Thank you for a thoroughly amusing way of looking at things. I never thought a person could see things in such a… creative light…and it will only serve to amuse yourself and others.
I did not post to amuse anyone.
In response to this:
You seem to have a confusion concerning what a debate is, and how things usually go after it has been established.
When a debate is begun, a topic is chosen, sometimes intentionally (thread subject) and sometimes arbitrarily (when persons begin talking about a tangent). In this case, the topic was chosen arbitrarily, because posters began talking about whether or not it is respectful to sleep in the Church.
I do understand a debate. I felt you were turning other people’s conversation into a debate for them to defend their position in a manner accepting to you. I see Peter Plato has accepted the debate format with you and has helped to set the rules between those debating.
Now, once the argument has been established, all subsequent posts which are posted in response to that argument are expected to stay on topic.
When some people posted their reason for believing St. Boniface Church should serve the poor by allowing them to sleep in the pews even during Mass, you decided their reasoning was off topic or otherwise not accepted. The poster was stating their reason, their feeling. I felt these posters should be able to quote scripture that they felt drew their hearts to accept the weary sleeping in the pew when invited by the church. Many seem to be having a conversation. You were holding a debate under your rules and your decisions.
I’m not playing a game or scoring points. Maybe you are, but I am not. If you wish to look at me as doing so, go ahead; it will do you no good and me no harm.
This is a good point. However, I will not accept it as a point on my side, because I am not debating about helping people but about the respect to the Sacrament
The reason I mentioned “scoring points” is because you wrote: “This is a good point. However, I will not accept it as a point on my side.” It was your response to grotto in your post of #123.
I felt very much called to respond to you in regards to your quote below. I asked God to help me at Mass to know if I should respond.
When I heard the second reading, I thought “yes”, that was clearly an answer that it was acceptable to share my thoughts with you. Then at Father’s homily, he focused on the reading and even mentioned that there might be someone with whom we should share these words.
Fair enough. If I have seemed sarcastic or unkind, it is probably a side effect of my frustration at most of my points being ignored, especially by “Cheezy.”
When I am in a discussion and my opponents keep making points which I have refuted previously, instead of making an unkind remark my normal response is slight sarcasm, because it is often more effective to let a person see their own mistake rather than point it out to them.
These are my thought on your remarks.
I do not think some of the posters here felt they were your “opponents” as you called them.
You do at times appear sarcastic and unkind. You say that it is probably a “side effect of (your) frustration”.
None of us can allow our feelings to become an action that is unkind to another. You felt some people, and especially Cheezy, were “ignoring” your points. Your feeling of being ignored does not give you a just reason to sound unkind.
As you gave me a suggestion to read over my post so I had a chance to fix them…
RoseMary, I’d suggest reading over your own posts and seeing where your logic contradicts itself, so you get a chance to fix them. .
…I would like to make a suggestion to you (which would apply to all of us) that when writing, in conversation or debate, that you take a chance to fix them, to remove any signs of unkindness.
Mass Reading for Feb. 3, 2013
usccb.org/bible/readings/020313.cfm
1 Cor. 12:31-13.3
Love is patient, love is kind.
It is not jealous, it is not pompous,
It is not inflated, it is not rude,
In all charity, Lent may be a good time to reflect on how you treat others with your writings and “smilies”. (Asking if homeless people are owls and following that with

is not kind.)
St. Peter tells us, “Always be prepared to make a defense to any one who calls you to account for the hope that is in you, yet do it with gentleness and reverence” (1 Peter 3:15).
When we share in conversation or debate, let us do so with “gentleness and reverence”.
To make your point as to the Reverence due Our Lord at the expense of being unkind to another person, lowers reverence due Our Lord.
Peace.