicism - such as the vestments, the refined liturgy, etc. - that have a special appeal to gays, many of whom are appealed to by theatre, fashion, and such. Christians should be loving one another and not engaged in the sort of 'gotcha' dialogue that goes on and on here at CAF. "All have sinned...." and we need to let God be the ultimate judge. Meanwhile, if someone, priest or layman, violates the civil law, then we have other judges here on earth for that. The Catholic church's failure as a worldwide church lies with a hierarchy which has shown more interest in protecting the 'good name' of the church rather than show concern for the victims. Threatening victims, or even secretly paying them off, is outrageous. Protestantism does not have such a hierarchy, and offending clergy, therefore, have been provided no such protection. The notion that the issue in Catholicism is like that in Protestantism is false, though there is guilty to go around. God bless the whole world - no exceptions.
I’ll second that…Good show, Roy, and a good article.
God’s laws are above mans laws.We believe in confession in a different way. We go directly to God and ask for forgiveness. We don’t need a middle man to do it for us, and then tell us to say 10 Hail Mary’s, 10 Our Father’s and say the Rosery 5 times. Then your sins are forgiven.
If they don’t tell the authoritiesnpatrol: about murder, rape, they are just as quilty as the one who done it. You would allow that person to do it to someone eles. :tsktsk:
How do you know for sure your sins are forgiven with certainty? Because a priest says so?God’s laws are above mans laws.
I’m glad you ask God for the forgiveness of your sins. We Catholics do that too we call it an Act of Contrition.
The difference between doing an act of contrition and going to confession is this: If you limit yourself just to asking for forgiveness, then knowing you are forgiven is subjective. Going to confession is objective so you know your sins are forgiven with certainty.
Got yaYou obviously missed, or ignored this information (bolding mine):
The clergy privilege (also known as the priest/penitent privilege) is one of the recognized forms of privileged communication that protects the contents of conversations between religious advisers (priests, rabbis, minsters, etc…) and an advisee. This means that any conversation you have with your clergy (assuming they are acting in their religious capacity) cannot be brought into court.
For example, anything said to a catholic priest during a confessional **cannot be used **against you, or even mentioned, in any legal matter."
legalmatch.com/law-librar…privilege.html
So, you see, even if it is disclosed, it cannot be used.
if you are “saved” why do you even worry about the method that you ask for forgiveness? If you follow the ridiculous doctrine of "once saved always saved’ you could dance on the bible and it still would not have any negative effect on your salvation.We believe in confession in a different way. We go directly to God and ask for forgiveness. We don’t need a middle man to do it for us, and then tell us to say 10 Hail Mary’s, 10 Our Father’s and say the Rosery 5 times. Then your sins are forgiven.
If they don’t tell the authoritiesnpatrol: about murder, rape, they are just as quilty as the one who done it. You would allow that person to do it to someone eles. :tsktsk:
Where does it say that in the bible…? I think you’ll find alot of things in the bible, even things that God did to be illegal according to American standards.If they don’t tell the authoritiesnpatrol: about murder, rape, they are just as quilty as the one who done it.
Actually, to be forgiven for your sins, you must promise not to do it again.You would allow that person to do it to someone eles. :tsktsk: