FWIW as a Charismatic I did not have the gift of tongues. So there.

No one ever tried to force me to speak/pray in tongues nor was my faithfulness or salvation called into question.
Okay, but if you didn’t get the gift (from the Holy Spirit), then no one has the
ability to ‘force you to speak or pray in tongues’, right?
You wrote:
The manifestation of the other gifts and using them to minister to the church. Consider how the gifts of faith or healing, wisdom or knowledge could build up the church.
Is this the answer to ‘what else the charismatic means’ for Charismatic Catholics that I’ve been seeking? I’d have to respond that, as Christians, we are all given certain charisms, and do not have to be ‘charismatics’ in the ‘movement sense of the word’. We are, of course, in a general sense, all charismatic, by God’s good grace.
You listed healing? That’s another that I think is given to the Church’s priesthood (in Holy Annointing/Extreme Unction), and not, necessarily, to individuals (I think it’s very seldom and far between that an individual catholic has this gift. Even then, I’d think them having to be a living saint.
It seems that charismatics tend to wanna replace the sacraments we already have, as Catholics.
Wisdom and knowledge, okay…but they are also found outside of the Charismatic Catholic movement. So, what makes Charismatic Catholics, ‘Charismatic’ besides those basic gifts that can be given to any?
In other words, are Charismatics ‘Charismatics’ because they love the tongue-speaking aspect so much? What keeps
you in the midst of it when you do not possess the gift of tongues? What else attracts you to this particular brand of Catholicism?
As an Eastern Catholic (in union with the Pope), I could tell you many things that attract me to the Eastern tradition, customs, and its Liturgy. It doesn’t boast tongue-speaking, but it is the most ancient church of Catholicism.
So what else makes Charismatic (capital C) Catholics, charismatic, without tongue speaking? The other gifts, as noted, are shared with all believers.