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Shasta-Rose
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Yes, I see what you mean. I think there are more layers to the problem, though.
I think that for most people (European, probably Christian), up until the last 20 years or so, the prosperity and life style just kept advancing upward. Many aspired to send their kids to Harvard, so they saved up for that, but they could only afford to send one or two. So, they concentrated on their maybe only child and groomed him/her for more success in life than the current generation has had. Therefore, there are just many fewer Christian children coming along.
Also, for a variety of reasons, I know quite a few people who did not have children, myself included. They were prosperous enough and they wanted to just keep on doing what they were doing. Some got married, but some just had a long-term relationship, or serial long-time relationships. Or by the time they found the right partner, it was later in life. Whatever reasons, people are just putting parenthood off for a long time, which may turn into forever.
On a whole other path, I think that I see this deplorable propensity to join a mob. If everybody else is down on Joe Blow, I’m down on Joe, whether or not he ever did anything wrong that I know of. It’s easy to join the mob. It’s harder and takes character to say: I don’t care what the prevailing opinion is, I don’t see anything wrong with Joe. So, if a lot of your circle are turning against the Church, it’s easier to just go along, and that way you stay i’ncluded in your group. The snowball effect. What the Church needs is—its own snowball.
I think that for most people (European, probably Christian), up until the last 20 years or so, the prosperity and life style just kept advancing upward. Many aspired to send their kids to Harvard, so they saved up for that, but they could only afford to send one or two. So, they concentrated on their maybe only child and groomed him/her for more success in life than the current generation has had. Therefore, there are just many fewer Christian children coming along.
Also, for a variety of reasons, I know quite a few people who did not have children, myself included. They were prosperous enough and they wanted to just keep on doing what they were doing. Some got married, but some just had a long-term relationship, or serial long-time relationships. Or by the time they found the right partner, it was later in life. Whatever reasons, people are just putting parenthood off for a long time, which may turn into forever.
On a whole other path, I think that I see this deplorable propensity to join a mob. If everybody else is down on Joe Blow, I’m down on Joe, whether or not he ever did anything wrong that I know of. It’s easy to join the mob. It’s harder and takes character to say: I don’t care what the prevailing opinion is, I don’t see anything wrong with Joe. So, if a lot of your circle are turning against the Church, it’s easier to just go along, and that way you stay i’ncluded in your group. The snowball effect. What the Church needs is—its own snowball.
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