For all the intentions of this thread.
Dear St. Monica, pray to Jesus for help with my depression. I am so unhappy in my life and my marriage. DH listened to me last night for the first time in months and I came away even angrier feeling like he is only passively supporting me. Jesus, I need DH to say to me ‘I’m here for you, I will support and encourage you in any way you need.’ Not, ‘Yeah, I agree you need some help. You should ask the dr for a script for some antidepressants.’ I feel like he’s saying, sure, go for it, I’ll be here on the couch.
St. Monica, ask Jesus to help me control my thoughts and QUIT DWELLING ON THE NEGATIVE!!! I feel like a prisoner in my own mind!!! Please Dear Jesus, give me your Joy. Come into my heart and fill in all the holes with your love. Heal my memories Lord and help me to thrive and not just survive. I love you Lord and I want to serve you.
I love listening to Catholic radio, but I feel like I’m just beating my head against the wall with all these great insights I’m gaining b/c I have nobody to share them with and I’m unable to implement them in my family b/c DH is not on board w/ me. I feel like I’m just frustrating myself and actually making myself more miserable listening to it.
Help Me Jesus! Bring DH back to the Church.
:hug1: I’m sorry you’re having such a tough time. Have you actually said those words to your DH? That you need to know he will be the strong one you can lean on for encouragement and support right now? I’ve found that men often need to be told exactly what we need…we ladies are good at figuring things out intuitively, men tend to need directness, know what I mean?
Here is the optional closing prayer from the Chaplet of Divine Mercy:
Eternal God, in whom mercy is endless and the treasury of compassion - inexhaustible, look kindly upon us and increase your mercy in us, that we might not despair nor become despondent, but with great confidence submit ourselves to your holy will, which is love and mercy itself, Amen.
Might I suggest also praying the Rosary and Chaplet of Divine Mercy? You can pray them with special intentions for your family (that’s what I do). They will also bring you closer to Our Lord Jesus and give you strength. :hug1: In case you’re not familiar with them, you can find the Rosary here:
ewtn.com/Devotionals/prayers/rosary2.htm and the Chaplet of Divine Mercy here:
thedivinemercy.org/message/devotions/chaplet.php
PRAYER TO ST. MONICA
Dear St. Monica,
troubled wife and mother,
many sorrows pierced your heart during your lifetime.
Yet, you never despaired or lost faith.
With confidence, persistence, and profound faith,
you prayed daily for the conversion
of your beloved husband, Patricius,
and your beloved son, Augustine;
your prayers were answered.
Grant me that same fortitude, patience,
and trust in the Lord.
Intercede for me, dear St. Monica,
that God may favorably hear my plea for
(the intentions of all on this thread)
and grant me the grace to accept His Will in all things,
through Jesus Christ, our Lord,
in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, forever and ever.
Amen.
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