Single People: What Qualities Do You Look For?

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Marybeloved said:
Elaborate, please. Iā€™ve been accused on these forums of having an off-putting attitude in debates. Iā€™ve often wondered if itā€™s because of Pride. šŸ˜Š People mean different things when they say ā€œProudā€ or ā€œHumbleā€. In the context you describe, could you give some examples? You could help a girl! šŸ™‚
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Certainly!

I have been pondering the beauty of being humble over the past month and looked for examples in the people around me and tried my best to follow suit, and this is what I have come up with:

What we do for the least of our brothers, we do for the Lord. Do not ever think anyone is below you, no matter what they appear to be or even how terribly people may view them. Always view each and every person as our Lord, because each and every one of us was created in likeness to him and we are all his children. No matter how annoying or maybe downright mean a person may seem, we are still called to find love for them. Donā€™t ever assume to know a personā€™s situations or their motivating factors- sometimes there are things beneath the surface that we cannot see as an outsider.

Be understanding of people regardless of what your emotions may want to drive you to do. I have recently been spending time around people who may have mental handicaps and personality disorders because I see so many other people avoiding them. Some people may be hard to talk to and get along with, but if you donā€™t show up as their friend, who will?

Never be afraid to admit that you are wrong or that you donā€™t have the answers. I have recently realized that God has limitless possibilities and we cannot even begin to conceptualize what they are. It has been extremely humbling because I realized I donā€™t have all the answers and I donā€™t NEED to have all the answers. I donā€™t need to argue and I donā€™t need to fight. If a person wants to yell at me as if I did something wrong- maybe I did do something wrong, and even if I didnā€™t, would it do any good to argue back?

Just a few observations I guess.

Godā€™s blessings,
Joshua
 
austenbosten said:
Chev when we say be fair, we of course mean in moderation. We mean if you find someone attractive, donā€™t blow them off cause of one puny thingā€¦chances are you might not find someone who 100% perfectly fits into your little box of the perfect husband

Iā€™m not saying ladies have to date this guy to be faaaiiiiiiiiiiiiiirrr

http://www.geek.com/gearlog/images/tron-guy-remake.jpg

Ladiesā€¦you do not have to date this guy šŸ‘
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I agree with what you say. Iā€™m still worried about the prize winning optics or a sport perspective finding its way into relationships. Women are often taught to react this way and men will put emphasis on competing rather than on making a good choice in the first place.
 
chevalier said:
I agree with what you say. Iā€™m still worried about the prize winning optics or a sport perspective finding its way into relationships. Women are often taught to react this way and men will put emphasis on competing rather than on making a good choice in the first place.
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In agreement and no meant to disrespect the TRON guyā€¦we all love the Tron guy! šŸ˜ƒ
 
Tenofovir said:
Can he have children with that outfit on, though?
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Well if thatā€™s what the wifey wants, I guess so. ā€œHoney throw out the Kama Sutra and lotions and get me my Tron gear, weā€™re gonna make a baby!ā€ šŸ˜›
 
austenbosten said:
Well if thatā€™s what the wifey wants, I guess so. ā€œHoney throw out the Kama Sutra and lotions and get me my Tron gear, weā€™re gonna make a baby!ā€ šŸ˜›
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No I mean, itā€™s so tight. Itā€™s not healthy.
 
Eat more foods in Vitamin C and E, Zinc (lots of it), and essentially fatty acids. Trust me a guy with a healthy diet and exercise wearing tight clothes will probably have a better chance of impregnating a woman than a guy with poor diet and exercise and wearing the loosest of clothing.
 
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