Maybe some more discernment coming your way? Are there any groups of the Ignatian Associates close by?
The Society of Jesus and St. Ignatius has always fascinated me and I was very attracted to Ignatian Spirituality. I like the idea of structured exercises that one can follow and a process of discernment that goes along with it. Dominican spirituality is a bit more nebulous and tough to nail down. This makes sense when you consider the life and education of the great saints. Ignatius was a soldier who later studied theology in a formal structured manner as part of a university system. Dominic was educated, but before the rise of universities and formalized education.
This is interesting too. I was drawn to the Dominicans, the Franciscans and the Carmelites–all three.
I’m a chemist, a lover of nature and science since childhood, but also I have a graduate philosophy degree. I love to learn and for more than learning’s sake or the sake of social reward, which of course, means that I believe that there is more than circumstance in this world. I became Christian and Catholic because of how that informed the experiences I’ve had with other people, my Catholic school year, my family, my friends, my beliefs about people and their circumstances, the natural world that surrounds me and praises the Lord day & night, etc. Long story. I’m a convert.
I have a Carmelite friend who helped me with prayer difficulties along the way, but I’m not really a Carmelite. I lack something there that’s more than made up for in other ways, I guess, ways that point me in more of a Franciscan direction.
I am very open-ended and don’t understand how to do “programs” very well. I tend to delve too much into them. I learn what I’m not supposed to learn, and don’t learn what I’m supposed to learn.

Which makes me a good scientist and inventor but a lousy program-follower. [It also made me an absolutely miserable 7th grader, which is why I got ported off to the nuns in the first place–to straighten me out. God always has a design in these things.]