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East_and_West
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I have struggled with same sex attraction for many years. In fact, I used to live the Gay life. But I do NOT delude myself into thinking that God wants me to engage in homosexual acts. I know that such behavior is not from him, nor is it in accord with his holy will.I see your references to homosexuality and I agree to a certain point. However, I feel like a hypocrite as I have a brother, whom I love very much, who is homosexual. He is not a blatant homosexual and would never dream of imposing his beliefs on my children. One of my children is old enough (18) to understand that his uncle is homosexual and accepts it. At the same time, he understands that this is not normal. He loves his uncle, though.
I have two smaller children who ask once in awhile why their uncle is not married, and I just explain that he has a very demanding job. They seem to accept that, but I know that one day they will know. I don’t think it’s right to impose this sort of information on a child until they are old enough to understand this. I am torn between the love I have for my brother and my personal beliefs about homosexuality in the church. He used to be very religious when he was younger and has stopped worshiping God because he feels rejected for his feelings. He tells me he resisted this for many, many years and even went to a psychiatrist. He says that he would never CHOOSE to be a homosexual; he just is. He says it is horrible to have to be overt about your sexual preferences for what people might think in a personal and professional arena. I see how this has affected my parents as well. They love their son but are torn… Would God really reject His own children?![]()