In my opinion, if conservative members continue to fight reality, things will continue to get worse.
No one can call the majority of figure skaters “conservative.” Quite the opposite. Many adult skaters are quite liberal socially and politically. My husband competed in one adult competition a few years ago where NO MAN in the locker room was straight except him!
And yet, these social and political liberals are trying to speak up and point out that SafeSport’s draconian policies do NOT protect children, but instead, protect ADULTS from being sued.
Here’s an example of “draconian policies.” My daughter has coached skating teams for 16 years, 10 of those years with the same skating club. She is loved and respected by her students, the parents, and fellow coaches.
Recently a parent invited her to come to her vacation home on the coast and join her family for al little R and R before the competitive skating season begins. The parent happens to be quite wealthy, and enjoys opening up her vacation home on the beach to her friends and acquaintances, and has been very kind to all the coaches in the rink.
My daughter was thrilled and agreed to join the family for a few days. She purchased her airline ticket and was looking forward to a little weekend getaway.
THEN…one of the coaches pointed out the latest “rule” from SafeSport–a coach is NOT allowed under any circumstances to stay in the same house with a student, even if the student’s parents are present and agree to the overnight visit.
So my daughter had to call the parents and let them know that she can’t come–they were flabbergasted and just a little insulted that SafeSport doesn’t consider them capable of making decisions about their own guests and entertaining.
And my daughter has to call the airline and plead with them to please allow her to use her ticket fee as a credit towards a future flight somewhere. She isn’t hopeful of getting the money back, but perhaps other sports coaches have been burned by this same onerous rule and have asked for the same favor, and so the airline might be extending a courtesy. But probably not.
I would not be at all surprised to learn that SafeSport has made a rule that skating coaches cannot be in the rink with the students during practices, lessons, or competitions. After all, quite a few of the sexual assaults charges have occurred on the ice during a freestyle practice while dozens of other skaters, coaches, parents, and rink staff are in the building and watching the practice.
Amazing what a sexual deviant can accomplish, isn’t it? It’s like they have supernatural powers to perpetrate their despicable acts even when surrounded by other people! Of course, when calling a student '“honey” or “dear” is considered a sexual assault, almost all of us have been guilty of sexual perversion towards children!