Thanks again granny and all.
A few more questions (I hope I’m not tiring you out):
Keep asking.
How does one know for certain if they have the gift of tongues or if others really have it?
My suggestion is to view the sounds coming from one’s mouth as genuine. We all know when we are faking. As for others, it is not important for us to evaluate someone else’s way of praying.
In my own experience, many people that I have met (all non-catholic) claimed that they have the gift of tongues, but they don’t prove it by showing me an example.
That also baffles me.
Is it something that one would be embarrassed about? Why are they so secretive about it? Perhaps there is no one here that can answer that last question but those people themselves. But then, maybe someone on these forums maybe able to offer a possible explaination.
If they have the Gift of speaking God’s message to the community which requires an interpreter, they should be able to speak freely about their experiences. Let me explain what usually happens in a Catholic prayer meeting.
The prayer meeting starts out with songs of praise. In between, the group prays in tongues or in English as individuals. After praising and thanking God, everyone becomes very quiet out of respect for the Holy Spirit Who may be preparing someone to be a messenger of God. In our hearts, we are asking God to send us a message. The message may be a pertinent Scripture passage or it may be words of exhortation to lead better lives, etc.
A person with the gift of speaking God’s message will also be in humble prayer. When the moment is right, this person will speak the message in an unknown language. Again, there will be silence as we pray for an inspired interpretation. This comes from the person with the gift of interpretation. In addition, in some prayer groups there will be individuals who will discern if the interpretation is authentic. A message which is in conflict with the teachings of the Catholic Church would be a fake.
The meeting may conclude with petitions or a special prayer. There may be discussion of how the “message” needs to be applied to our daily lives. Sometimes a speaker gives a teaching. The basic idea is to praise and thank God and then listen to God, individually in our own souls, or publically through hearing God’s message in tongues and then in interpretation.
Have you ever felt embarrassed to speak in tongues?
No. There are times when someone asks to hear tongues. If we are near a church, I suggest we make a visit to pray to God together. Or I find a quiet spot. Then I briefly explain the meaning of prayer tongues, quiet my own soul so I can yield to the Holy Spirit, and then let the Holy Spirit use my voice. I do mix in English prayers such as I love You Jesus and thank You for all You have done for me, etc. Then I am silent so my partner in prayer can pray in her own way.
It is a gift from the Holy Spirit after all. It sure would make things easier for those of us who have not experienced it, to know what it is.
As I said someplace, one does not have to be prayed over to receive the gift of praying in tongues. This will sound odd, but one of the ways to receive the gift of prayer tongues is to be so open to the Holy Spirit, that one is willing to imitate the prayer language of someone else.
This is the theory. A barrier to receiving the gift of tongues is the fear of doing something embarrassing. Having strange sounds come out of one’s mouth is not exactly an ordinary experience. The initial sounds could be grunts, off key notes, bits and pieces of some strange language or even a humming sound. For some people, it is plain difficult to yield control to the Holy Spirit.
What I do is to ask the person to stand close to me and try to imitate what I am saying. This is like a jump start. Usually, the person is concentrating on two things: the desire to pray in a pleasing way to God by yielding to the Holy Spirit and at the same time trying to imitate some of my sounds. Embarrassment fades. The person begins to relax as he or she becomes aware of strange sounds coming from his or her mouth. Sometimes the person feels that the sounds are changing – changing into one’s own personal prayer language.
It is hard to say when the person’s prayer ceases to be an imitation. That is not important. What is important is that the person eventually tries on his or her own to yield to the Holy Spirit and not hold back the sounds which may come. In other words, there is no right way or wrong way to be receptive to the Holy Spirit. Trust Him.
With me, there is a desire to pray in tongues, to let the Holy Spirit take over. It doesn’t make any difference what kind of sound I start with, or if I keep repeating what sounds like a phrase or if the sounds are uneven or if they flow. I am comfortable with whatever.
At the charismatic catholic healing masses is it a common occurence to have people speak with tongues? It seems to happen frequently at protestant pentecostal services.
Charismatic healing Masses do not have a set pattern. One I used to go to began with the Sacrament of Reconciliation given individually by priests, followed by the Sacrament of the Eucharist which often included the longest homily on record, and following the Mass there was the Sacrament of Anointing of the Sick. There would also be time for praying in tongues.
The main thing in a “healing” Mass is the Mass itself. The Eucharist is the source and summit of our faith. Charismatic activity leads to this Great Sacrament.
Blessings,
granny
Individuals bring their individuality to the Holy Spirit.