Concerning Confession:
In the book of Genesis, Adam and Eve have eaten of the forbidden fruit and then hide and are ashamed because they are naked. They have been disobedient to God’s command. God comes to the garden and calls for Adam…He asks, (paraphrased) Adam, where are you?" Adam answers and says he is hiding because he is naked and ashamed. God asks again, “What have you done?”…
Now, ever wonder WHY God asks Adam all those questions? I did. I thought, why would God ask these things? He knows very well what Adam has done!
The answer is simple. It’s his first lesson for us. He wants us to confess our sins - out loud. He wants us to SAY our sins. He wants to teach us humility and that there are consquences for disobeying Him. God’s commands are for our own good and it’s not up us to decide that we know better or decide what “feels” good.
There is something about confessing your sins to someone. It teaches us humility - to come before a representative of Christ and name your sins out loud and then in return you hear the words, “I absolve you of your sins!” There is relief and joy and happiness and peace KNOWING FOR CERTAIN that God has forgiven my sins and that I can return to the Eucharist!!!
You also get “counseling” from the priest to help you understand and to help you not commit those sins again. It is wonderfully comforting knowing that if I mess up, I can return to the priest in the confessional, confess my sins with ture contrition and receive absolution from Christ!
I do, however, confess my venial sins to God directly when I find it necessay but I will more than likely mention those same venial sins in the confessional so I can know for sure that all my sins are forgiven. It was Jesus who gave that power to the Apostles and I will make use of it as often as necessary. It helps me stay on track.
Confessing directly to God without benefit of the sacrament is fine, I suppose, but how would someone know for sure that those sins are, in fact, forgiven? What counseling would someone receive to help in not committing those sons again? Half of my immediate family is non-Catholic and they tell me they confess their sins to God. Okay. I’ve never seen them make amends to anyone or do anything in penance for reparation so I can’t see how confessing directly to God makes any real difference in someone’s life. I don’t see a change in anything…
God gave us the normative way to confess sins: in the Sacrament of Reconciliation!